soundOsonic:
Yusuf at the top of his voice, funny he isn't a soprano singer, he was just an angry man reminding the wife how she became successful due to his perpetual prayers and never ending humble prayers to Allah.
You see, something about the wife do not agree to this, not because she is an unbeliever, but she is a strong believer of earning what you worked for, this is no contradition to her most holy faith. As simple as that statement sound one need to see lot and lots of complications that flow through Yusuf mind like blood in the vein, slowly but powerful flow of complications.
"It is just 5k" said Yusuf repeating it like a mantra. Little does Yusuf know that what belongs to him belongs to his wife, and what belongs to his wife well, you know the answer. And such truth to Yusuf is a bitter pill to take in, Yusuf is married so it is too late to take the redpill

Bola146:
like seriously, this man is really broke 5k You did the right thing by praying for your wife, but you shouldn't have said she should lend you 5k na it means your wife is the bread winner of the family till now. She thinks she can't be given money, so you need to hustle sir.

Your wife did the wrong thing, I would have given my husband 1 million naira out of the profit.

Zzor:
Take your eyes off your wife's money, real men don't do that

ThreadOwner:
Lemme go straight to the point....this morning I created a thread praising Allah for answering my prayers (muslim section), this morning I was happy and filled with joy, unknown to me; my wife had other plans.

She got a contract of 10million to do some decoration in a wedding, she had been praying for this contract for weeks and I have paid Alfas money to pray for her, I did a lot - begged the groom to give my wife this contract and now that she has it (all glory to Allah), she is acting strange, she can't lend me 5k! just 5k o and she is putting T&C before she lends me the money. I left her alone, left home and currently with my best friend.

Some women are ungrateful.

ThreadOwner:
No.

ThreadOwner:
Lemme go straight to the point....this morning I created a thread praising Allah for answering my prayers (muslim section), this morning I was happy and filled with joy, unknown to me; my wife had other plans.

She got a contract of 10million to do some decoration in a wedding, she had been praying for this contract for weeks and I have paid Alfas money to pray for her, I did a lot - begged the groom to give my wife this contract and now that she has it (all glory to Allah), she is acting strange, she can't lend me 5k! just 5k o and she is putting T&C before she lends me the money. I left her alone, left home and currently with my best friend.

Some women are ungrateful.

Ikjosh04:

Lol!

It's what it is!

From your writeup we can't conclude that your wife is stingy but what I'm sure of 90% of Nigerians get overwhelmed when they hit huge money especially those with pride.

This is not necessarily bad at all times but it's just people nature.

I have had lots of experience in which close friends suddenly hit financial breakthrough which result in unnecessary ego.

Some will trace thier steps back and become normal while most will continue feeling superior than their counterpart.

My advice to you, is to Focus and don't lose track and keep being the great husband you're but be very observant to understand your wife new nature.

Btw 10 million contract no mean say your wife will see up to 20% of it as profit.

I'm sure logistics will consume huge money.

#Focus!

nurain150:
bro are you a Sufi

ThreadOwner:
Tasawwuf; Yes. Anything?

nurain150:
ok I see

ThreadOwner:
The bitter thing is that, most materials are at home and I bought them with my hard earned money.....She ought to make gain of 500k - according to my calculation!

ThreadOwner:
Divorce? I was shocked at her behaviour......if she doesn't call me tomorrow, then I will go to my house and send her parking...she should go and stay with her parents till she decides to act like a wife.

ThreadOwner:
Are you one?

Zzor:
Take your eyes off your wife's money, real men don't do that

Fvckhypocrite:
Nawa 4 u ooo
Na god dey fvck you?

Yesorno

You dey disguise

debbydams:
nobody is fucking me abeg..

Martinez39s:
MAKE SURE YOU DIVORCE HER AND FOLLOW MY ADVICE.

joceey:


I just love u instantly because of what you just wrote. When a woman with a good heart talks u will appreciate,the one's with wisdom GOD bless u

Martinez39s:
Don't listen to anyone trying to gaslight you. Stand firm and be resolute. Your wife does not love you. women don't love; as long as you are their money source, they will happily benefit from your sacrifices and investment/money, but once your pocket dries and they can no longer benefit from you, they discard you no matter what you have done for them. Men are willing to share their pots of gold with women, but women will never share theirs with you. You are an expendable utility to them; an utility "serves" but it is never served in return with sacrifices. That's why your wife can't help you out. She, just like all women, doesn't love you.

Stop expecting loyalty, love, gratitude and appreciation from women.

Rhozabeth:
Oga, u nor know say what belongs to u belongs to ur wife also but what belongs to her belongs to her only!
Learn not to ask ur wife for things even if she is richer than u! However u can get help from her only if she offers! This does not make her a bad person or stingy! Get that straight!

Fvckhypocrite:
y u dey disguise na?
Oya let's connect atleast make we be fwend no fvcking just fwend.

debbydams:
are u kidding me u want to divorce your wife because she refused to give u 5k..are okay � sha.. Sorry if my question ❔ is harsh o

debbydams:
lol �..I no disguise abeg..

debbydams:
lol �..I no disguise abeg..

Zzor:
Take your eyes off your wife's money, real men don't do that

ThreadOwner:
The bitter thing is that, most materials are at home and I bought them with my hard earned money.....She ought to make gain of 500k - according to my calculation!

Tonalphs:
terrible women with terrible character. dunno the definition of marriage order than being a helper. men don't settle down with women who are self centred and cannot support you financially. love gives and gives. any man that want to go down financially and quickly should marry a woman who only takes from him. dunno why some women now see marriage as a place of competition, selfishness, and taking only.
I've known couple who's been in this shoe before. it ended in premium tears. funny enough, till today, the woman is claiming she's right.
it is well with you.