A STUDY ON FEMALE MASCULINITY.

How Fatherless Girls Become Women Who Spend On Men, Put Men On A Pedestal And Consider Men The Prize.

PROLOGUE.
When a man chooses a woman, the woman is the prize. When a woman chooses the man the man is the prize.

This is true between one man and one woman.

And this is true between men as a group and women as a group.

In a patriarchy women are the Prize.

In a matriarchy men are the Prize.

The gender that holds power in a society holds the power to choose who to love. But choosing who to love places the romantic power in the hands of the gender that is chosen. The chosen gender is the prize. Hence in today's world - a Patriarchy - it's the men chasing, spending, impressing and sacrificing. While women barely lift a finger because they're the prize.

But now with women gaining power equal to, and even more than, men's, at all levels from education to business to politics - thanks to Women Empowerment and female focused government legislation - the prize is slowly becoming men.
The more power women are gaining the more power they have to choose the men they really want, but the less power they have in relationships with those men.

The more powerful women are becoming, the less powerful men are becoming but the more powerful dick is becoming. Just like how the more powerful men were the less powerful women were but the more powerful pussy was.

This sea change begins with the rise of one particular individual who the Red Pill especially hates with a passion, but who's about to alter reality by redefining Femininity and Masculinity - changing everything.

That individual is the Single Mother.

She changes everything.

THE SINGLE MOTHER, THE GAME CHANGER.
Let's say a man and his wife have a daughter and a son. The man will be gentle with the daughter but stern with the son. While the mother will be gentle with the son but stern with the daughter.

This is generally how parents relate to their children in many countries.

The daughter enjoys the father's love. The son enjoys the mother's love. The daughter endures the mother's tough instruction. The son endures the father's tough instruction. This way the children grow up balanced having been sternly instructed and also dearly loved.

As for the girl, her father's unconditional manly love allows her to be soft, vulnerable and girly - which is her femininity. And growing up she'll be drawn to masculine men - men like her father - who provide safety and allow for her to maintain her vulnerability.
"Safety" here DOES NOT mean physical safety but a "safe place" - someone who can be trusted. With a man she can trust, a woman can be vulnerable. Where "vulnerable" DOES NOT mean weakness but rather a woman feeling safe enough with a man to admit to him her truest feelings, by so doing risking him taking advantage of her but trusting him not to take advantage.

Think of it this way: Weakness is a woman not being strong enough to challenge a man to a fight. But vulnerability is a woman opening up to a man about her weaknesses, limitations, fears, hopes and desires, and trusting this not to be used against her. This is vulnerability. It's placing yourself in a position where you can be hurt, by baring your heart. It takes bravery. When a woman is vulnerable with the right man, he compensates for her weak points and shortcomings. What he does is he unites his strengths with her weaknesses. He unites his plans, ambitions and purpose in life with her wishes, hopes and desires.

Many women have not opened up to their boyfriend or husband. Never will they let him see them at their weakest and lowest, overwhelmed by life's problems and breaking under the weight of the world. Most women will rather show weakness to their friend. Only their friend gets to see them at their lowest and weakest overwhelmed and broken. Never their man. Why? Because they don't trust their man.
They fear their man will take advantage. That he'll use this against them tomorrow.

As a woman you may trust your man not to cheat or doublecross you. But as long as you don't trust him with your weak points and problem areas - when you're not vulnerable with him - he's not the One. Because you don't consider him a safe place. Your bond and connection will not reach soulmate level.

You don't have the implicit childlike trust in him that you had in your father.

A father is the first man a little girl trusts fully and is vulnerable with. And he'll never take advantage of her but will be her strengths and solutions. She always has his ear and sympathy. He's never dismissive. He never scoffs. He never mocks. Nothing she tells him will be used against her tomorrow.

Everything is safe with him.

He is a safe place.

Now let's go ahead and remove him from the picture:

When a girl has a strong loving father, she has someone to watch over her, shield her from harm and allow her to stay soft and carefree and peaceful - in other words, stay feminine. But the exit of the father changes everything.

With his exit the girl's shield departs. Her safe place dissolves. And she quickly learns the world can be a harsh place. And with daddy gone, she has to face the harshness on her own. There is no help coming. She has no one to count on but HERSELF.

And with that she toughens up.

She enters into her masculine.

Her femininity erases.

She has lost her innocence.

The soft, peaceful vulnerable little girl that she is withdraws inside of her as a tough persona comes out. This tough persona is the foundation of the Independent Woman. The fierce and feared self-sufficient woman who can do for herself. But inside this woman, inside the hard shell, sits a little girl - wounded and traumatized - wondering about her father. And in every man the woman deals with, she's looking for her father, a man like him, who can bring the little girl out again.

FATHERS SHAPE WOMEN'S FEMININITY.
A father is the first man a girl knows. And a girl builds her femininity around him. Her feminine energy takes form using his masculine energy as a point of reference.

It's a straightforward process:
Daughters win with their father by being soft, girly and vulnerable, which teaches them TO WIN WITH OTHER MEN using the same soft tools. These soft tools are what femininity is. Soft power. A woman can not develop these tools raised solely by another woman, eg her mother, because a daughter can not win with her mother by being girly, soft, tender etc. Her mother will laugh and let her know that such only works on her father. That it will never work on mothers.
Hence the widow and the single mother can not raise feminine daughters. Because a single mother and a widow are both feminine and masculine because they have to be both mother AND father to their children. And thus the example is shown to the daughter that a woman has to be the do-it-all superwoman - a woman strong and able to do without men. And if and when she deals with men, she'll carry her own weight because she's proudly capable.

In a traditional family unit of a father and a mother, a daughter can watch and learn from her mother. How her mother is soft, dependent and vulnerable around her father. But absent a father, a daughter is denied that opportunity. All she'll ever see is her mother struggling to put food on the table, constantly overwhelmed and sometimes forced to work more than one job to make ends meet. The daughter is trained into self-sufficiency. Which creates the Independent Woman.

When a mother is a Provider she unwittingly trains her daughters to be providers (for men) because the daughters learn to be providers by watching her provide. So they figure that's what women do.
Meanwhile, when a father is a Provider, he trains her daughters to seek out men who provide because they figure that's what men do.

Pickmeshism - the spirit of providing for men - has its roots in women-headed households where reality is altered, and Femininity and Masculinity redefined. Girls are taught to give, boys are taught to receive.

This is something I have a first-hand experience with as a man.

My father passed when I was barely 5 and myself and my siblings were singlehandedly raised by our mother. We had a step-father but he barely did anything tangible because he had his main family. Raised by a woman I grew up with a very particular mindset concerning a woman's money: It's my money too.
And to this day I have no shame or embarrassment taking money from a woman. Heck there are days when I'm more concerned about a woman's purse than her pussy. And I would be lying if I said I didn't grow up trying to figure out how to access successful women.

BIRTH OF A PICKMEISHA.
In a traditional family setup the father is tender with the daughter but hard on the son. While the mother is tender with the son but hard on the daughter.

The hardness from the parent of their sex trains each child to view members of their sex as competition. The boy's father is his first competition. The girl's mother is her first competition. The boy grows up competing with his father for his mother's attention. The girl grows up competing with her mother for her father's attention.

Meanwhile the tenderness of the opposite parent is a lesson on romantic love and what each child can look forward to in a relationship with the opposite sex. The boy's mother is his first love. And the girl's father is her first love.

A father is a girl's first love whether he's there or not. Whether he's a caring provider or a deadbeat loser. All the daughter's future romances will mirror that first romance. If daddy was a present dutifully father, the girl will gravitate to present dutiful men. If daddy was an absent asshole the girl will gravitate to assholes who are absent emotionally, the state of her relationship with her father shapes all her relationships with men.

If one parent, say the father, is removed from the picture, as is almost always the case with single-parent families, balance is lost.

Without a father, a daughter has to do with only her mother's sternness and hardness without the father's love and tenderness to balance her out. While the boy now has to do with the mother's tenderness and gentleness without the father's sternness to balance him out.

The daughter sees hell from her mother. She's never given a rest but is pushed to achieve more and more and more with the mother never quite satisfied with her. Add to that the spirit of competition between mother and daughter which intensifies as the mother fears the daughter - a younger fresher woman - will steal suitors from her.

On the other hand, the son grows up tenderly dealt with and softly treated by his mother to the point where he's coddled and spoilt, expecting the world to revolve around him. Expecting women to serve him. He doesn't do any chores because mother will not allow a boy in the kitchen while there's a girl in the house. A boy will not touch a broom with a girl around. A boy will not wash any clothes with a girl around. A boy will not work around the yard with a girl around. A boy will not be sent for groceries with a girl around.

All these things are the girl's job as a woman and a future wife! All the boy can do is spend his days adored and dotted on. This treatment, these things, over the years, add up and finally convince the girl that his brother is indeed the Prize. That boys are the prize. That men are the prize.

But not just by mother's treatment of her brother is the girl made to view men as the prize, also by the way her mother, over the years, pursues men up and down begging for their affection and companionship. Her mother constantly setting the bar low, settling for less and tolerating mediocrity. All these teach the girl that men are above women. That a woman must do her best for men even if they respond with the bare minimum. It's okay. Because men are that important. And so the girl grows up seeking men's approval. Men's validation. Longing for their acceptance. Wishing to be the one chosen by men among other women. To be the one picked. She becomes what is called a Pick-Me. Which is the original term for Pickmeisha.

Pickmeisha believes she's a good catch for any man because she's better than any woman because she has achieved more than any woman and any man who chooses her will find her to be an asset. She has it all - PhD, career, car and house. Honestly how many women have that! She's a catch and men must pick her!

Pickmeisha doesn't understand that between her 35 year old self with all her accomplishments, and a 21 year old with none of her accomplishments, men will pick the 21 year old. Because the things Pickmeisha considers her "assets" are the same things men consider their "assets". The things men bring to the table, she also brings to the table. And so men don't see the need to date her because they don't feel needed.

The things that other women want from men, Pickmeisha offers to men. And so the men she attracts are different from the men other women attract. Other women attract masculine men who provide. Pickmeisha attracts feminine men who take. AKA broke men.

MATRIARCHIES CREATE PICKMEISHAS.
Pickmeisha is the product of the Matriarchy that takes form when there's an oversupply of Single Mothers and girls are raised to be tough and independent and to see education and career as the solution to hardship - which is true, but these girls never had a father and they place part of the blame on themselves believing they were bad daughters that's why daddy left and so in every man they date they seek the father they never had and they will pamper a man and spend on him to prove themselves better daughters this time around.

When the girls were young, Daddy was a symbol of all future men, now as adults, all men are a symbol of long-lost daddy.

And the cruel irony is that the more power women gain politically and economically the more they become Single Mothers and the more they raise Pickmeishas - a whole generation of successful women saturated in masculine energy who consider it their "right" and "privilege" to spend on the men they choose to love. Women who consider it unfair in a world where women have their own resources for men to be held to the outdated standard of being providers. And these women will have a point. Because they're logical. Where masculine energy flows, logic follows.

**See the last 3 pics below to see how pleasantly reasonable Pickmeishas can be.

PICKMEISHA AND BROKE MEN.
Broke men can not afford a feminine woman who seeks a masculine provider. And they don't really need such a woman. What they need is a masculine woman who makes her own money and enjoys spending on her man.

That will be Pickmeisha.

Pickmeisha is a perpetual thorn at the side of gold diggers and women in general. They hate hate hate her. More than they hate sluts and hoes. Because unlike sluts and hoes who just give sex, Pickmesha - because she's educated and has her own money - she gives men sex AND money. Can you imagine!

Listen to her:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g9Sm_QprqYw

This one bought her man rental property and he became a landlord overnight:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0EVucOUqqio

See the effort this one put to make her man feel special:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=74DblVCmiKY

But the union of a broke man and a woman who has money is doomed. Because when a woman has money but she dates a man without money, the man is never happy because he is not in his masculine. Meaning he never really feels like a man. You would think a broke man dating a woman who has money will be thankful and appreciative enough to show loyalty. But we all know what broke men in these situations do. What will happen is that the man will take the woman's money AND USE IT ON SOME OTHER WOMAN whom he really loves because it is with this other woman that he feels like a man. The broke man is so desperate to activate his masculinity even if it means using one woman's money to be masculine with another woman.

The problem here is that Society conditions men to believe their value lies in their ability to provide for women. Which makes a broke man have a problem dealing with a woman who has money even though the woman herself doesn't have a problem with his brokeness. Therefore the broke man's real problem is mindset. Not money. Hence the
saying, Poverty is a mindset

THE WOMAN WHO PAYS FOR SEX.
Where masculine energy flows, logic follows.

When women carry masculine energy they become like men, but not only in their thought process, also in their sex drive. Being masculine they carry a masculine sex drive.

They chase dick like there's no tomorrow.

There's only one woman who pays men for sex. It's not the nubile in her 20s - that one is broke. It's not the cheating wife screwing around behind hubby's back - that one is just giving it free. It's not the slut. It's not the hoe. And it's not the prostitute. *It's the Independent Woman.* That educated successful woman doing her own thing.

Ask any male prostitute or gigolo, or read any account by men who sell sex, and their most popular customer, by far, is the Independent Woman - that successful career woman living alone who has everything she wants.

She's the woman getting dicked down by prostitutes and gigolos.

She'll say she's living that lifestyle because she's too busy to date. She'll say men are too intimidated to date her so she has to buy. She'll say she owns her sexuality like men do. But what is happening is, she's burning with the lust of masculine energy.

PICKMEISHA TO FEMININITY.
A woman who grew up without a father is a woman who had to be tough in a tough world. But inside the tough exterior is a timid little girl still looking for her father. Still expecting him to ride in on a white horse and deliver her. And in every man the woman deals with, she's looking for her father, a man like him, who can set the little girl free.

And how will the woman identify such a man?

Definitely not by his money. Not by his muscles. Not by his looks. And not by the words he speaks. But rather BY HOW THE WOMAN RESPONDS TO HIM. What the man brings out of her. This will be the man who will bring out her girliness, her softness, her vulnerability and her peacefulness - which is her femininity. Her femininity is her long lost innocence. The little girl inside of her. Breaking through her masculine shell.

It's another straightforward process:
The woman usually wears jeans and trousers but around this guy she finds herself wearing dresses and skirts. The woman is bossy and headstrong but somehow around this guy she finds it easy to compromise and submit. She's fiery but around this guy she's very tame and speaks softly and gently. This guy, by just his presence makes her feel peaceful, secure and carefree - like the weight of the world has been taken off her shoulders and she feels like a little girl all over again hanging out with her all-capable father.

This guy is radiating masculine energy which is bringing out her feminine energy.

He is healing her.

The little girl inside - so long in hiding, so long in trauma - is coming out to play in the bright restorative light of the man's masculine energy.

The woman has found herself again.

#MGTOW
#TheRedPill

Nice write up ubunja.

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How can you say dick is becoming the prize when there are more feminist lesbians springing up daily and with the production of sexual tools that can perform better than some dìcks without giving you infection or pregnancy?

Ubunja is back

The truth remains that men are gradually outliving there values in today's world.
Robots are doing the works that require physical strength while women are becoming more educated and holding office and political positions all over the world.

Don't forget that most feminist will rather abort a male foetus in this world.

They are radicalizing some women into aborting any male foetus and with time, your numbers in this world will reduce and women will take power and start dealing with you lots the way you've kept women in cages for thousands of years.
Wake up and smell the coffee.

U can never disappoint!

Dande55:
The truth remains that men are gradually outliving there values in today's world.
Robots are doing the works that require physical strength while women are becoming more educated and holding office and political positions all over the world.

Don't forget that most feminist will rather abort a male foetus in this world.

They are radicalizing some women into aborting any male foetus and with time, your numbers in this world will reduce and women will take power and start dealing with you lots the way you've kept women in cages for thousands of years.
Wake up and smell the coffee.

That is the essence of the phrase " the future is female". I once read an article by a feminist that the world population of men should be reduced to 10% so that men will no longer get any power.

The king is back!

Nice one. I can confirm this was lifted from r/Theredpill subreddit. I'm always on there. And this is gold you just posted.

Kalatium:

That is the essence of the phrase " the future is female". I once read an article by a feminist that the world population of men should be reduced to 10% so that men will no longer get any power.

Yes. Men should start learning how to be pregnant with technology advancement. If not, with the way things are going and some women becoming radicalized, men will go into oblivion in the next couple of decades.

Germany
New Zealand
Sweden etc are all feminist countries and more are springing up.

By the time your white masters have surrendered to their Women, you black negroes will have no other option than to lick the feet of women in this world.


It's happening already.

When I had thought that miseducations had ceased to come.

All of sudden Ubunja is here.

Dande55:
The truth remains that men are gradually outliving there values in today's world.......

The gap between what was written and your comprehension is enough to take 33 Boeing 747-8's lined up tail to tail.

The god is back!!!!!

ubunja:
Typing...

the great ubunja is back

ubunja:
Typing...

the great ubunja is back

SKhanmi:


The gap between what was written and your comprehension is enough to take 33 Boeing 747-8's lined up tail to tail.

I didn't come here to read what was written by a hungry man Mr.

It's good to have you back bruh...

i dey come first

Come and do fellowship with me in cross river, n ur life will never remain desame

Welcome back UBUNJA.. thank you for another wonderful and insightful write up hoping for more

Dande55:
How can you say dick is becoming the prize when there are more feminist lesbians springing up daily and with the production of sexual tools that can perform better than some dìcks without giving you infection or pregnancy?

Resist the temptation to be Black Pill.

Look around you and see how Women are starting to do things for men that women 50 years ago would never ever dream of doing.

Dande55:
The truth remains that men are gradually outliving there values in today's world.
Robots are doing the works that require physical strength while women are becoming more educated and holding office and political positions all over the world.

Don't forget that most feminist will rather abort a male foetus in this world.

They are radicalizing some women into aborting any male foetus and with time, your numbers in this world will reduce and women will take power and start dealing with you lots the way you've kept women in cages for thousands of years.
Wake up and smell the coffee.

you have such a bleak world view.

The feminists are just a tiny minority and if you'll just stop following crazy writers you'll see that things are not where you think they are yet and won't be in this generation. Or the next.

A305:
Nice one. I can confirm this was lifted from r/Theredpill subreddit. I'm always on there. And this is gold you just posted.

you guys and your obsession with reddit need to get it together. Some of us here don't even go there.

SKhanmi:


The gap between what was written and your comprehension is enough to take 33 Boeing 747-8's lined up tail to tail.

he is so far far ahead that I doubt he's enjoying the present. Some of these things won't happen because even the Bible itself says of Jesus's return that people will still be marrying. Many redpillers need to be wary of turning black pill. That pill ain't good for anyone.

ubunja:
you have such a bleak world view.

The feminists are just a tiny minority and if you'll just stop following crazy writers you'll see that things are not where you think they are yet and won't be in this generation. Or the next.

This shows you are a cave man. Feminist movement is the largest all over the world. And their main aim is to emasculate Men, either through LGBTQ or by changing the natural order of things such as telling women to be independent. And your movement is actually helping them succeed. By the time men stop providing for women, and women become their own providers, men won't hold any power against women anymore. The reason men are still feared is cos of money they possess. And money brings power and courage. When women start making equal contributions to the society, they will also hold powers and then, with the termination of male foetus, male gender becomes dominated by these radicalized feminists. See black community where their men have been reduced to gays and effeminate entities and the women their embraced education and power, keep it up. Lool.

ubunja:

Resist the temptation to be Black Pill.

Look around you and see how Women are starting to do things for men that women 50 years ago would never ever dream of doing.

In actuality, it's gonna pose as a big threat in the future. Keep it up.
They are doing things for men, taking your powers, engaging themselves while chasing you out of corporate world.
Kudos with your ideology.

ubunja:
he is so far far ahead that I doubt he's enjoying the present. Some of these things won't happen because even the Bible itself says of Jesus's return that people will still be marrying. Many redpillers need to be wary of turning black pill. That pill ain't good for anyone.

Not so many believe in bible or Jesus. Even your best friends here are atheists. What's your own?

Dande55:

This shows you are a cave man. Feminist movement is the largest all over the world. And their main aim is to emasculate Men, either through LGBTQ or by changing the natural order of things such as telling women to be independent. And your movement is actually helping them succeed. By the time men stop providing for women, and women become their own providers, men won't hold any power against women anymore. The reason men are still feared is cos of money they possess. And money brings power and courage. When women start making equal contributions to the society, they will also hold powers and then, with the termination of male foetus, male gender becomes dominated by these radicalized feminists. See black community where their men have been reduced to gays and effeminate entities and the women their embraced education and power, keep it up. Lool.

dude calm down. That's not where the world is going. In South Africa women are becoming more and more economically independent but life still goes on. Where before they married for money, now they're marrying people they really love, not need. Don't read writings by extremists of the manosphere. Stay away especially from white American red Pillers. Those guys have a black pill about them that's not good for anyone.

Dande55:

Not so many believe in bible or Jesus. Even your best friends here are atheists. What's your own?

That people don't believe in God don't mean what must happen won't happen.

America dominates the world cos of the money they possess which directly gives them power. Once America goes broke, no country will fear them. This should apply to every human with common sense but you choose to dumb your own in a waste bin.