How much does a heartbreak affect ur future r/ship, does it make u stronger or it leaves u devastated 4ever. Some one reply please.
A friend of mine told me the only time He was ever able to understand himself was when He had a heartbreak.
Whereas I have my cousin sister who has not been able to cope after a heartbreak since 2yrs.

i think its suppose to make you stronger and wiser. it also points out mistakes made and how to avoid future occurrence. but sometimes how it affects,depends on the individuals.

i just went through one, believe me it's not a good thing, but then it is a necessary evil, it lead me to a better man. Never be bitter after a heartbreak cuz u don't know what God is saving u from.

"That which doesn't kill you would definitely make you stronger"- nitszchie. I have had 3 heart breaks in the course of 10 years. Each one a lot worse than the previous. I am defitenitely better off becos i sure know when i see the tell tale signs again, but worse becos i find it very difficult to trust anyone again. I know i would have to but let me find that special one first

heart breaks cud kll!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

to me,d effects of heartbreaks jus depends mainly on he individuals.some pple are able to search for d positive sides an mov on wiv thier lifes while som pple jus give up basically, my opinion is learn from ur past and use lessons to hlp the future

yea i really think its necessary 4 girls 2 experience dat also i think its gud 4 them 2 experience unwanted pregnancy and possibly abortion so dat they become overwise wen they marry although i don't wan ma sisters or future wife 2 have dat experience sha!!!!!

ThoniaSlim:

i think its suppose to make you stronger and wiser. it also points out mistakes made and how to avoid future occurrence. but sometimes how it affects,depends on the individuals.

point of correction sweetie, it cannot be avoided

tonte:

yea i really think its necessary 4 girls 2 experience that also i think its good 4 them 2 experience unwanted pregnancy and possibly abortion so that they become overwise when they marry although i don't wan ma sisters or future wife 2 have that experience sha!!!!!

Guy, dont u think your stand is rather contradictory? How could it b neccessary for every girl but ur sister & wife?