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Swiitdoll:
Hi y’all. Silly question but here we go. I’ve had a friend of 11 years I’m seeing casually now but he’s super annoying. I overlooked some stuff he’s done to wrong me before but this time I was super pissed I went in on him with no filter, damn I really went in badly, even blocked him after. Reading those messages I sent now I feel bad. Can I come back from it? Or just forget about him and the friendship forever.

tell us what he did for we to know how to advice you on the matter.

What Do U Want? Where Did U Go Dat U Want To Come Back 4rm? Do U Want To Reconcile With Him? What Even Led To All Dis?

youngsahito:
tell us what he did for we to know how to advice you on the matter.

He promised to help me with a document then went ghost. Message no reply, call no answer. Prior to that he complained I’m only using him, which I’m not. But fact remains he promised to help and could have just said he won’t anymore instead of wasting my time waiting and now deadline is here.

I tired of this children on nairaland

Swiitdoll:


He promised to help me with a document then went ghost. Message no reply, call no answer. Prior to that he complained I’m only using him, which I’m not. But fact remains he promised to help and could have just said he won’t anymore instead of wasting my time waiting and now deadline is here.

Nigerian girls and their entitlement mentality!

Wtf
I feel like pinching u aje

Did u knw the situation his passing through?

11yrs freindship because of one disappointment u wan seperate

Have u guys married?

Why he kan dey pain u na

Kriss216:

Nigerian girls and their entitlement mentality!

Promise Is a debt. I’ve lost about £500 today because he intentionally didn’t fulfil his promise.

Swiitdoll:


He promised to help me with a document then went ghost. Message no reply, call no answer. Prior to that he complained I’m only using him, which I’m not. But fact remains he promised to help and could have just said he won’t anymore instead of wasting my time waiting and now deadline is here.

He doesn't owe you anything, have you helped him for something before, do you know what happened to him and why he couldn't meet up.
I had a lady friend like this and she told me to help her give her file to the dean of students my phone ran down I couldn't contact anyone after waiting for hrs to see the dean I finally got my phone on and saw very ungrateful messages, I just told the dean not to bother at all and I cut off from her.
He said he would help he doesn't owe you anything so if he couldn't meet up don't blame him blame yourself for being in that position. Cut off from him cause you are a tumor in his life he deserves better friends than you. ungrateful bitch

hashtagged:


He doesn't owe you anything, have you helped him for something before, do you know what happened to him and why he couldn't meet up.
I had a lady friend like this and she told me to help her give her file to the dean of students my phone ran down I couldn't contact anyone after waiting for hrs to see the dean I finally got my phone on and saw very ungrateful messages, I just told the dean not to bother at all and I cut off from her.
He said he would help he doesn't owe you anything so if he couldn't meet up don't blame him blame yourself for being in that position ungrateful bitch

I messaged and called and called no reply. I lost about £500 to his intentional negligence. Okay I won’t bother then. Pple come and go anyway. And yes I’ve helped him with something. Even bought him a nice gift he liked. I just had enough of being treated unfairly.

Swiitdoll:


He promised to help me with a document then went ghost. Message no reply, call no answer. Prior to that he complained I’m only using him, which I’m not. But fact remains he promised to help and could have just said he won’t anymore instead of wasting my time waiting and now deadline is here.

you guyz need to define the kind of relationship you are into; are u dating or just friends? cos the guy might just think that you have friend zone him while u have another thing on your mind. the guy also act childish by not coming out to express what is bothering him. make una settle your matter there. meanwhile, matter too much 4 9ja wey we never settle.

Swiitdoll:

Promise Is a debt. I’ve lost about £500 today because he intentionally didn’t fulfil his promise.

swear say u never failed promise b4

hashtagged:


He doesn't owe you anything, have you helped him for something before, do you know what happened to him and why he couldn't meet up.
I had a lady friend like this and she told me to help her give her file to the dean of students my phone ran down I couldn't contact anyone after waiting for hrs to see the dean I finally got my phone on and saw very ungrateful messages, I just told the dean not to bother at all and I cut off from her.
He said he would help he doesn't owe you anything so if he couldn't meet up don't blame him blame yourself for being in that position. Cut off from him cause you are a tumor in his life he deserves better friends than you. ungrateful bitch

baba, calm down na... your blood dey hot ooo. girls can be annoying sometimes

Fvckhypocrite:
swear say u never failed promise b4

At least I’d explain. Not just ignore when the person messages and calls and calls

youngsahito:
you guyz need to define the kind of relationship you are into; are u dating or just friends? cos the guy might just think that you have friend zone him while u have another thing on your mind. the guy also act childish by not coming out to express what is bothering him. make una settle your matter there. meanwhile, matter too much 4 9ja wey we never settle.

Friends with benefits. He’s not my type to date. He also laments I use him, but we mutually use each other. That aside I lost about £500 in this pandemic that I’ve not been working. I was super pissed

Fvckhypocrite:
Wtf
I feel like pinching u aje

Did u knw the situation his passing through?

11yrs freindship because of one disappointment u wan seperate

Have u guys married?

Why he kan dey pain u na

But he could have explained. Instead of ignoring calls and messages. I lost money due to it. Why is nobody seeing my point!

Swiitdoll:

At least I’d explain. Not just ignore when the person messages and calls and calls

madam disappiontment is a must in this life

What if it's ur mum or dad that disappoint u will u seperate with them

Just move on madam

Swiitdoll:


But he could have explained. Instead of ignoring calls and messages. I lost money due to it. Why is nobody seeing my point!

I undastand ur point bt
Why taking it serious, it's a normal thing in this world today

U dnt need to depend on anybody


Learn from this so next time get plan b

Fvckhypocrite:
madam disappiontment is a must in this life

What if it's ur mum or dad that disappoint u will u seperate with them

Just move on madam

Okay I will

hashtagged:


He doesn't owe you anything, have you helped him for something before, do you know what happened to him and why he couldn't meet up.
I had a lady friend like this and she told me to help her give her file to the dean of students my phone ran down I couldn't contact anyone after waiting for hrs to see the dean I finally got my phone on and saw very ungrateful messages, I just told the dean not to bother at all and I cut off from her.
He said he would help he doesn't owe you anything so if he couldn't meet up don't blame him blame yourself for being in that position. Cut off from him cause you are a tumor in his life he deserves better friends than you. ungrateful bitch

wtf
Guy u dey vex o

Fvckhypocrite:
I undastand ur point bt
Why taking it serious, it's a normal thing in this world today

U dnt need to depend on anybody


Learn from this so next time get plan b

Thank you

Swiitdoll:

Friends with benefits. He’s not my type to date. He also laments I use him, but we mutually use each other. That aside I lost about £500 in this pandemic that I’ve not been working. I was super pissed

the guy don see u finish no more respect after fvckin the hell out of ur life

Damnn no vex

Swiitdoll:

Thank you

Uwlc

Fvckhypocrite:
the guy don see u finish no more respect after fvckin the hell out of ur life

Damnn no vex

He begged me to date him but he’s not my type sorry. My ex is a doctor, he’d even laugh at me if he knows I downgraded lmao. He complained I use him for sex I guess that’s why he intentionally did this. Pos!

Swiitdoll:


He begged me to date him but he’s not my type sorry. My ex is a doctor, he’d even laugh at me if he knows I downgraded lmao. He complained I use him for sex I guess that’s why he intentionally did this. Pos!

Wait oo
The guy dey vex bcoz una dey fvck eachother ?

The guy na jonzin man oo

Where u dey base?

Fvckhypocrite:
Wtf
I feel like pinching u aje

Did u knw the situation his passing through?

11yrs freindship because of one disappointment u wan seperate

Have u guys married?

Why he kan dey pain u na

I don’t even think he’d answer if I say sorry and I’m not sure I even want to. Just felt a sense of loss for a lil while I’d be fine haha

Swiitdoll:


I don’t even think he’d answer if I say sorry and I’m not sure I even want to. Just felt a sense of loss for a lil while I’d be fine haha

U guys are fvckin tired of the relationshp

E beta make una ghost each other

Whatever y decide is your decision..
Just get that shit noted

Swiitdoll:


He begged me to date him but he’s not my type sorry. My ex is a doctor, he’d even laugh at me if he knows I downgraded lmao. He complained I use him for sex I guess that’s why he intentionally did this. Pos!

I don't know why you would date your friends, everyone needs to draw a line between friends and lovers. Dating friends forever ruins your friendship.

But hear from him first something might have happened that he couldn't meet up you not even asking his is a bit unfair I doubt he just forgot or did it purposely

Fvckyouall:


I don't know why you would date your friends, everyone needs to draw a line between friends and lovers. Dating friends forever ruins your friendship.

But hear from him first something might have happened that he couldn't meet up you not even asking his is a bit unfair I doubt he just forgot or did it purposely

I’m not dating him, I’d never not even if I was paid. Fwb is the zone I put him in. He did it on purpose jare, how can U promise something so important and when the person calls and calls and messages u don’t answer till the deadline? I honestly just feel bad about my choice of words. Went in on his age, appearance, iq, level of maturity, reliability. Called him out on using silent treatment like a child instead of communicating. And wish a truck wld run him over. I was super pissed lol. He was always complaining I only use him for sex, don’t care about him etc. But he just left a relationship and so did I, both emotionally unavailable so idk what he’s whining about lol. My words were cruel, I hope he didn’t cry lol

Swiitdoll:

I’m not dating him, I’d never not even if I was paid. Fwb is the zone I put him in. He did it on purpose jare, how can U promise something so important and when the person calls and calls and messages u don’t answer till the deadline? I honestly just feel bad about my choice of words. Went in on his age, appearance, iq, level of maturity, reliability. Called him out on using silent treatment like a child instead of communicating. And wish a truck wld run him over. I was super pissed lol.

Even FWB can cause a bit of toxicity these days, but try to calm down first maybe take a cold shower and cool your head then tell him you want to talk peacefully if he doesn't want to talk then walk away.
Is he by any means younger? Am trying to conclude on something

Fvckyouall:


Even FWB can cause a bit of toxicity these days, but try to calm down first maybe take a cold shower and cool your head then tell him you want to talk peacefully if he doesn't want to talk then walk away.
Is he by any means younger? Am trying to conclude on something

No he’s 3 years older. We even grew up in the same area back home and were friends for years, moved abroad to diff countries and still friends. I like him as a person, but I’m still very bitter from my rel not working and so is he and I’m not interested in anything serious. Idk why he thinks I’m using him. I even have his Xmas gift already in my box as I’m supposed to visit in 3 weeks. But he pissed me off so bad. I lost £500 from his intentional negligence. I just think if I talk to him first he’d think what he did was right or maybe it’s my ego. Haha