Flexherbal:
There is no formula in relationship and dating.
What works for A may not work for B.

Auladimeji:
Oga?focus on your herb and leave relationship expert to deal with this

Davash222:
Her: Good evening dear

Me: Good evening, Nne.

Her: How are you today

Me: I’m fine and you?

Her: I’m not fine o

Me: You’ll be fine in Jesus name.


Example of being “too nice” is to ask her what’s wrong with her.

RightToReject:
Yes, there's something like being "too nice." Literally, anyone who uses servility to sustain a relationship is "too nice." Unfortunately, behind any servile person is a disingenuous person - disingenuous people and pernicious acts are inseparable. Truth, however, is that conceited - haughty or crass - people ignorantly like them servile/naive and economically buoyant in most cases dually because of their penchant for subjugation and insatiableness. Disingenuousness is the recipe for wreaking conceited people.

lefulefu:
being too nice is supposed to mean acting foolishly.when u do things in an abnormal way in order to please or find favour in a girl"s eyes.For example u borrowing money to fuel ur car to carry a girl to her place of work or school just because u want her to accept ur friendship.money ur parents sent u for ur school fees u using it to sponsor two girls,money u should be using for ur personal upkeep u using to maintain one girl etc..in short ladies step on u and call u mumu and laugh u behind ur back.

Shortyy:
Yes.


At times people feel like any partner that is too nice in a relationship have ulterior motive.

Especially people that have been in a toxic relationship all their lives, so when they perceive that too much niceness, they feel like you have a bad motive. Because they haven't been cared for like that before.

Also people that had rough childhood, people their parents never shared love, people that witnessed domestic violence between their parents. All these factor can break someone. And affect their relationship with people. Both romantic and normal relationship.

ashewoboy:






what about you? can a guy be too nice for you?

let's have examples.

ZIINI:
Too nice is next to simping

Davash222:
Her: Good evening dear

Me: Good evening, Nne.

Her: How are you today

Me: I’m fine and you?

Her: I’m not fine o

Me: You’ll be fine in Jesus name.


Example of being “too nice” is to ask her what’s wrong with her.

baralatie:
definition of too nice


a tool nice a person is defined as a person most especially a lady of whom you say hi to and she credits your bank account with $1000000

lefulefu:
being too nice is supposed to mean acting foolishly.when u do things in an abnormal way in order to please or find favour in a girl"s eyes. For example u borrowing money to fuel ur car to carry a girl to her place of work or school just because u want her to accept ur friendship.money ur parents sent u for ur school fees u using it to sponsor two girls,money u should be using for ur personal upkeep u using to maintain one girl etc.. in short ladies step on u and call u mumu and laugh u behind ur back.

DimplesLikeWow:
Lefulefu , have you ever done any of these for a girl? Honesty, pls.

lefulefu:
i dont have the time and strenght to be doing such tp a girl.i guess its guys who have the luxury on their hands that engage in such to please a girl .like some dude here the other day who made a thread saying he gave a girl a free ride and when he was about dropping her at her place of work he suggested to the girl that every morning he will driving his car to that place to pick the girl free of charge and the girl told him to carry his wahala to one side .only a man with too much time on his hand would do such .

DimplesLikeWow:
If she were a hungry girl now who accepted the free rides, then started asking him for money, I bet he would open a thread that he has been giving one girl free rides to work and she's now asking him for money. He should be glad that she's different (at least by not jumping at his offer), not bet im offended that she questioned his motive and didn't accept the free rides as he had expected she would.

lefulefu:
he would have gained his respect if he had just given the girl a lift then dropped her and moved on with his car.but then im call fall im hand by asking her if he can be passing that route every morning just to pick her.in short he just cast doubt for the girl mind that he is not the owner of the car.that he is probably one of these guys who use their dad"s car to chyke girls on the streets cos a man with a job and with a fixed time frame wont be asking a girl such a question.in short e for make sense sef he just zoom pass the girl with his car

DimplesLikeWow:
Right; he would have!

Am I the only one who doesn't believe the part about her flagging him to stop? Unless he's a Uber or Taxi driver and she saw a sign on the car that he was, I doubt she was the one who flagged him to stop. I think he must've stopped on his own, perhaps b/c she was attractive or he saw something he liked (e.g. a big bum), which makes him saying she's average-looking also doubtful b/c she must've been beautiful, especially for him to offer to be giving her rides to work everyday (on their very first meeting)! When men get rejected, that's when you'll hear things like, "She wasn't cute anyway" or [insert other insults here]. Evidence of painment.