obowunmi:

Looka who is coming to lecture on the wrd "seem": next time, villager, use the proper terminology, versus trying to xplain incongruent lingo. Kapish --- and if ure receiving Eglish lectures from Obiagbhon, then not my concern.

obowunmi:

How do u measure smart, dummy - wats your evaluation tool ?

Misusing terminolgy in phrases ? Or gaining access to a dic.kit.tionary ?

obowunmi:

Pride? you are the one who has reached the the false assumption that the OP doesn't love his wife because he doesn't want to turn into an inlaw houseboy. Now you're here, speaking in tongues -- like a mad man.

This is the internet, now be CLEAR when you write, we can't read your mind.

prixxy:

so driving the father inlaw somwhere will turn the man into a houseboy na wa oohh

LOVE YOUR WIFE AS YOU LOVE YOUR SELF ,so if you can do it for your self why cant you do it for your wife?

if you can drive your dad why cant you drive your wifes dad?

obowunmi:

look there are many Nigerians looking for jobs out there, so you hire a driver and if you can't hire a driver, then get them a taxi. Life is not as hard as some people make it seem.

But I won't be driving any in-law anywhere. End of story.

obowunmi:

Pride? you are the one who has reached the the false assumption that the OP doesn't love his wife because he doesn't want to turn into an inlaw houseboy. Now you're here, speaking in tongues -- like a mad man.

This is the internet, now be CLEAR when you write, we can't read your mind.

obowunmi:

^^^ what if you don't have the time ? I mean, is it a MUST to drive someone around? The answer is NO!

Why I won't do it is because its something that the driver does --- drive once, everytime the driver is NOT around, you automatically become the replacement --- that's not the type of position I would want to put myself in.

obowunmi:

Maclatunji, I have nothing else to say to you : you claim that the OP doesn't love his wife because he won't be a puppy dog to his in-law now ure here trying to intrepret what you said, go over and sit down and stop panting like a cat.

Next time, use the right terminology or write with an opened dictionary. Its obvious your village headmaster is not teaching you egglish. Oponu!

Damysa:

This is a clear demonstration of a very weak low self esteem, some men might think  they are protecting their ego whereas they are actually degrading and demeaning themselves in the eyes of their women. In what way are you better off than the driver especially in terms of the use and understanding of English?

The poster seems not to:

-Love his wife

-Understand what marriage is all about because[b] he won't drive his inlaws[/b]

obowunmi:

Maclatunji, Egglish is your problem and your improber use of terminology.

You are either a not-so-smart person, fool, or a child because I still don't see, despite your efforts to abuse, a correlation between rejecting being a houseboy and loving one's wife. Oponu!

maclatunji:

It has been fun toying with a proud man like you, I wish your wife the best of luck. She is going to need it.

obowunmi:


your wife nko ? she better prepare to marry a houseboy.

maclatunji:

If some people are telling us to vote for them because they "have no shoes", being called a "houseboy" by egotistical you does not sound like much of a bad thing, no?

klear:

Wats d big deal n driving your FIL 2 an event? if its your father wont u do it? Unless u r beefing d man secretly. its nt worth d hassle with your wife ( women have a long memory u know) & your in-laws who may nt 4get your refusal
@obowunmi like maclatunji was pointin out, if u luv your wife y pick unnecessary issues wit her parents?( issues dat wnt lead anywia unless u dnt wnt peace n d house )nobody said dey wia going 2 turn u n2 dia driver, it was an emergency & d man happened 2 b dia. y wld dey turn d man n2 dia driver even if he is jobless