Onchedu:

That's not perfection. His behavior might be a clear sign he goes out of his way to hide something he's lacking. He might need to see a professional for help. . . .

virago:

@ assme

Actually he's gentle on bed and I love his love making

@ mzdarkskin
He has a funny side and can be very affectionate but he just can't stand disorderliness

OH! well not to be funny but are you a messy gal?

virago:

I'm not messy , I'm just a regular girl. Yeah I can leave my shoes in the living room at times or forget to put a cd in it's case but I don't see that as being messy

virago:

I just don't know what to do about my boyfriend , the guy is cool and all that : makes a reasonable living . handsome . well built and responsible. The problem I have with him is that he lives like a robot , I mean what can you say about someone who arranges money from the smallest to the highest denomination , from the dirtiest to the cleanest and all facing the same side. He has a shelf of books arranged alphabetically with different autors on each row. His cd's are a no go area , keeping genres in different packs and artist alphabetically. he arranges everything in his flat before leaving every morning and nothing must be out of place when he comes back.
The problem I have is he goes into a fit for the slightest mistake , the other day I left a tumbler on the dining table and when he came back he was ready to bust a vein , I mean who gets angry about such things. If the bed sheet has creases all hell will be let loose. If you watch a cd and you don't put it back in the right order be prepared for a tongue whooping. His younger ones can't live with him cos of this attitude and I heard he literally drove his ex mad with his meticulous persona. Truth to tell he doesn't use swear words and he'll never lay a finger on me but can I live with a robot.

He's just too perfect he's a fault

virago:


. . .He doesn't forget dates. Whern he sets goals he meets them . . .

virago:

@ ujujoan
Does he need medical attention for this or just the therapy. Where will he get the help from.

I have had a couple of relationships and altho he's not been the most romantic , he certainly has been the most stable. He doesn't nag or use swear words , he hasn't cheated on me [ all my exes are guilty of this ] and I don't see him doing so. He's mildly romantic , doesn't forget dates. Whern he sets goals he meets them , quite a lot of qualities most men lack in this day and time. But can I overlook his one undoing , what is the possibility of getting someone as stable as him

Ujujoan:

It's a psychological condition. He needs a psychologist.

Eventually he's going to drive himself crazy if care is not taken. OCDs often degenerate to schizophrenia which is synonymous with pure madness.

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Mr, Cork:

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virago:

You mean he'll go loco

Ujujoan:

What did I tell you about mentioning my name eh    

Ujujoan. sweeery, am sooooo ready to love you like Sugarcane!

Ujujoan:

He's suffering for Obsessive Compulsive Disorder!    

Ujujoan:

He's suffering for Obsessive Compulsive Disorder!   

foyeks2001:

I wont support neither wld I discourage u in dis kind of relationship
but to me, doesnt worth it, it reminds of dis rumour I heard about a couple that got divorced just because of d way a toothpaste should be applied(it cld be true though)

Seun:

Yeah, it's tending towards OCD. If you love him you'll help him get a proper diagnosis and maybe seek help, because OCD isolates the sufferers from people who can's stand the behaviour.