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Re: I Have Called Off The Marriage by 21cents: 9:19pm On Dec 11, 2020
I think she is mad.
grin grin grin
Re: I Have Called Off The Marriage by bosman50(m): 9:20pm On Dec 11, 2020
NEWBIN:


We were planning to get married in January 2021

But I have called off this plan

I think she is mad

Na who you con leave am for?
It's not cool to abandon someone just because they have a problem. It shows you will also do the same to a very close friend. Why not help her find solution to her problem?. I mean, treat her as a friend.
You've been with her for a year. That's one reason you should help her find a solution... See a psychologist for instance... Before backing out. She deserves it.

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Re: I Have Called Off The Marriage by DukeJoe17: 9:38pm On Dec 11, 2020
NEWBIN:
We have dated for about a year
She has her strengths and I loved her
But I no longer do

Since we met, she has relocated from 5 houses in one year. She has problems with everybody; workplace, home everywhere.

She always complains someone entered her room in her absence; some story In all the five houses she rented. She complains about everything I do

I can't talk at a certain volume, I can't laugh out without a reprimand, I virtually can't do anything.

She cries every hour

We were planning to get married in January 2021

But I have called off this plan

I think she is mad


You are a top economist, so you ordered for SENSE today because it is black Friday?

You are lucky that konga didn't give you fake one Sha.

Enjoy your peace and freedom from that senseless and stupid situationship, really sense is good.

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Re: I Have Called Off The Marriage by LadySarah: 9:53pm On Dec 11, 2020
NEWBIN:
We have dated for about a year
She has her strengths and I loved her
But I no longer do

Since we met, she has relocated from 5 houses in one year. She has problems with everybody; workplace, home everywhere.

She always complains someone entered her room in her absence; some story In all the five houses she rented. She complains about everything I do

I can't talk at a certain volume, I can't laugh out without a reprimand, I virtually can't do anything.

She cries every hour

We were planning to get married in January 2021

But I have called off this plan

I think she is mad

Pls have you tried the medical aspect like seeing a specialist?
I had a friend that presented exactly the same symptoms.but only a visit to a neurologist and it happened that water entered her brain.She's very OK now after treatments.

Unless you don't love her,you can take a walk.her fiance was there all the way and now they have 2 babies.

CC:NEWBIN
Re: I Have Called Off The Marriage by seanwilliam(m): 9:54pm On Dec 11, 2020
bosman50:


Na who you con leave am for?
It's not cool to abandon someone just because they have a problem. It shows you will also do the same to a very close friend. Why not help her find solution to her problem?. I mean, treat her as a friend.
You've been with her for a year. That's one reason you should help her find a solution... See a psychologist for instance... Before backing out. She deserves it.

If reversed was the case, would she have stayed?
Re: I Have Called Off The Marriage by Jack005(m): 10:01pm On Dec 11, 2020
Potch:


It appears to me that your GF has a bipolar disorder and unfortunately many patients are unaware and the condition remains undiagnosed for a long time. Kindly support her and ask her to visit a hospital.
Support kee you there,! Op dash Mr supporter the babe let him go ahead and marry her.

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Re: I Have Called Off The Marriage by Jack005(m): 10:02pm On Dec 11, 2020
LadySarah:


Pls have you tried the medical aspect like seeing a specialist?
I had a friend that presented exactly the same symptoms.but only a visit to a neurologist and it happened that water entered her brain.She's very OK now after treatments.

Unless you don't love her,you can take a walk.her fiance was there all the way and now they have 2 babies.

water ko, oil ni

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Re: I Have Called Off The Marriage by Jack005(m): 10:03pm On Dec 11, 2020
bosman50:


Na who you con leave am for?
It's not cool to abandon someone just because they have a problem. It shows you will also do the same to a very close friend. Why not help her find solution to her problem?. I mean, treat her as a friend.
You've been with her for a year. That's one reason you should help her find a solution... See a psychologist for instance... Before backing out. She deserves it.
A whole lot of gibberish.

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Re: I Have Called Off The Marriage by LadySarah: 10:20pm On Dec 11, 2020
Jack005:
water ko, oil ni

You must think we are in a waec thread.look well
Re: I Have Called Off The Marriage by UndauntedYOCA(f): 10:59pm On Dec 11, 2020
You've done well.
She might be narcissistic and dating that type of.person isn't healthy.

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Re: I Have Called Off The Marriage by mrblessed(m): 11:23pm On Dec 11, 2020
I think typing the words "Congratulations" to you is very appropriate. I hold this view because weak people would naturally walk into this landmine with excuse that they were blinded by love and couldn't see the red flags and react appropriately. Or, some would waffle that they actually saw the red flags but believed that the person would change when they get married. It is always better late than sorry. With all the character defects you mentioned she has, even the most patient man on earth will not be able to live with her.

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Re: I Have Called Off The Marriage by Liposure: 11:53pm On Dec 11, 2020
Timely decision better than unhappily ever after
Re: I Have Called Off The Marriage by Potch: 12:50am On Dec 12, 2020
Jack005:
Support kee you there,! Op dash Mr supporter the babe let him go ahead and marry her.

The lady has a problem and op should support her in finding a solution. The marriage has been put on hold, a wise decision at this time. Whether op rescinds his decision will depend on what happens in the coming weeks. You dont abandon someone at the point of his or her problem, I think that is a law of nature.

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Re: I Have Called Off The Marriage by millionboi2: 12:52am On Dec 12, 2020
NEWBIN:
We have dated for about a year
She has her strengths and I loved her
But I no longer do

Since we met, she has relocated from 5 houses in one year. She has problems with everybody; workplace, home everywhere.

She always complains someone entered her room in her absence; some story In all the five houses she rented. She complains about everything I do

I can't talk at a certain volume, I can't laugh out without a reprimand, I virtually can't do anything.

She cries every hour

We were planning to get married in January 2021

But I have called off this plan

I think she is mad
hahahaha
You don't know what God have saved you from
Re: I Have Called Off The Marriage by millionboi2: 12:54am On Dec 12, 2020
LordIsaac:
Eya... It may be that she's an extreme melancholy to the point of being a pain in the butt... Like, she's a perfectionist to OCD level. She needs help o.
Go and help her.
Re: I Have Called Off The Marriage by Daddycharger: 12:57am On Dec 12, 2020
Potch:


The lady has a problem and op should support her in finding a solution. The marriage has been put on hold, a wise decision at this time. Whether op rescinds his decision will depend on what happens in the coming weeks. You dont abandon someone at the point of his or her problem, I think that is a law of nature.
Marriage has been cancelled mr man!! Not on hold
Re: I Have Called Off The Marriage by Nobody: 1:26am On Dec 12, 2020
You have been LIBERATED.
Re: I Have Called Off The Marriage by Potch: 3:20am On Dec 12, 2020
Daddycharger:

Marriage has been cancelled mr man!! Not on hold

I think you are happier than the op for cancelling his proposed marriage-LOL
Re: I Have Called Off The Marriage by bosman50(m): 3:25am On Dec 12, 2020
seanwilliam:


If reversed was the case, would she have stayed?

Prolly no. But then,how do we differentiate the good guys from the best if we all do the same ?
Re: I Have Called Off The Marriage by bosman50(m): 3:27am On Dec 12, 2020
Jack005:
A whole lot of gibberish.

Just my personal opinion . We should learn to be generous
Re: I Have Called Off The Marriage by seanwilliam(m): 3:40am On Dec 12, 2020
bosman50:


Prolly no. But then,how do we differentiate the good guys from the best if we all do the same ?
no staying with you when things were hard for u doesn’t make me a bad person.. it is my choice to help U or not.. the guy didn’t want to start what he won’t be able to finish cheesy
Re: I Have Called Off The Marriage by Iseoluwani: 4:05am On Dec 12, 2020
NEWBIN:
We have dated for about a year
She has her strengths and I loved her
But I no longer do

Since we met, she has relocated from 5 houses in one year. She has problems with everybody; workplace, home everywhere.

She always complains someone entered her room in her absence; some story In all the five houses she rented. She complains about everything I do

I can't talk at a certain volume, I can't laugh out without a reprimand, I virtually can't do anything.

She cries every hour

We were planning to get married in January 2021

But I have called off this plan

I think she is mad

thank you for been wise
Re: I Have Called Off The Marriage by DMerciful(m): 4:41am On Dec 12, 2020
Loool...men are not emotional so do not do embellishment to garner sympathy. Men are straightforward and you know it
Chii59:
I'm yet to see "let hear her own side of the story". All I see are congratulations for breaking up with her. Bloody. Hypocrites.
Re: I Have Called Off The Marriage by Oesophagus99(m): 6:54am On Dec 12, 2020
nice one mehn...the major sign of a bad woman is that she cries to often





she's a psychopathic lady and in ur absence she would always hurt ur kids at every flimsy mistake of a child



If u ever play away match, she can poison to to early grave and useless ur children for U
Re: I Have Called Off The Marriage by obyrich(m): 7:01am On Dec 12, 2020
NEWBIN:
We have dated for about a year
She has her strengths and I loved her
But I no longer do

Since we met, she has relocated from 5 houses in one year. She has problems with everybody; workplace, home everywhere.

She always complains someone entered her room in her absence; some story In all the five houses she rented. She complains about everything I do

I can't talk at a certain volume, I can't laugh out without a reprimand, I virtually can't do anything.

She cries every hour

We were planning to get married in January 2021

But I have called off this plan

I think she is mad
It is better to live on the eaves of a house than to cohabit with a quarrelsome woman. Flee to preserve your sanity.
Re: I Have Called Off The Marriage by femi4: 7:07am On Dec 12, 2020
NEWBIN:
We have dated for about a year
She has her strengths and I loved her
But I no longer do

Since we met, she has relocated from 5 houses in one year. She has problems with everybody; workplace, home everywhere.

She always complains someone entered her room in her absence; some story In all the five houses she rented. She complains about everything I do

I can't talk at a certain volume, I can't laugh out without a reprimand, I virtually can't do anything.

She cries every hour

We were planning to get married in January 2021

But I have called off this plan

I think she is mad
You are free indeed
Re: I Have Called Off The Marriage by Wittyglam(f): 7:53am On Dec 12, 2020
Have you spoken to her? Some people are fighting so many demons and they need help. If you tried helping her and nothing changed, you made the best decision for your sanity sake.
She still needs help.

Check out my YouTube channel for more tips...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eS2uWTZuNz4
Re: I Have Called Off The Marriage by hakeemhakeem(m): 7:59am On Dec 12, 2020
NEWBIN:
We have dated for about a year
She has her strengths and I loved her
But I no longer do

Since we met, she has relocated from 5 houses in one year. She has problems with everybody; workplace, home everywhere.

She always complains someone entered her room in her absence; some story In all the five houses she rented. She complains about everything I do

I can't talk at a certain volume, I can't laugh out without a reprimand, I virtually can't do anything.

She cries every hour

We were planning to get married in January 2021

But I have called off this plan

I think she is mad


She is mad probably she is suffering for depression
Re: I Have Called Off The Marriage by hakeemhakeem(m): 8:02am On Dec 12, 2020
Angelacruz:
nawooh...have you thought of taking her to a pys hospital?



Pls do if you aren't interested again at least do her this favour
Re: I Have Called Off The Marriage by Dremeke: 9:00am On Dec 12, 2020
NEWBIN:
We have dated for about a year
She has her strengths and I loved her
But I no longer do

Since we met, she has relocated from 5 houses in one year. She has problems with everybody; workplace, home everywhere.

She always complains someone entered her room in her absence; some story In all the five houses she rented. She complains about everything I do

I can't talk at a certain volume, I can't laugh out without a reprimand, I virtually can't do anything.

She cries every hour

We were planning to get married in January 2021

But I have called off this plan

I think she is mad
someone mentioned bipolar disorder earlier; it's a possibility. But I'm rooting for schizophrenia with depressive features. Bottom line is she probably has a psychiatric illness. She ought to see a psychiatrist. Discuss visiting the hospital with her even if you won't marry her at least. She may tell you she has no problem which is not out of place given that many patients lack what is called insight.
Re: I Have Called Off The Marriage by DaInferno(m): 9:21am On Dec 12, 2020
good: always think long-term before taking the ride
Re: I Have Called Off The Marriage by Dayoebe(m): 9:32am On Dec 12, 2020

You just did the right thing.
Just be fervent in prayer so your picture will not end up in Shiloh

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