CC,

Tell me what kind of explanation you sincerely expect from someone who is looking for any form of excuse to get out of the union?

If bathing at night, Not clapping in church, failing bible studies are Grave offences.

I wont be surprised if the normal slap of the wrist is what she calls beating to a coma

All what she has been posting are just reasons to justify herself for leaving, Nothing that holds water

You should know what they call the type of woman agrees to sleep with and have babies with a man you never loved.

Young ladies should learn from this story.Many young ladies in Nigeria get married simply because they don't want to be seen as single at whatever age (28,29, )the Nigerian society fixes for young women to be married.
@OP
I believe some of the issues you raised are pretty serious
-the almost beating the child to a coma(pls kindly throw more light)
-not mentioning his daughter
but all in all the most crucial is that you don't love this man,
Marriage is hard work already without having to work with some one you are obviously not into.