I need your advice because I am very unhappy. I have been dating a girl for two years now and yet she refuse to give me sex even when I do anything she wants. I am not happy about it she keep saying no sex till marriage I decided to end the relationship coming this xmas. I can't be in a relationship and be starving is unfair.

U don end am na. Which advice u dey find again

Nawa o

you already waited for 2 years... keep waiting

BonPatrick:
I need your advice because I am very unhappy. I have been dating a girl for two years now and yet she refuse to give me sex even when I do anything she wants. I am not happy about it she keep saying no sex till marriage I decided to end the relationship coming this xmas. I can't be in a relationship and be starving is unfair.

Tell her no money till marriage. You are keeping your money for marriage

So sex is all yhu want in the relationship ABI?... Please break up with her...so she can find the man for her that'll respect her choice and wait...

I think you’re making the right decision.

Your views on romance (in relationships) do not align. You shouldn’t be together.

You're scared of leaving because you've invested so much in the relationship.
Solution
Leave that farm tool alone and look for a woman that adores you

Jodha:
So sex is all yhu want in the relationship ABI?... Please break up with her...so she can find the man for her that'll respect her choice and wait...

Respect her choice? Why should her choice be respected and not his own choice? Is his desire not valid? Why did she hold on to the relationship for this long when they couldn’t even agree on the issue of sex. What was she gaining that made her cling to the relationship?

If she knew she wouldn’t give in (after knowing his disposition) then she has wasted her time by herself.

AfroKnight:


Respect her choice? Why should her choice be respected and not his own choice? Is his desire not valid? Why did she hold on to the relationship for this long when they couldn’t even agree on the issue of sex. What was she gaining that made her cling to the relationship?

If she knew she wouldn’t give in (after knowing his disposition) then she has wasted her time by herself.

I don't understand yhu guys o...may be I would open a thread about this to gain closure cause I don't understand..

Because she's in a relationship with him...he should have free access to her body? ....is desire valid How When it's her body ? When premarital sex is a sin?

She stayed in that relationship hoping he'll wait till marriage....if sex is his problem ...he should leave her alone and find a prostitute...

Mad man

even if na virgin, I no fit gree bcoz i gat test run d engine b4 I buy d market....marriage na for better for worst n more like a life contract o

Jodha:


I don't understand yhu guys o...may be I would open a thread about this to gain closure cause I don't understand..

Because she's in a relationship with him...he should have free access to her body? ....is desire valid How When it's her body ? When premarital sex is a sin?

She stayed in that relationship hoping he'll wait till marriage....if sex is his problem ...he should leave her alone and find a prostitute...

You automatically assumed they would both embrace your version of religion. And yes, his desire is valid. Will she have sex by herself? Wouldn’t he give his own body too?

If she wanted to cajole him into waiting till she was ready then she is manipulative and basically setting herself up. She should have called it quits when she found out their views on something this fundamental do not align.

AfroKnight:


You automatically assumed they would both embrace your version of religion. And yes, his desire is valid. Will she have sex by herself? Wouldn’t he give his own body too?

If she wanted to cajole him into waiting till she was ready then she is manipulative and basically setting herself up. She should have called it quits when she found out their views on something this fundamental do not align.

She doesn't want to have the sex.....she doesn't want his body for now....

There's nothing manipulative about that....rather he's the manipulative one.. I'm sure he initially agreed no sex before marriage...

If he can't endure no more ...he should leave the relationship... it's not by force..

Jodha:


She doesn't want to have the sex.....she doesn't want his body for now....

There's nothing manipulative about that....rather he's the manipulative one.. I'm sure he initially agreed no sex before marriage...

If he can't endure no more ...he should leave the relationship... it's not by force..

I agree it’s not by force to wait. He should move on. Win win.

U lack game..guy...

Go chop beans jare.

Jodha:
So sex is all yhu want in the relationship ABI?... Please break up with her...so she can find the man for her that'll respect her choice and wait...

is there anything in relationship apart from sex!

The r/shp wey you suppose end before Xmas. What will be your gain if you get the same response after paying for Xmas stuff

I hope she has no male Bestie or P.A

Talking from experience

Bonpatrick if she's a virgin pls leave her alone but if she's not when next she come to your place buy_____
and put it in her drink and have ______ with her.

Fill in the gap with the suitable words

A . Valion tablet (not sure of the spelling)

B. Sex

C . hollandia

D. Prayer section

uthlaw:
is there anything in relationship apart from sex!

Dey there dey ask nah...

If sex is the only thing yhu want...yhu don't need a relationship...yhu need a LovePeddler..

Jodha:


I don't understand yhu guys o...may be I would open a thread about this to gain closure cause I don't understand..

Because she's in a relationship with him...he should have free access to her body? ....is desire valid How When it's her body ? When premarital sex is a sin?

She stayed in that relationship hoping he'll wait till marriage....if sex is his problem ...he should leave her alone and find a prostitute...

shut up o and stop justifying nonsense with full confidence.. rubbish... which nonsense body she gets wey she dey chop person money and not ready to part with her stinking pekus??


OP is a very stupid boy for tolerating rubbish


OP stop giving her money, tell her you are saving for your future and marriage and reduce the numbers of time you people meet .. find a side chick that will satisfy your urges till she comes back to her senses ... u will be so dumbfounded when u eventually discover on the night of wedding that she's been bangbrosed she's dickified

Jodha:
So sex is all yhu want in the relationship ABI?... Please break up with her...so she can find the man for her that'll respect her choice and wait...

Yeah. In every relationship that I've seen, it's all about the lady's wants and desires. No mention of what the guy wants.

ZINIIBANKS:
Bonpatrick if she's a virgin pls leave her alone but if she's not when next she come to your place buy_____
and put it in her drink and have ______ with her.

Fill in the gap with the suitable words

A . Valion tablet (not sure of the spelling)

B. Sex

C . hollandia

D. Prayer section

Yo... WTF

If you want sex go find olosho na.sex is for married people

ZINIIBANKS:
Bonpatrick if she's a virgin pls leave her alone but if she's not when next she come to your place buy_____
and put it in her drink and have ______ with her.

Fill in the gap with the suitable words

A . Valion tablet (not sure of the spelling)

B. Sex

C . hollandia

D. Prayer section

most sensible comment so far.

So sex is all yhu want in the relationship ABI?... Please break up with her...so she can find the man for her that'll respect her choice and wait...

Judybash93:

Yeah. In every relationship that I've seen, it's all about the lady's wants and desires. No mention of what the guy wants.

No dear the rift is the case...it has always been about what a guy wants ....how he feels...what to satisfy him etc..

Oga, respect her decision, stay in the relationship and stop doing everything for her. since you are not happy with her decision. if you give her money stop it then, save your money, if you need sex go get it else where..

On one hand, NL alfa meils want to test run, on the other hand, same Ndi red abi pink piller will accuse Nigerian ladies of fvcking around. She said: no sex before marriage, respect her choice and go look for the lady who will agree to sex before marriage. That way, you get what you want.

Life is not that hard and please choose a struggle!

BonPatrick:
I need your advice because I am very unhappy. I have been dating a girl for two years now and yet she refuse to give me sex even when I do anything she wants. I am not happy about it she keep saying no sex till marriage I decided to end the relationship coming this xmas. I can't be in a relationship and be starving is unfair.

How old are you start with?

If a lady trusts you, she will give you whatever freely. Earn that trust and you won't ask. I even hate asking for a relationship, it will just happen.