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Re: What Did You Think She Is Trying To Do by 21savages: 10:52am On Nov 01, 2020 |
Uncle93:I swear dwn. as a broke guy i jst dy on my own, i dnt wnt to add more salt to my wound.. 1 Like |
Re: What Did You Think She Is Trying To Do by DhanBaba(m): 10:54am On Nov 01, 2020 |
JasperVII: Yes I planned to borrow the money .. With all I heard .m not borrowing any money again 1 Like |
Re: What Did You Think She Is Trying To Do by DhanBaba(m): 10:57am On Nov 01, 2020 |
Privatepart00: Thanks for the talk... You did well |
Re: What Did You Think She Is Trying To Do by Lamanii22(f): 11:07am On Nov 01, 2020 |
Uncle93: Like seriously? A girl is saying she'd become your slave and white for money? Or 1 Like |
Re: What Did You Think She Is Trying To Do by massalati(m): 11:28am On Nov 01, 2020 |
If i share my own story here, i swear una go abuse me tire...let me safe it |
Re: What Did You Think She Is Trying To Do by WrittyWritter(f): 11:33am On Nov 01, 2020 |
There was a place were u said u wanted to borrow to give her d 2k...if d money was to give ur mother..abi sibling..or even a begger sef..do u know d kind of blessing dat will enter ur life .. U guys just like to carry want u can't handle .she is billing u..u can't afford her den leave her..dey tie u leg there ni ..if u know wat is gud 4 u better carry ur load shift...If u think it is 2k dat she really needs den u are a fool.. She wants a break dat one is normal na..when u ready licking one ice cream..if u want to taste another don't u have to drop d one u were licking first..so dat u can determine which one taste better ....Abeg leave her she is searching for d ice cream dar taste better 2 Likes |
Re: What Did You Think She Is Trying To Do by aje55393: 11:37am On Nov 01, 2020 |
:Be successful Then date successful gfIf she said I love you... Its realI still don't understand... How would you know her I love you... Is real |
Re: What Did You Think She Is Trying To Do by aluyapreston: 11:41am On Nov 01, 2020 |
DhanBaba: na when you no get bro be the best bet o my girl tho she get her own issues have never billed me. na me dey collect support from her once once, she just dey concern with me achieving my dream. when I blow, I go marry her (if she remain a jewel) and buy her the world 2 Likes |
Re: What Did You Think She Is Trying To Do by KristaPretty(f): 11:44am On Nov 01, 2020 |
Like what?? Please if you cannot afford 2k as a person, don't even bother going into a relationship. Don't let any man or woman put you under pressure. Let her go and look for who to buy her nonsense pallazo 3 Likes |
Re: What Did You Think She Is Trying To Do by Michelle55: 11:50am On Nov 01, 2020 |
Use that 2k buy shawarma and malt for yasef biko. Gehs wahala no dey finish. Only give what you can afford to lose and never be pressured into parting with ya money. This tactics she's using is emotional blackmail, in order to sidetrack you and knack another dude. What has love gat to do with space? If you love someone you would always be in their space, getting involved in their lives positively and maintain steady communication even when things ain't going right. Simply let her go and face your life squarely, you ought to be thinking of ways to increase your bank account and not women. Udo!! |
Re: What Did You Think She Is Trying To Do by Raalsalghul: 11:55am On Nov 01, 2020 |
Uncle93: Careful, lest she gets pregnant and use the baby to tie you down |
Re: What Did You Think She Is Trying To Do by Gavorche: 12:25pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
Uncle93: How did you make money abeg show boys way I want make good money |
Re: What Did You Think She Is Trying To Do by SyIvalord: 12:39pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
DhanBaba:As sure as the fact that the sun will set this evening and rise again tomorrow. That girl is about to cheat. She will cheat and if you guys ever come back together and you find out she cheated, she will give the excuse that you guys were on a break when it happened so it doesn’t count as cheating. It’s their modus operandi. 4 Likes |
Re: What Did You Think She Is Trying To Do by joegigs(m): 12:41pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
My guy we learn from others,do share biko massalati: 1 Like |
Re: What Did You Think She Is Trying To Do by KidDarkness(m): 12:44pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
Michelle55:I'll drink to your comment. Cheers! 1 Like
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Re: What Did You Think She Is Trying To Do by SyIvalord: 12:44pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
Seandisputed:You are blunt. No cap |
Re: What Did You Think She Is Trying To Do by willybaby(m): 12:58pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
Ubunja ur needed by @Dhanbaba aka Dhanmumu sha it's love but Bleep love bro, u no d owe her 2k no need explaining yourself or borrowing, from mid term break to assu strike.. move on bro your even lucky u no borrow give her then break start 1 Like |
Re: What Did You Think She Is Trying To Do by mosdii(m): 12:58pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
That Lil' Break-Up She Initiated For No Reason PROLOGUE. Short Break-Ups: those brief periods when a woman just ups and leaves for reasons best known to herself that she'll never care to explain. and spend weeks and months out of the picture, only to resurface again willing to continue where you two left things off. those short break-ups, they are not inevitable storms in Paradise, the woman is manipulating the weather.... 1. THE SHORT BREAKUP AS A WOMAN'S WAY OF MAKING HERSELF IRREPLACEABLE. When: usually at the early stages of the relationship. after countless days and almost superhuman effort wooing her, a guy relaxes when the girl finally agrees to be his GF. however, as the guy settles down to enjoy the fruits of his labour, the new GF's real work has just begun... the guy who just won her heart has a car, a job and a nice place: everything a man needs to be happy; or to get another girl. for survival And longevity, the new GF's mission now is to blind the guy to that reality by becoming the man's sole Source of Happiness and by making herself Irreplaceable. but how? she's broke, she's not a 10 lookswise and she's not the sweetest pussy in the land. how does she make herself priceless to a man who has everything and irreplaceable to a man who has options? (he indeed can get another girl. He has options) : by taking matters into her own hands and engineering a storm that will break her man and subdue him unto her. In nature, when the Lioness hunts, she first isolates her prey from the herd. alone, exposed, and vulnerable the animal becomes an easy kill. likewise, before breaking her man, the woman separates him from the "Herd". How?? by acting CLINGY , like she wants the man all to herself. that's how a woman separates a man from the herd. friends And family are that herd. and so it begins, the Man's friends who're single the woman pushes away by complaining:" but you cant continue hanging out with your single friends, you don't have anything in common anymore.you now have me!”. My guy does those words sound familiar? Mhhmm? Next her complaints are against those friends of his who are dating: "Your friends' GFs all hate me. maybe its because im a new comer...sniff sniff!" *insert fake tears here* and poof!!! the guy vanishes from his circle of friends. He figures he owes his allegiance to this woman he met barely a few months ago and in walking away from friendships that have lasted his whole life he feels he's doing his duty to his woman. Lastly the man is seperated from his family. His visits to his family become few and far between. a combination of :"Your mother hates me" and"Your sisters are jealous of me"; from his woman now keeps him away. the dumb love-struck puppy of a man is now separated from the herd. Whats-more, he doesn't immediately feel the absence of friends And family because the new GF is overdosing him with attention, love and sex. and so, inevitably, his life starts revolving around 1 person: the new GF. his WhatsApp profile now feature her pics with the words :" She' My Everything" blah blah blah. His money and resources only feel good to have as long as they are spent on his woman. But then when friends and family have been cut off and the guy become fully separated from all who care about him, totally dependent on the woman for everything from friendship and advice to sex, comfort and solidarity - when the prey has been fully separated from the herd - the Lioness finally orchestrates her Power Move and goes in for the kill. She strikes!!! Suddenly, from nowhere, without warning, without explanation or any wrong-doing on the man's part, the GF throws a fit, moves out and withdraws her love. it happens so fast and at the highest sweetest point of euphoria when the guy is the most drunk in love and The most confident in her love... he's left dazed and lost in this darkest hour of confusion and mind fvcks. he has pushed friends and family away, now pride and ego forbid him from reaching out for help and insight. he's in mental and emotional anguish and cant think straight. the once independent carefree bachelor finds he cant live without some woman who didn't even exist in his life a few months ago. his good life suddenly has no meaning. His money and resources no pleasure. he has been manipulated into looking to his woman as the source of his happiness. and the moment he fully cut off all friends And family and leaned fully and squarely on her of whom he had declared" She's My Everything", she stepped away, leaving him to fall. Days of pain and confusion turn to weeks of pain that become unbearable. the poor guy is doing everything in his power to get his GF back. He begs and begs and begs through messages relayed via her friends, calls and messages. he apologizes for whatever he did to upset her. after a long while; she relents and reluctantly forgives him, for whatever he did wrong. its never mentioned. (because it never existed). and every time the guy asks what he did wrong he'll get the sharp answer :"You know what you did" ; and scared to piss off his woman all over again he'll stop asking. The truth is, it was never about Right And Wrong, it was a power move. about Power And Control. moving back into the relationship and back to his man's house, the GF holds all the Power in the relationship now. the man has lowered his own value by begging her back. because in every relationship, THE ONE WHO LOVES LESS HAS MORE POWER AND THE ONE WHO LOVES MORE HAS LESS POWER BECAUSE THE ONE WHO LOVES LESS CAN AFFORD TO WALK AWAY ANYTIME BUT THE ONE WHO LOVES MORE CANT WALK AWAY BECAUSE HE CANT LIVE WITHOUT THE OTHER. from that point onwards, the relationship is on the woman's terms. and the man is forever dealing from a position of weakness. he's a broken man. a tamed stallion. where he was all confidence and command, his new vocabulary consists of weak statements like :"I'll ask Joyce first!" and "Time for me to go, Sheila doesn't want me to stay out this late!" or "Happy wife happy life" blah blah blah. the woman has done the impossible. She has made herself Priceless to a man with everything; and Irreplaceable to a man with options. 2. THE SHORT BREAKUP AS A WOMAN'S WAY OF CHEATING WITHOUT CHEATING. When: usually at a later stage in the relationship women hate cheating. especially if they really love you. yet sometimes a girl gets offered a dick her pussy cant say No to. or gets introduced to a man her heart cant say No to. and so the girl does calculations in her head: cheating is an offense, a betrayal, that will cause incalculable heartache and break all trust forever. on the other hand; she can pull the ultimate stunt: Breakup for a short while to be single and free to indulge... that way No relationship, No betrayal, No broken trust and No guilty feelings on her part. she calculates breaking your heart through a Breakup is faster and cheaper to correct later than breaking your heart through Cheating. because breakups are not an offense so there is really no bad guy in the equation. so the girl goes with option B: the Short Break-Up - to free herself briefly to cheat or to explore a possible higher-value relationship. and so; one ordinary sunny day she looks at you and says: "WE NEED TO TAKE A BREAK." words that hit you like a train that just appeared from nowhere. she'll give no reason why nor will she say for how long the break will last. she says "lets take a break" to leave a door open for herself. she's telling you she's going, but not permanently. she'll be back. and wants you on pause not playing on. she has things to do that she cant do while dating you. now, there are 2 things in this world a woman has to be single first to do with a clear conscience knowing she's not hurting any man: being a Nun and being a Whòré. single women make the best nuns and also single women are the biggest whòrès out there. and being a Whòrè can be a 0 dick affair that's all about trying out a new romance with a better man at your expense, a 1 dick temptation or a fully-fledged multi-dick whòre-phase. so your girl will walk and for the next weeks or months she'll avoid you, your calls, your friends and your favourite places (so the two of you don't cross paths). while you walk around in a cloud of pain with no relief, she's walking on clouds wishing it doesn't end. She is riding all manner of Dick and doing all manner of shet Or just going out on clean dates with a potential new man...... but all good things will come to an end. She will get her fill of Dick. Or that potential affair with a hottter man will fail to materialize. Either way she must return back to good old waiting you. her status updates on social networks will start conveying nostalgia and regrets. and you, ever watchful and stalkerish, unable to move on, readily picks up on them, taking the hint your bird is coming back! she'll start asking your friends how you're doing, if someone's taken her place. Your gullible friends will rush to you with news of how she misses you. unknown to their simple minds they're being played like chess pieces, preparing the way for her. because the minute they deliver the good news you'll drop any girl you may have started chasing and put your house in order. in time, communications will resume, meet-ups, ending with tears of reunion and sweet makeup sex. you are happy your girl is back.she's happy she found you waiting. you'll celebrate the re-union and rekindle the romance; but deep deep deep within her womb gallons of sperm from her sex-capade reside. who knows, maybe a baby is even in the making.... who knows....and if a baby is indeed in the making guess who gets the fathering duties and costs?? Cc: ubunja Read this DhanBaba 2 Likes |
Re: What Did You Think She Is Trying To Do by chiefolododo(m): 12:59pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
Things are happening |
Re: What Did You Think She Is Trying To Do by JasperVII(m): 1:04pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
DhanBaba:Why would you even think about borrowing money to give a girl? How many times have you borrowed to give your little ones 1 Like |
Re: What Did You Think She Is Trying To Do by PIXSPEAKS: 1:22pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
mosdii: Thank you ubunja,I saw this earlier this year and I tell you,it is exactly as you taught. She asked for a break..I declined.after a while, I now asked for my own break, I didn't even give her time to decline..ignored till date. She has always wanted to isolate me but it failed..Wanted to emotionally blackmail me, it failed. The other day,she posted my pix with her,I viewed and ignored.. just last week,her friend asked if I have forgotten her, I just dey laugh.. Chaii, this technique is same for all female folks.. Bring more, ubunja. Each time I see your mised |
Re: What Did You Think She Is Trying To Do by Oturatetuala(m): 1:27pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
Bikonu |
Re: What Did You Think She Is Trying To Do by Alexun(m): 1:40pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
peppermint7: I can relate with this... I gave her the break, later she took holiday, and when she wanted to leave for the vacation, she don pack her load sef before informing me. A 4 years relationship for that matter. As for the Op, allow her do what she wants, but then, put your trust in God for direction. Cause, there is absolutely nothing you can do to stop her from going for the break. |
Re: What Did You Think She Is Trying To Do by Dayoebe(m): 1:59pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
instead of giving her that 2k. I'd rather use the money to carry over 2.5 in ajax and bayern munich match. I don't care if I lose |
Re: What Did You Think She Is Trying To Do by peppermint7(m): 2:22pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
Alexun:Na so e de happen. Someone will just need a break for no reason. Nah all this nonsense do make a kuku de single. A no de like stress at all. Imagine wasting 4 yrs of someone’s time |
Re: What Did You Think She Is Trying To Do by peppermint7(m): 2:26pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
Legendmubi:U don start |
Re: What Did You Think She Is Trying To Do by peppermint7(m): 2:31pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
DhanBaba:Op this break word is just another form of nonsense. She is just side tracking u. If she gets want she wants on this break. She will turn it to holiday and then a vacation. If things doesn’t play out to her tune. She will just come bck and continue the relationship since she called it a break. I repeat once she takes the break, break up with her. Because if you comes back then knw that the reason of her break did not work out. In this case I recommend a break up. |
Re: What Did You Think She Is Trying To Do by peppermint7(m): 2:35pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
Jessepaid:A toast for this comment |
Re: What Did You Think She Is Trying To Do by Silentgroper(m): 2:35pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
Amazingboy1:walai if comedy no fit, i knw see wetin fit. |
Re: What Did You Think She Is Trying To Do by peppermint7(m): 2:37pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
massalati:Abeg share am We all need to learn |
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