pauli coco: A beg! If ur man is beating u, beat rubbish out of him! Who born de idiot? That is what my aunt did to her husband after years of violent abuse( her bini madness kicked in eventually). He even had to go to hospital for a week and trust me he never laid hands on her after that

I guess SHE showed HIM.

ifyalways: what sort of question is this?
Go through the many domestic abuse threads we have in nld,it wud give u an idea of what an "average churchous nigerian model wife" would do.

Which is?

All i can tell you op is that men have beaten their wives to death and covered it up. Ask lawyers or ngo's.

mamagee3:
I don't get why a normal human being would ask such a reetarded question.

Afterall, this is a question about domestic violence and shouldn't be tolerated in anyway.

So, asking such questions is an offense to me.

hey, the OP isn't the cause of your problems. Don't come online just to fester frustration. What did the Lady ever do to you, she posted on a public forum and you want to bite off her ears.. fuckiiing turn a blind eye. Ladies like you are the reason they say women are feeble minded

My name is blessing Koop. What every woman should do when a man abuses her is leave. He might promise never to do it again but eventually he will. Men who are violent never change and it is better to leave before your kids are exposed to it and do it to their own spouse in the future. I once had an abusive fiancé. We were doing the courtship thing and I wanted to visit him for a few weeks . Within this time of staying with him beat me more than 10 times. He was possessive, jealous and didn't even want my family to call my phone. I bought the Pepsi crate instead of coke and he poured every single Pepsi on my body. On top of this he made me clean the floor and abused me also sexually. I didn't know he was like this cause we had never spent a night together before then. Only phone calls and going out occasionally. I am now happily married to the best man ever. He hardly ever raises his voice and respects me. Please women, get jobs so u can stand alone when a man cannot be a husband to u anymore and becomes a dictator. No woman should be a punching bag.