Goldieluks:

Men are mostly attracted to fake women,fake love,fake nails,fake b oobs,fake eye lash,fake everything.But when the come across the real deal,they tend to bypass it and go for the fake one instead.

Ms. Potato:

SA Goddess. I understand what u mean. My brother is having problems now on his 3 month old marriage and is really thinking second thoughts.

he dated her for 5 years and they were fighting all the time but still they were together. Now that they are married, they fight even more and he told me that she has changed after marriage and that she is a nagger, a control freak and someone whom is controlling his life cause she continuously checks his HP, his computer and so on.

I ask him didnt u know all this about her when you were dating her? He said he seriously have no idea.

And the latest news we found out is she force herself to vommit after every mal in order not to get fat@!

Inked_Nerd:


Omg, you guys need to seek medical help for her. She's damaging her body. Hmmmm, her having an eating disorder is probably contributing to her being controlling. People who have eating disorders sometimes use it as a means of control.

SA Goddess:

Sounds like your sis in law needs help . . . . .

As for changing after marriage, she was probably chilling, being passive until he said "I do" then the rainbow colours started to appear. . . . . .

elettrodad:

Unless you are on your teenage I don't really get your point.
Isn't true you put hearrings, a nice dress, some paint on your face to go out? Are you faking that way?
Are you expecting to date the man of your life without make any efforts to look a little attractive?
Are you not faking when you smile and thank you the person who said "you are so beautyful tonite" when you know you don't sleep since 6am and menstrual issue are devasting your stomach and you feel all but beauty?
What is faking? Being nice is faking? You change into a vampire after a month of wedding?
Do you really think we don't know your b.o.o.b.s. will fall at the age of 40?
Do you think we don't know about fake nails and bullsh.ts like this?
The first approach in a relation is visual, unless you stick with internet appointments which will anyway finish with sending pictures before to meet.
So what it means fake?

Edit. What Ms. Potato is saying has nothing to do with faking. She has problems herself.

SA Goddess:

Why does it seem like guys don't appreciate a woman being real/herself in a relationship?  I have noticed fake girls get "the men" because they adapt to what the man wants but realness is not appreciated anymore (my opinion).  The only problem with being fake is that the woman has to keep up the facade and possible be unhappy for a long time while the man carries on being himself. .  . . . . . . .that is why later on in marriage/long term relationship, men complain that the babe has changed, not who they fell inlove with. . . . . . . .

Am I the only one that holds this view? 

Ranoscky:

Exactly the same thing that bothers me with 'some' ladies, and I keep wondering and asking myself why some girls do keep a blind eye and walk pass the real men that wil give them comfort and a happy marraige, but keep this time, they keep their eyes wide open like Owl and with the instint of of a desert Eagle when walking and they keep stucking on players, wife beaters, cheaters, rude dudes etc [ how are we to be sure that the complainers are not 'fake' themselves, and pls, how do we recognise 'fake' girls when we see them on the street, thanx] ?

190:

I think the problem necessarily has be the lady

why do they succumb to changing their lives and adapting themselves just cos they

are interested in getting married 2 him or eating his money ( they do this all the time )

& years later they find themselves totally who they really are in the marriage, thats why i always

by the idea of dating someone for as long as possible cos not everyone would hold themselves for that long without

revealing a trait of who they are to their partner's

190:

I think the problem necessarily has be the lady

why do they succumb to changing their lives and adapting themselves just cos they

are interested in getting married 2 him or eating his money ( they do this all the time )

& years later they find themselves totally who they really are in the marriage, thats why i always

by the idea of dating someone for as long as possible cos not everyone would hold themselves for that long without

revealing a trait of who they are to their partner's

common will you sharap there,

who told you that a people do not pretend to be who they are not for as long as humanly possible? have'nt you seen people that have been married for 20 years, and still not real to each other?

slaps 190 on the face and keeps walking,