Fahdiga:
Women of nowadays are something else.

Patriarchy001:
A picture they say, speaks a thousand words...

Women are not happy because they've traded in their youth and fertility to compete with men in the workplace, thus subjecting themselves to a more stressful and lonely life...

nwaezeemmanuel:
@the bolded Partly true

But no woman is mandated to raise a family, no man should be mandated to as well.

Happiness isn't tied to that, the channel for it extends beyond having kids and the likes.

Patriarchy001:
A picture they say, speaks a thousand words...

Women are not happy because they've traded in their youth and fertility to compete with men in the workplace, thus subjecting themselves to a more stressful and lonely life...

Kobicove:


Times have changed...there are a lot of things you can't control

Denique:
It has to do with us trying not to be a liability—to ourselves, to the society.

The average Nigerian woman needs twice the amount of time of her western counterpart to achieve same feat; reason these people seem to be more independent than us, marry earlier than us.

It isn't about competing with the men; neither are we hoeing. For some of us, it's about bringing something to the table which takes us longer time to achieve due to our environment.

Back then, our mothers didn't need to have a means of livelihood before being taken(married). The narrative has changed!

Our modern men want a woman graduate, in some cases an MSc holder...working or owning a thriving business. These things don't come easy, especially: for most of us who didn't/don't have the foundation, connection, means, coupled with ASUU strike. So many factors impede a ladies marital growth.

Below is a link to a thread and Kriss216 made a resonating comment. As much as it isn't excusable, a lot of us take to it to survive.
Where then, is the time for such persons to marry early?
https://www.nairaland.com/6328015/blood-sister-smash-phone-lock

Patriarchy001:


How do you mean?

Kobicove:


Nowadays women are also breadwinners therefore in some instances they have to wait for their career to stabilise before they start thinking about getting married and having children...

nwaezeemmanuel:
@the bolded Partly true

But no woman is mandated to raise a family, no man should be mandated to as well.

Happiness isn't tied to that, the channel for it extends beyond having kids and the likes.

Patriarchy001:
A picture they say, speaks a thousand words...

Women are not happy because they've traded in their youth and fertility to compete with men in the workplace, thus subjecting themselves to a more stressful and lonely life...

... and this is the reason why there's an increased rate of depression amongst young women of today.

heygodt.

...awa pillars on whom the whole world rests do not cease to amaze me. on a steady. nothing i won't read from them.

now this one is claiming depression is 24 times haya in women than in men and bla bla bla. i bet pansofist and the red pill crew will disagree with you, though.

Uyi168:
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And when they decide not to work, sit and take care of the home, depending on your money solely.. you and your type will still turn round and call them leeches and liabilities..

...your gendar sef is surprising you, abi? leemao.

Leoniine:


...your gendar sef is surprising you, abi? leemao.

Patriarchy001:


... and this is the reason why there's an increased rate of depression amongst young women of today.

Uyi168:
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And when they decide not to work, sit and take care of the home, depending on your money solely.. you and your type will still turn round and call them leeches and liabilities..

Uyi168:
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I understand these people, really..

Patriarchy001:


A housewife who delegates her duties to a househelp is most definitely a liability and a leech.
Are men able to delegate their work to someone else to do?

If a husband is the primary breadwinner and the wife works but doesn't contribute or sits at home all day with a househelp, then what exactly is she contributing??

Shortyy:


It's just so amusing because women are now waking up and fending for themselves and no longer depending on the "superior" gender. It's beginning to bug them. Stay pressed motherfvckers.

Shortyy:


Every day this gender create threads upon threads to debate on women. So pathetic.

I hardly see women create threads like "why men are unhappy" or "how to be more cruel to men" or something like that.

J111333:
It's called feminism bro and awa sisters seem to like it though Linda Ikeji and recently Etinosa now seem not to like it that much.

LINTUNE:
oga i disagree with u on this, todays world, favours women, more than men..

Patriarchy001:


Yes, they may make money easier than men by monetising their private parts, practising hypergamy and whooring around.. but that doesn't mean they are happier.

Patriarchy001:
A picture they say, speaks a thousand words...

Women are not happy because they've traded in their youth and fertility to compete with men in the workplace, thus subjecting themselves to a more stressful and lonely life...

LINTUNE:
they are making more money than men, yet society doe'snt pressure them in taking responsibilities, understand my point..