Stacyomolola:
Normally e no suppose better for both u and the girl

MagmaPower:
You want to date someone that’s emotionally cheating on her man with you and expect her not to cheat on you?
Borrow brain oh

Stacyomolola:
Normally e no suppose better for both u and the girl

confirmedniggae:
Good evening .

There is this fair lady at my office where I work as an accountant .She is my subordinate .We have been together as friends for the past two and half months though I asked her out and she gave me YES as answer but why I am not taking her YES very serious is because she have been refusing a date with me .We barely have time though but out of no time ,I think we can still have time together and she knows this .


We are both fond.of each other to the extend that we can't do without chatting a day even up till 3am sometimes .We chat mostly on everything including sex especially how she will like to insert her hands into my pant and squeeze my balls .I actually take her as my bestie because she doesn't actually like to have a date and I made up my mind I will never part with my money .Sometimes,I do buy her things mostly when I am passing through her house or sometimes at work but I have never given her money before and she never asked though.


What I noticed about her is that she likes the way I chat with her .She told me she has a boyfriend and she doesn't like chatting with him because he replies very slow .Most time,I get on her nerves(mostly when I nag) and at every point in time I get her on nerve ,she will tell me she is tired of me and we should go our seperate way.


Three days ago,I dropped my ATM card with her for the fact that I don't want to take my card home because I will be off the next day .That very day ,she asked for my pin and I said no.

This morning she sent message as early as 7am and complained why I didn't chat her at all throughout yesterday and I said I am tired of her company and she said I should have told her then that she will never disturbed me anymore.She was on her way to school when we were saying this because she is a part time student(she doesnt work Saturdays and Sundays ) .She later asked for my pin again and told me she forgot her card at home that she needed #2000 for transport .I asked her to call her bf to send money to my account that when I see the alert ,I will tell her my pin and she will withdraw the money ..


Anyway ,let me just screenshot all our chats and I want you to tell me the game she is playing ..

Sorry ,I can't arrange the chats according to time ..abeg no vex

I don't mind spending on her o but I like to taste from her honey pot before I start doing that o to avoid scamming oo..and I dont mind if she cheat on me ..who cares

samincredible44:
so u gave a girl that has a boyfriend ur ATM.after we end swat,we suppose.end u

Truvel:
Ur Mistakes Are Many. I No Even Know Where I Wan Take Start Self. She Is Fond Of U But Na U Dey Make Urself Appear As A Maga Or Too Much Money B4 Her. Why Would U Give Her Ur A.T.M Card To Hold 4 U? What Impression Are U Giving Her? Honestly, Ur Sissy Attitude Would Make Her Lose Interest In U Fast.

confirmedniggae:


No I used to complain I am broke all the time to her .I just didn't want to take my card home and that was three days ago and I didn't remember to collect the card yesterday because my office is upstair while she works downstair...

Truvel:
She Is Dating U, Just See It Dat Way. Why? 4rm Ur Post, It's Obvious. U Av To Make Ur Romance With Her More Interesting. She Likes U.

QuinieR:
Relationship @work is a no no for me
I remember my supervisor always eyeing me,mo yah look away

Truvel:
She Is Dating U, Just See It Dat Way. Why? 4rm Ur Post, It's Obvious. U Av To Make Ur Romance With Her More Interesting. She Likes U.

Bikochi:
I like your sense of humour bro.
You sabi whine person!

Keep dancing around. Don't release any pin to her... Before we hear stories that touch. Why will she forget to carry money from house. She think say she wise.

Well it's obvious she likes you too but from what you described, she has friendzoned you. I doubt if she can date you with this your approach. Unless she wants to pity you.

Just relegate her. Plus office romance usually ends badly. I don't advice it.

Bikochi:

He's sitting comfortably in the friendzone. Unless he makes efforts to come out, nothing for him, las las he'll spend and have nothing to show for it.

confirmedniggae:


I swear me will not give that girl #1 until she serious ..


Girls plenty die ..I just like the girl and I think I love her so much ..since I got in here over three months ,I have never asked any girl out or be so close to any girl except her ..


I love her so much but not to the extent of giving her money ..I will not do that now

Bikochi:

I'm seriously laughing here. You sound like a man hopelessly in love. This babe go still chop you. Nothing you can do about it
You'll try to make up for the 2k you didn't give her so she can continue talking to you. Thats when she'll eat her cake and have it and you won't be aware

confirmedniggae:


Seriously I knew she was not with her card true true because I gave studied to know the kind of girl she is ..if she can be this pained that I didn't give her #2k or the pin ,seriously she wouldn't be lying she was not with her card.She may purposely leave her kind at home though because I know she has nothing less than #60k in her account because I use her card sometimes ..She was actually mad because she didn't believe I will never give her the pin hearing that she want to use the money to eat .

She was never this mad with me though but in all,I just feel she is friendzoning me .she actually want to eat her cake and still have it ..me as a person will never send or give her my #1 for now ..

Bikochi:
Allow her to be mad and angry, she'll stylishly find her way back if she really likes you.
You didn't do anything wrong bro. Stop seeing yourself as the victim. By the way, continue with your playful mode with her. It's nice. Don't make things tense!

When she has calmed down try to invite her over to you house. All that fixing a date has failed. Maybe she doesn't want to be seen in public with you since she still has a 'boyfriend'. Invite her over and have your date

stanliwise:

Really don’t know how to put it. But she complain of being hungry and needed your card to get something and you declined. Fine it’s cool but if she is guy would you still act same way?
Normal thing is that you tell her, that the money there is for something totally and if she takes 2k she would return it back.
If she agrees then fine, if not then no.
This psychology is a reverse psychology thing, you just from here prove your jealousy somewhat.

Maybe you should stop “go ask your boyfriend” strategy. It sounds not too mature. Simply say you don’t have or No. To attack a boy girlfriend you have to use the straw man fallacy.

Make I go drink water