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| Is Love This Strong? Or Am I Being Stupid? by eyoniggar(m): 9:52am On Mar 15, 2011 |
My 2 and the half years relationship finally came to an end some few months back. A month later I found another girl who perfectly replaced my ex. I have had over 5 different girls during break ups in which they werent just enough as replacements, on the long run I end up back with my gurl. But in the case of this new gurl, the thoughts about my ex blew off, the extra feeling reserved all vanished. But I promised myself not to try and set eyes on her or speak to her on phone, because we both have weakness to ourselves on that aspect. Now I caught my new gurl cheating, I didnt declare a break up immediately, reason being: Modern day break up now does not demand that a guy says "ITS OVER" Silence in a manner that u dnt need to pick her calls or reply her text messages, within a short period of time, she'll get the message. That was exactly what I did. Few days later, I came across my ex in the super-market. Our eyes matched 4 and the lost feeling just came rushing back and I could easily say the feeling was the same with her. We spoke a little while and things began to correlate itself to its former-self. The reason for our break up has always been her unnecessary bragging, self-centered attitude, tongue full of insults. Although I get my own for hand too, but not as much as HERS. Now my point is, can LOVE be this strong that some1 you dont want to be with because of all these attitudes would draw you back at a sighting of her? It is that I am weak for her in particular? Or is it just that LOVE is so strong, it conquers "ALL" that you would want to contain and tolerate whatever comes from the other party? Nlanders please shed some light on this. |
| Re: Is Love This Strong? Or Am I Being Stupid? by DeBlunt: 10:21am On Mar 15, 2011 |
why not take some time off rships, go on a holiday to clear ur mind or something. U jumped out of d 1st rship cos of atitude, now jumped back in cos this one cheated on u soon you'll be jumping out again for god knows wat this time, Must u alwz be in a rship  , gosh!!! Many guys are becoming more sensitive than ladies these days, |
| Re: Is Love This Strong? Or Am I Being Stupid? by eyoniggar(m): 10:27am On Mar 15, 2011 |
^^^ Bro thats my major plan for now. In as much as I still have feelings for my 1st gurl, I used my WILL power to stay far STILL from heR. The only dis-advantage for me beinG Single and as a sexually active person is that, im gonna be straffing so bad now. That I really am avoiding.  |
| Re: Is Love This Strong? Or Am I Being Stupid? by xynerise: 10:46am On Mar 15, 2011 |
Since it is a small world for both of you and your feelings doesnt change, it means she is your destiny. What you need to do is to focus on her by changing her lifestyle maybe that was the reason you are her boyfriend. And quit double dating, it is not the answer to your problem. |
| Re: Is Love This Strong? Or Am I Being Stupid? by eyoniggar(m): 11:08am On Mar 15, 2011 |
Xynerise paddy me.Long time!!! How are you doing? Anyway she may be my destiny, only God knows. Mind you I was not double dating. We were apart when I found the new gurl. |
| Re: Is Love This Strong? Or Am I Being Stupid? by Dyt(f): 11:19am On Mar 15, 2011 |
Alexis jordon *happiness* EMmm mmm mmm mmm (4x) I gotta turn this car around I never should have left you there Boy this traffic is making me sick Boy I can ’t wait to have you near I gotta hurry hurry hurry Now quick quick quick Just step on the gas cause I don’t wanna miss this This opportunity will only come once in my life, my life I gotta hurry hurry hurry Now quick quick quick Just step on the gas cause I don ’t wanna miss this See what your bringin me boy is priceless I gotta be out of my mind not to try this Through strength I found love In time I found myself in happiness with you (x2) EMmm mmm mmm mmm (4x) Boy I need to say what ’s in my heart I was scared but I’ll do my part I came back to tell you face to face So what we have won ’t go to waste I gotta hurry hurry hurry Now quick quick quick Just step on the gas cause I don’t wanna miss this This opportunity will only come once in my life, my life Yeah Sorry sorry sorry I ’m coming down to fix this Find More lyrics at www.sweetslyrics.com You should know how I feel I know I got you twisted See what your bringin me boy is priceless I gotta be out of my mind not to try this Through strength I found love In time I found myself in happiness with you (2x) The things that you can give to me I can feel it when your holding me close You're like one of the world wonders I know I ’m going under Come see that I’m ready for this And you're so good for me You ’re my true joy You make me wanna say Mmm mmm mmm mmm (4x) Through strength I found love In time I found myself in happiness with you (2x) |
| Re: Is Love This Strong? Or Am I Being Stupid? by Orton10(m): 11:29am On Mar 15, 2011 |
Lol. |
| Re: Is Love This Strong? Or Am I Being Stupid? by eyoniggar(m): 6:27pm On Mar 15, 2011 |
@dyt, whats that song meant for? |
| Re: Is Love This Strong? Or Am I Being Stupid? by 190: 6:33pm On Mar 15, 2011 |
Eyonniggie before i open my eyes  lemme hear you are back to your exYour so called new Gf cheated on you months already, kick her 2 the curbs like real men do  women should be the last problem a man should ever be bothered about |
| Re: Is Love This Strong? Or Am I Being Stupid? by Nobody: 8:15pm On Mar 15, 2011 |
Errrm, Mr eyoniggar, my question is 'are you & your ex d only ppl living in dat place?', d story sounds like a kinda Yoruba movie where 2 ppl are always 'jamming' demselves!lol, Well, 2ndly, if u can't keep ur d!ck in ur pants cus ur sexually active, u can like to self-service small till u find ur sex in shiny armour, all I'm saying is sex shdnt b part of d reasons why u don't wanna stay single! 3rdly, u & ur ex shd gve urselves a break, a very long one at dat, & pls mingle, if u think she's the best thing since sliced bread,chances are u keep running to her & d whole cycle goes on & on & on, & u will come to Nairaland & feed us stories that we've heard before! Thank U |
| Re: Is Love This Strong? Or Am I Being Stupid? by 190: 8:37pm On Mar 15, 2011 |
dommfa:  INSALT>> EYONIGGER SLAP HER FACE!! |
| Re: Is Love This Strong? Or Am I Being Stupid? by Nobody: 8:42pm On Mar 15, 2011 |
190: DONT YOU DARE! VIOLENCE I CONDONE NOT! |
| Re: Is Love This Strong? Or Am I Being Stupid? by Nobody: 9:16pm On Mar 15, 2011 |
@190, insalt? *holds laugh* in sugar nko biko?lmao, |
| Re: Is Love This Strong? Or Am I Being Stupid? by Omolola1(f): 9:27pm On Mar 15, 2011 |
OP, It happens, Love is foolish, stupid and can make you do things you don't expect anyway you just have to be very careful with this your ex |
| Re: Is Love This Strong? Or Am I Being Stupid? by 190: 9:32pm On Mar 15, 2011 |
bhusayor: I CONDOLE VIOLET ( VIOLET IS MY 3RD NAME ) |
| Re: Is Love This Strong? Or Am I Being Stupid? by Nobody: 10:20pm On Mar 15, 2011 |
thought you posted a similar story some years back. |
| Re: Is Love This Strong? Or Am I Being Stupid? by Nobody: 10:42pm On Mar 15, 2011 |
190:  |
| Re: Is Love This Strong? Or Am I Being Stupid? by playmate(f): 11:14pm On Mar 15, 2011 |
you are being silly. . how about that? |
| Re: Is Love This Strong? Or Am I Being Stupid? by eyoniggar(m): 11:58pm On Mar 15, 2011 |
190: 190 I can see ur still ruling where we left wayback. I have diplomatically dump the new gurl.My decision as regards my wayback ex is still under questioning. Told her I needed a break, she no wan gree oo!! dommfa: Its just my nature that I must over-straff when am single, it paves way for me to do whatever without having feelings on unfaithfulness. And for the emboldened part, Im obviously not the person you are talking to. tpiah!: Tpiah Tilapia, long time HEY!! I sincerely think you need to dig up the thread that you claim is similar to this. playmate: Lol, maybe yes, maybe NO!! |
| Re: Is Love This Strong? Or Am I Being Stupid? by 25omega(m): 12:03am On Mar 16, 2011 |
for me i'll say you miss whats familiar to you thats why you keep going back. |
| Re: Is Love This Strong? Or Am I Being Stupid? by 190: 12:32am On Mar 16, 2011 |
eyoniggar: Abeg my brother >> Better person Listen to this Jam Jor while u think of a way to go back to your ex' [flash=400,300] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z6Nf9hMi6no&feature=related[/flash] |
| Re: Is Love This Strong? Or Am I Being Stupid? by xynerise: 12:33am On Mar 16, 2011 |
@eyonigger. Men am cool just keeping the fire burning. |
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