I[b] HAVE ALWAYS HAD THIS FLIR FOR OLDER MEN(NOT MARRIED). I HAVE ALWAYS WANTED TO DATE A GUY WHO IS ABOUT 8 - 15 YEARS OLDER THAN I AM

I THINK THEY ARE FAR WAY BETTER THAN (CHINGUM BOYS) GUYS THAT ARE WITHIN THESAME AGE RANGE WITH ME.

OLDER MEN ACT REALY MATURE AND KNOW HOW TO TREAT A WOMAN BETTER.

OLDER MEN KNOW WHEN TO SROWLED A WOMAN,

OLDER MEN KNOW WHEN TO PET HIS WOMAN

OLDER MEN CAN READ HIS WOMANS MOOD AND TELL WHEN SHE IS HAPPY OR NOT.

AN OLDER MAN HAS THIS SENSE OF RESPONSIBILITY TOWARDS YOU[/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000].[/b]





I DONT THINK ONE MUMMY'S BOY WOULD WANT TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY LIKE THE REAL MAN.

PLZ AM I IN THIS ALONE, OR THERE ARE WAY MORE PEOPLE OUT THERE WHO SHARE THESAME VIEW WITH ME.

Older women are better than you.

@ poster, unfortunately we don't know ur age to be able to say who is an older man. If u are 17 and a guy is 18, he's still an older man. The question is; are men within this age range included in ur idea of older men? Otherwise no one would know exactly what u mean by "older men"

busygal, really dating a guy dat is older by 5-10 yrs is okay by me, but i think 15yrs is rather too much, well unless d guy has a very young physique n has a fat pocket, he must also be virile u know,

Busygal, I stem with you on this one! These young BOIS are full of crap! They are very childish and in most instances, dont know what they want. If you can help it, try dating someone who is at least 8 years older than you one.

@ Topic (not only poster oo)
Getting down with a man that is about 15 years older than you are makes me suspect you. Are you sure you are not leaving out one important reason for prefaring such old men? Am just curious pal. Let me help you, if you get down with a very old man you could end up with his inheritance after he must have died suddenly! . Gatch yah

@poster i think am also interested in your age.u could need serious help u know.

@ Topic (not only poster oo)
Getting down with a man that is about 15 years older than you are makes me suspect you.  Are you sure you are not leaving out one important reason for prefaring such old men? Am just curious pal. Let me help you, if you get down with a very old man you could end up with his inheritance after he must have died suddenly!  . Gatch yah [tt][/tt]


wat do u mean by suspect me SILLY BOY, i gave u my reasons, The older men act realy mature than mummys babies.
i guess 15years might be too much 4 me, it does not necessaryly have 2 be 15years.
wat matters most is him having a realy mature mind to taKE RESPONSIBILITIES.

Hazel-eyed:

@poster i think am also interested in your age.u could need serious help u know.

HAZEL EYED, I PROMISE TO GET INTOUCH WITH YOU IF I NEED ANY HELP.
IT JUST UNFORTUNATE THAT WE DONT CLICK, NEITHER DO WE SHARE THESAME VIEW,
BUT I STRONGLY BELIVE THAT EVERYONE IS ENTITTLED TO HIS OR HER OWN OPINION.
AM A YOUNG, HARDWORKING AND STRONGWILLED LADY WITH GOOD INTENSIONS
AND VE GOT NO PROB. ITS JUST ME

Angelheart:

Busygal, I stem with you on this one! These young BOIS are full of crap! They are very childish and in most instances, don't know what they want. If you can help it, try dating someone who is at least 8 years older than you one.

I ROOT WITH YOU ANGELHEART. SURE I CAN DATE ONE WHO IS 8YRS OLDER IF IT WERE POSSIBLE. THANKS SWEETHEART 4 SHAREING DESAME VEIW WITH MOII.

One man's food , How come the society accepts ladies dating their dad's age mates and everyone calls the man a cradle snatcher just wondering

@ busygal

I just feel you ommited one salient reason for "running" older men's "programme". That's the inheritance. It's simple, older people are more likely to die before younger people. Common, Aristotle's second law of logic (if all S are P, then all P are S!)

If the old papa dies, you get to inherit him and then get down with young verile guys like me . INHERITANCE is one good reson young women dig old paper. Could that be one of your reasons too? * just wondering. tapping my fingers on my desk,waiting for your answers*

@poster,
I am with you on this one, my fiance is 10yrs older than me and the difference is clear compared to my Ex. He is so mature and has taught me so many things about life i never knew before and of course i am treated like a real baby and i love it.

know what i like about the whole young guy/ old guy thing at the end of the day, all you ladies that prefer the old guys are still g'onna fall back to the young ones !



confused ?

@topic
at least a guy should be minimum six years and maximum 11years but definitely not older than that.

Older men for me are the way to go.
I personally would want an older man cause they would be able to handle me better cause i can be a handful at times and i need someone who is far mature to withstand ma madness.

U KNOW WAT SILLY BOY! U CAN THINK WAT EVER U WANT 2,

I GUESS WE JUST DONT CLICK.


I GUESS U ARE 'LEFT' WHILE AM 'RIGHT'

U ARE 'WAS' WHILE AM 'IS'

@ busygal.

Good morning. Believe me, I really don't care if we click or we don't . Am a friend to friends and foe to foes kind of a guy. I've got so many people I click with, so I can't bother myserlf with a few I don't click with

I was only trying to make you see a reason you might be leaving behind for digging older men. Byeeeea.

busy gal na wa you.
shuo are you sure you are not after their pocket,know this an older guy(10-15 yrs older) will neva love you,will just use you to change their old blood.
and when it comes to sex just get ready for 1 min noddles.

heh heh heh heh heh! Please leave poster alone oh! Most of the guys here have been spoted asking to hook up older ladies so why is this case different? Remember topics like "I need a mummy" and co?

@Topic
Please feel free jo!

@ angelheart,

i concurr

@ busy gal

i feel u

It wld really depend on d individual. A guy needs 2 feel u wld give him his respect may dats why u shld date someone older dan u but u shld b mindful of dating someone so much older dan u he may capitalize on it n treat u real bad. I 4 one cannot date a person of d same age as I am talk less of someone younger dan I

Gurlfriend, you need to be careful, I think you need to be counselled, you have got to change your way of thinking, life is not all about what you think sometimes,

@ksmiles

lol!

Relax! u're acting TENSED UP.am very okay,
I promise that i will cancell you instead and u
would definately BEND.

Life is not as hard as u make it seem.
Its up to every individual to choose what
he/she wants out of LIFE.

Ok. Firstly, i guess it's true that the guy should have some edge over the chic. What can i say? Experience has taught me to accept the reality.
Watever the reason be, financial ,, sexual ,, etc. na so we see am.

U girls can have a lovely time looking for older guys ,, na una time.

Guys,, pls forget ur age mates and look for younger gals , at least u now know one more thing (out of the gazillion things ) that goes on in dem girls heads .

As for me, its dem youngies from now on,

Peace !!!

@poster

It's a psychological thing.

Young girls wanna date older guys _{thinking that there is sth there that is special.}

It's simply a psychological thing _{talk about ego and a false sense of security}

I've been there _{classified as a chingum boy by ladies my age in the past} and now an older guy _{being lured by both younger chicks and the same older fowls that thought me a chingum boy}

A responsible guy is a responsible guy _{it hardly comes wth age.}

And a stingy guy is a stingy guy.

The only difference is that older guys will take advantage of you much faster and wilder than you so-called chingum boys.

@opokonwa: You are so right! It has nothing to do with age. I have dated a guy that is 12-13 years older than I, and he was full of crab and immature. I've also dated someone who is 4 years older than I, and he adored every step that I take, so it makes me wonder maybe the older one never even liked me to begin with.

People don't want'o change but want people tolerating their mood swings and appreciate their nuisance value. The truth is that you can only be with the person of your own kind.