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My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Nobody: 4:59am On Dec 05, 2020
The year 2016 was quite tough for me I was a fresh graduate looking for a job I kept going to and fro dropping my C.v here and there but all to no avail,I was broke at this point and decided to go to ikorodu to stay with my friends there ( Gee boys ) ..while I was there they took me to one hotel to watch football .the Hotel was located at itamaga and it's popularly called " BE HAPPY" ...for those familiar with the area .

As we were about to go in I saw a vacancy board looking for supervisor and bar man..I decided I would come the next day with my c.v and apply for the post of a supervisor,on getting there I was told they already got a supervisor but still in need of a bar man.i asked how much and they said 20k .I was desperate so I took the job .
I started working ,I was posted to the V.I.P section as the bar man there ,I was honest with my transactions and I quickly made friends with balling guys ( Gee Boys).. My salary was 20k but I was making at least 5k daily.. guys would come and drink ,and then ask me to take whatever I want and drink too,I would skip the drink and keep the money,some would tip me sometimes 2k,I was enjoying life and saving. Apart from staying up all night everyday and doing account of the bar the next morning there wasn't Anything strenuous I was doing .


But the hotel was a LovePeddler house too.. ladies work there as runs girls .I found out that they pay rent everyday to the hotel owner.. the cheapest room there is 2k while the most expensive is 4k..(the 4k room comes with A.C.) There were at least up to 25 girls living there permanently ,other girls come and go .men would come around ,choose thier spec and go in with them..I learnt that some ladies have been there for more than 10 years ,they all have nicknames ,you will hear names like Angel , Naomi ,. Tiepor ( means it's plenty ) e.t.c..paying rent of at least 2k everyday.. short time with these ladies ranges from 1k to 5k depending on how Hawt she is while overnight is 10k - 20k

On a bad day these ladies get at least 10 short time and one overnight whuch means they make thousands of naira everyday . They spend thier money on designer clothes and latest wears competing With each other .

What I also Got to find out is that this prostitute have boyfriend's too.the one they allow to penetrate them without the use of condom,and the funny thing is that the man/guy is aware that they are runs girls ..they spend on thier boyfriend and he dare not cheat on them..have seen scenarios where guys marry some or have a baby with her..

Just 2 months after I got there I started getting visit from this particular prostitute ,she would come to my bar during the day when there are less customers and buy coca cola drink,she would drop 1k and asked me to keep change, the hotel has a restaurant too.,she would order food and asked them to bring it to me.. The gullible me thought I have found my destiny helper as I no longer spend on food not knowing that I was being pulled into the traps of the devil..my co workers then were telling me she likes me ,the truth is all the babes there actually liked me.cos i was naturally blessed with Good looks .

There were lots of pretty young girls in that Hotel ,girls from 19 years upward .this babe that kept buying me stuff wasn't the prettiest but she was my spec plus she was a big girl ,she uses the latest iPhone ,dresses classy and trendy ,if you met her on a normal day outside the hotel block u would have mistaken her for an otedola daughter ,with her dress and style

We Got close over time ,and one day I asked her " But babe pls tell me why do u choose to do runs ?..

According to her she claimed she grew up in a poor family and things were very tough back then,she tried learning a skill or trade but her boss were always wicked to her and she would end up leaving there , things got so tough that she couldnt afford pad during menstruation..she later had to run to a friend who was doing well at that time.. the friend promised her she would take her to Lagos to work. When they arrived Lagos she brought her to the hotel instead and the babe confessed that she's into runs ..and urge her to do it too.

"No one will know ,make small money and go and start a business In Benin". Her friend urged ..and that was how she started ,she said sometimes dirty mechanic or even tout boys will sleep with her and she had no choice but to allow them,she said sometimes some of them will use drug and almost tear her vagina..but that later she got used to it ..I felt bad for her ..... What do you think ?






Comment if u would like to hear the remaining story .....

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At the hotel u work every day and you only get a day off . During my off days she will beg me not to go home that I should rest there, she would then book a room for me to spend my break... (Pls understand the owner of the hotel is one difficult man and he must not find out you are dating any runs babe because he will believe you are giving her his money , so we kept it on the low but all her friends and my friends know.. )


I would be in that room and she will come and check on me time to time ,with food and drinks,she was really taking care of me.sh would buy me milk saying I need to regain my strength,this babe was not asking for sex ,she was actually taking her time with me ..

Then one day I had issues with my supervisor and I was suspended ( the Supervisor was jealous of our relationship And was always looking for fault in everything I do ).

I was suspended for 3 days and that means they will deduct a week money ..this babe lodged me in another hotel , gave me 10k saying I should use it to replace the money they will deduct,she then left her hotel to come spend the three days suspension with me..and sex happened..

Somehow i'mmediately after that I lost total interest in the job ,she was buying me everything from clothes to boxers to designer shoes ,she even bought me a gold chain (real Gold) ...I started feeling too big for the job that use to be my everything..


She told me that I should quit the job and look for a better one as the one I'm doing is below my standards, I believed her and quitted , then she told me she's quitting prostitution too.. she had like 300k in her account and there is a house in Benin belonging to her .. that was how me and olosho relocated to Benin to start living as couples... I was having sex everyday....


I just wake up and have sex then sleep .. life was sweet not knowing I was killing my destiny... After bout 3 months we finished spending the money in her account. and we were becoming broke ..that was when I realized I need a job again.. then one day during my job hunt I came back and she wasn't around, when she came back she brought food , provisions and stuff and even gave me 5k to get something for myself. I asked her where she got the money from and she confessed that she went to sleep with one rich man like that in Benin...

She begged me to please allow her to continue going to see the man that the man promised to fund her business plans which I agreed ....

After a while we started having issues I realized she did not like me as she use to she will say words like " You were not like this when you were in Lagos ". ... I did not understand what she meant until I saw myself in a mirror one day .. omo I was looking old and ugly all my beauty was gone .. I almost cried .. I i'mmediately left for Lagos the next week... And after years of fasting and praying and deliveenca I started looking better ...... To those that do say sex has no consequences I hope you learn. A Thing or two ....

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by felixzo1(m): 5:04am On Dec 05, 2020
your story looks real and very interesting

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Nobody: 5:20am On Dec 05, 2020
felixzo1:
your story looks real and very interesting

Thank you.. real life stories ..

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by TOPCRUISE(m): 5:26am On Dec 05, 2020
Olosho business is booming in Lagos. Girls into it call it different names They don't call it prostitution. They will give you vague descriptions if you ask them what they do for a living. I can't just trust any girl in Lagos when it comes to relationship and sex.

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Nobody: 5:30am On Dec 05, 2020
TOPCRUISE:
Olosho business is booming in Lagos. I can't just trust any girl in Lagos when it comes to sex.


The experience made me understand that the average big girl in Lagos is an olosho.. these babes looks so classy and responsible that men will easily fall for them as good babes unless u find out

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To those saying I betray the babe because she gave me everything And I gave her nothing , I now understand why most of y'all never go far in life ..

I gave her nothing?..Bro I made this babe quit prostution,I gave her a LIFE !!!
Something she has been doing for years ,she met me ,and agreed to quit. ,I got a job immediately I got to Benin but she won't let me do it because according to her Benin babes will snatch me ,she told me she has a land she would sell and I could start a business not knowing she was lying , ..when we got broke ,I went out again to look for job,which I found one .not knowing the silly girl has gone back to her old ways behind me ....you think you know the story when you are not there ..You are mad .not to even mention that she must have jazz me with all those food she was giving me ...

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Deffjam: 5:38am On Dec 05, 2020
Mtvbaseng:



The experience made me understand that the average big girl in Lagos is an olosho.. these babes looks so classy and responsible that men will easily fall for them as good babes unless u find out
please remove that number there, anybody interested send it to dm privately

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Drakkernoir: 5:39am On Dec 05, 2020
You havent told us the trap she set oh

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by ReluctantAdult(m): 5:52am On Dec 05, 2020
Well, prostitution in whatever form will continue to be lucrative till eternity. Men generally, will always want sex, so a good percentage of our income will go to satisfying that. Whether that'd be with wives, brothel
hookers, runs website hookers, porn, girlfriends, FWBs, escorts etc.

It is so tempting and easy for women to fvck for money. It's just a matter of morality and that doesn't mean anything for some people especially in the face of poverty, greed and laziness.

Who knows, maybe I'd have fvcked for money too, if I were a woman undecided grin

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by ednut1(m): 6:00am On Dec 05, 2020
Mtvbaseng:


Thank you.. real life stories .. I still have the babe number she's a runs babe and anyone who is interested can call her and also go and visit her at the hotel to confirm... Her name is angel . ...
is this neccesary

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Nobody: 6:07am On Dec 05, 2020
Drakkernoir:
You havent told us the trap she set oh

Check now

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Nobody: 6:15am On Dec 05, 2020
grin


Another greedy, blood sucking SOB who bleeped himself over and is still blaming another person how many years later.
You are an ingrate, gold digger, broke SOB and owe that Lady gratitude. Learn to be grateful u prick.

You have learnt nothing my friend.
The worst is yet to befall u.



Let me add further for any idiot without sense quoting me.

Did he state anywhere that d lady was not nice to him?
Shebi all he wrote was that she spent her savings on him. Even as a LovePeddler she showered him with love and affection. Prostitutes r also humans trying to make ends meet, why even post her number?

He added nothing to her life, drained her and is still here ranting how sex tore him apart.
People like u end up miserable and won't know the particular curse they inherited messing them up.
Ewu.

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Nobody: 6:28am On Dec 05, 2020
Too much of everything isn't Good..

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Nobody: 6:40am On Dec 05, 2020
GayPontiff:
grin


Another greedy, blood sucking SOB who bleeped himself over and is still blaming another person how many years later.
You are an ingrate, gold digger, broke SOB and owe that Lady gratitude. Learn to be grateful u prick.

You have learnt nothing my friend.
The worst is yet to befall u.

You need prayers .I know u wish u were in my shoes but I will advise you like a big brother " Don't ever invest your time on sex "...

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Nobody: 6:41am On Dec 05, 2020
you failed to plan your life, why blame it on sex

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Nobody: 6:45am On Dec 05, 2020
Keshinr0:
you failed to plan your life, why blame it on sex

I was only sharing my experience.. I'm not putting the blame on anybody.... Read properly

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by hopeforcharles(m): 6:47am On Dec 05, 2020
Go on but remove her number. Your stories look real and it's an interesting read

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Kobicove(m): 6:52am On Dec 05, 2020
If you're having sex daily without feeding well you'll definitely become emaciated undecided

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Ekpes2017: 7:01am On Dec 05, 2020
Keshinr0:
you failed to plan your life, why blame it on sex

Baba was in love

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Nobody: 7:02am On Dec 05, 2020
Kobicove:
If you're having sex daily without feeding well you'll definitely become emaciated undecided

I was feeding well and living fine...
Sex takes alot from you . Look at the life of king blakhoc for instance ..

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Oyiboman69: 7:07am On Dec 05, 2020
Interesting story and as a street guy,we've known all this before that's why I can say your story is real...

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Nobody: 7:08am On Dec 05, 2020
Interesting story.
That's life. I had a similar experience too. I was almost deceived by a babe in Benin to leave my job and elope with her to Abuja. She fed me with too much p*ssy to the extent I wasn't thinking straight again. I almost succumbed to her wish but I had a rethink and swerved. Lord knows I would have seen shege!!!

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by tillaman(m): 7:10am On Dec 05, 2020
grin
What about the gold chain she bought you na??
But on a serious note you tripped the moment you started catching feelings for an okpo
I have met a couple of them with this my small age but one thing is they always have a similar story so it’s better not to give them listening ears when it comes to their life story
I wish you enough bro

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Bornsinner7: 7:11am On Dec 05, 2020
The story funny

Someone said olosho business is lucrative and every average big girl is into it but I still wonder where the money this girls get go into..

Like no investment, no house of their own, no land, no car,.. just empty brain and deep borehole

imagine charging 5-10k for so called short time and 20+k for over night.. that's a lot of money by the end of the month depending on how the toto sweet

But still nothing to show for it.. they still task every dude that they come across for money.

Well.. op thank God for your life.. maybe your story for be like that maduabuchi own but you use your head

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Akeem1759(m): 7:16am On Dec 05, 2020
Be happy na my area now grin, I believe your story die cos it's normal around that place.. lol Oko Olosho

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Nobody: 7:18am On Dec 05, 2020
Fussion1000:


The highest enjoyment you get from olosho, is the least enjoyment from girl who is into you most especially if the gf knw how to Bleep, the problem of many of you is that, you guys are dating girls who are not really into you but forcing herself to go out with you because of money she getting from you.


A girl who is really into you will do everything/styles to satisfy you during sex making, even if she is Hot or not satisfy she will let you knw, .......can olosho do that?

.[/b]




You are right bro.

When I was young I used to think manual cars were better till I started driving my friend's automatic car.

Guys banging only oshos are missing a lot.

The intensity of orgasm and treatment you get from a girl who is into you can never be gotten from olosho even if you pay her 1m.

I would rather fuuckk a girl whose beauty is 4/10 that's into me than fuucckk a 9/10 olosho.

You won't know the difference till you experience it.

I used to have a girl that once she noticed I was hard, she would laugh and would ask, "Can you wait till I come back" ?




Most times If I said no, she would oblige immediately.

Her desire was my happiness. She did everything in this world to please me and have me all to herself.

I returned the favour as well and appreciated her efforts.

She never complained because she wanted the sex as much as I did. And initiated it most times. Unlike oloshos.

With her I knew I was a stud. I could do her for over an hour.

Most oloshos want you to cum even at the sight of the vagiina, but a girl into you wants the sex and wants you to last.



Or is it the moaning, that heat of the moment?

I heard one say he was sucking oloshos breast, lol.

What's there to suck, all her nerves are dead. Most of her moans are fake just to get you excited so you cum quick.

That's why she isn't happy if you stop a bit, maybe to control ejaculaation.

MOST ashawos are damaged. It's psychological, check stats. They are likened to war veterans.

They feel "looted" that's why many are drug addicts and junkies.

Trust me, I know what I am saying, I have been there.


ASIDE: I had a bj yesterday from a girl into me, she is a virgin. I don't want to deflower her sef. After smooching i told her i needed to releaase, she said, let's go, went on her kneees and did it, i saw the passion to please me, it increased my excitement and i came.

No olosho can give such bj, at least not with passion.

There is always a woman that likes you, go for her and appreciate her. That way things will be easier. Ubunja would call that "chosen"

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by austine4real(m): 7:18am On Dec 05, 2020
grin grin grin

This life eeh


I remember one that happened in ajegunle olosho gave birth to twins for my guy

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by MummyIMadeIt: 7:19am On Dec 05, 2020
What a read

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by David1017(m): 7:20am On Dec 05, 2020
Mtvbaseng:


I was feeding well and living fine...
Sex takes alot from you . Look at the life of king blakhoc for instance ..
. Jonny sins doesn't look emaciated

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Nobody: 7:22am On Dec 05, 2020
Akeem1759:
Be happy na my area now grin, I believe your story die cos it's normal around that place.. lol Oko Olosho

Lol... No be small experience

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Nobody: 7:26am On Dec 05, 2020
ReluctantAdult:
Well, prostitution in whatever form will continue to be lucrative till eternity. Men generally, will always want sex, so a good percentage of our income will go to satisfying that. Whether that'd be with wives, brothel
hookers, runs website hookers, porn, girlfriends, FWBs, escorts etc.

It is so tempting and easy for women to fvck for money. It's just a matter of morality and that doesn't mean anything for some people especially in the face of poverty, greed and laziness.

Who knows, maybe I'd have fvcked for money too, if I were a woman undecided grin

No woman who has done prostitution will ever leave it.

The money they make will never allow them value normal job.


She will be like " Why would I work here for 30k when I can get that in a night with pepper soup, smirnoff, AC hotel etc."?


Ironically, many of them amount to nothing eventually.

You wonder what they do with all the money.

ASIDE: We all pay for sex, either with time, money, affluence, etc.

Even in marriage, because women are wicked by default and incapable of loving.

It's all about what she is gonna gain there.


A woman can only manage to love the son a bit genuinely, not the husband.

The husband is a mere provider and is replaced the moment he loses this ability.

All men should beg Chukwu to be able to have means till death.

Otherwise, whatever you see, you take.

We also have to make our own input as well by working hard and saving for rainy days.

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Nobody: 7:31am On Dec 05, 2020
Mtvbaseng:


I was feeding well and living fine...
Sex takes alot from you . Look at the life of king blakhoc for instance ..

I hear this a lot but no scientific data to back it up

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