malakaimoscondo:
how do I go about it sir if I wanna check ur latest thread?

Komu1048:




Congratulations bro, I am very happy for you. But please continue to fill your soul with the word of God, fast a lot and keep praying. There is only one way to stop masturbation and it is in Gal 5:16. I am talking from experience, I will be praying and my mind will be imagining a round unclad a$$, I almost gave up that it’s impossible to stop anymore. Until I started studying the Bible , fasting and ensure I’m filled with the Holy Spirit, keep praying. The request of the Holy Spirit can not be over emphasized in the fight against any form of sexual sin. For over a year now I haven’t engage in any form of sexual sin, i now feel irritated by nudes or the thought of it. So it’s a great achievement bro

kalu61:
What's wrong with African man?

Masturbation was hindering your progress and causing your money to vanish. Tell me, is your money not vanishing again.

Your problem was not masturbation but twist of life. When things doesn't work out, we naturally tend to question and blame everything. Sometimes it may just be indicipline, careless decisions, environment and state of mind etc.

Anyways, when you feel the urge, first is to work out of your house. Take a stroll. Occupy your minds with meaningful things, get obsessed with your vision and most importantly, if you have the courage, make female friends in your church.

Because your fear will always stare at you.

fuckingAyaya:
I only pity people that says masturbation is not a sin, let me not tell my story it only God that can bring someone out of that shit.

soulwin4life:
I was a little bit timid why growing up, I found out that things don't usually work out well with me and the opposite gender, I always feel cheated and some kind of, so one day I was sitting alone and discovered that I was feeling some kind of Hot. To cut the long story short that was how the issue of masturbation en kindled me. But I discovered something then I lived a very stagnant life, I hardly have any goal accomplished, I will pray to God, cry, beg and fast still nothing changed. Immediately those act came and I perform it, it will be as if they have taken my joy away, I will be unnecessarily unhappy, I couldn't help myself then and I keep on repeating one particular goal. Life was just a messed up for me then that I even attempted suicide more than ten times.

Until I decided to listen to gospel giving myself wholly to God, I prayed to God to help me out as I couldn't help myself, because people including my relation always mock and take me as someone that have nothing to contribute, even when important issue emerge I hardly come to mind, sometimes I will sat down to imagine how I have been working so hard with no result, I hardly keep money, I don't even know sometimes how money use to vanish from my hand, in fact the whole thing may not be compiled in one note.

As I seek the face of God I prayed I refuse to allow those evil thought cross my mind, and the moment I started to abstain from it things started changing.

I can testify today that masturbation left me and I discovered who I am.

Felabrity:
Only Simps masturbate

Real men don't do that shit

justli:


No sir. It's either your parents still fend for you, or you just started masturbating, or you have never masturbated or you are living in denial.

The human being is as whole as his mind. Masturbation and porn fvcks with the mind in ways you cannot begin to imagine. It cripples your spirit, your drive, your manly energy, your persona.

It is safe to say, no addicted masturbator can ever achieve their full potential. Don't be decieved by fake experts telling you how masturbation is the absolute best thing...
Any masturbator, If they are true to themselves, would wish they never indulged that first wanking...

SegFault:
Nigerians ehn, always looking for what to blame their laziness and lack of goals on. If this one wasn't masturbating I'm sure he'll blame it on his enemies.

thelinguist:
only in Africa

Basalt:
My own situation is totally different honestly.
Masturbating or not masturbating has nothing to do with success or money-making, but don't overdo it to avoid being fatigue (loss of energy).

As someone who hardly has time for girls because of my work and studies, I use masturbation not only for sexual relief but also as a sleeping pill . I noticed that after masturbating and having a warm bath, my body becomes relaxed and I could sleep like a baby without sexual thought or wet sleep at night, and whenever my alarm rings, I wake up like a lion.
I don't do it every day. Maybe once or twice a week, but believe me it is not affecting me by any means and it is perfectly normal, no time wastage chasing girls and writing love letters, no time wastage asking have you eaten, no money wasted on gifts etc.
Right now, having a girlfriend for me is time-consuming, I will still have but it is not currently possible unless the girl will understand me and don't expect me to spend much time with her because honestly, I don't have time.
My idea is this, don't overdo it, especially if your work demands energy. Believe me, there is absolutely nothing wrong with masturbation, some doctors even recommend it.
Instead of raping girls or sleeping indiscriminately with every girl around you, why not relieve yourself and be alright without causing harm to anyone and without committing any crime?
We Africans spiritualize everything.

soulwin4life:
I was a little bit timid why growing up, I found out that things don't usually work out well with me and the opposite gender, I always feel cheated and some kind of, so one day I was sitting alone and discovered that I was feeling some kind of Hot. To cut the long story short that was how the issue of masturbation en kindled me. But I discovered something then I lived a very stagnant life, I hardly have any goal accomplished, I will pray to God, cry, beg and fast still nothing changed. Immediately those act came and I perform it, it will be as if they have taken my joy away, I will be unnecessarily unhappy, I couldn't help myself then and I keep on repeating one particular goal. Life was just a messed up for me then that I even attempted suicide more than ten times.

Until I decided to listen to gospel giving myself wholly to God, I prayed to God to help me out as I couldn't help myself, because people including my relation always mock and take me as someone that have nothing to contribute, even when important issue emerge I hardly come to mind, sometimes I will sat down to imagine how I have been working so hard with no result, I hardly keep money, I don't even know sometimes how money use to vanish from my hand, in fact the whole thing may not be compiled in one note.

As I seek the face of God I prayed I refuse to allow those evil thought cross my mind, and the moment I started to abstain from it things started changing.

I can testify today that masturbation left me and I discovered who I am.

slyfoxxjoe:
Lol. I self-service like 3-5 times a day and life has never been sweeter

justli:


Only in Africa? You are obviously not informed. Because I can give thousands of foreign websites, forums and YouTube channels dedicated to helping fellow man win over the struggle of porn.

If you wish to continue porning, by all means indulge your cravings, but don't live in denial of the obvious

humilitypays:
The truth is, majority of Africans don't have sense. Black Africans are just too daft, no wonder they remain the lowest of low among all races of the world.

Masturbation is a sin in Christianity, yes we know. If you are a Christian, it is good to live a righteous life in other to have close relationship with God. But living a righteous life or being a righteous person does not expressly mean you will be rich and successful financially, nope. There are millions if not billions of poor righteous people all over the world.


The laws of financial riches is different. Whether you are a pagan, an atheist, a Buddhist, an Hindu, a Muslim or Christian, so long as you practice the principles of making money, by providing values and solutions to the society, you will be financially successful. Your living a righteous life is for your personal salvation not for you to become rich.

Masturbation is never the reason anybody is poor or jobless or struggling with life. Nigeria have no jobs, the available jobs are underpaid jobs. So if you live in Nigeria, your chances of becoming financially free is limited by virtue of your location. This has nothing to do with Masturbation.


Masturbation is not the only sin we commit daily. We fornicate, we lie, we deceive others, we hate, we backstab, we mock and bully and envy others.....we steal at our workplaces, we steal from societies we belong, we inflate prices, so tell me how it's only Masturbation that make only black Africans poor and unemployed


Blame your failed past and present corrupt governments that destroyed Nigeria.


Americans are among the richest people on earth, they have the highest number of billionaires and even good paying jobs for their citizens, but do you also know that Americans masturbate, fornicate and do all sorts of filthy sexual activities from gay to transgender to incest yet they are materially blessed with good things of this world.


Same Nigerian person complaining of evil spirits holding him down and preventing him from getting a good job or buying a car, the moment he leaves Nigeria and enter US, he gets a good job and buy a car and start to live a good life and may even start committing more sexual immoralities while in the US than when he was in Nigeria yet he or she will still be progressing.


Nigerians please fix your country, hold your foolish leaders accountable. Stop worshipping God just because you want money, good job, best wife, best husband, etc. Worship God because you love and cherish God for who He is, not because of the things you want God to do for you.

FLESHnBLOOD:
Omo masturbation is very bad.. Must of the guys both Male nd female who have confided in me who are deeply into it they all have one thing in common. "Life of stagnation" masturbation is a limiter of destiny. Such a dangerous virus from the pit of hell.

NetBizguy:
Listen boy, it hasn't done you anything yet, it's just your conscience as a Christian that's making you feel unholy, it is a habit and has nothing to do with prayer if you haven't decided that it's a childish act that you need to stop. That's how a got over it. Stop seeing yourself as worthless when you fall back, it's a habit and it's childish to still continue responding what's not good for you.

Bear in mind as human you might fall back but fight back immediately after fall because what keeps you stock is when you give up in the sense that you have already destroyed your resolve of stoping..

Just decide now and see it as childish act, think I the awful feelings you get after engaging in the act. Just remember that and then ask yourself "the pleasure does it worth your future as a married man? You complaining that masturbation is dealing with you now, now I guess the masturbation mostly while you're watching porn, then you must prepare for the worst PIED, Porn induced Erectile Dysfunction. Just go read that up

miketayo:


its a sin but it's not the reason for someone not progressing, it's just an excuse the op needs to transfer his failure, everyone does it. if he is very busy with work that is sure to fetch him money, masturbation won't cross his mind.