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Let Say You Caught (him/her) Cheating On You? by Ethiodime: 2:30am On Apr 07, 2011
Who will u chase,fight with,be mad at or even blame; your partner or the person he or she has cheated on you wit ? why and why not?
i have seen a lot of girls who run after other blameless girls wen their boyfriends cheat, instead of those low lifes there are dating. honest n meaningful answers needed gents n ladies.
Re: Let Say You Caught (him/her) Cheating On You? by BABE3: 2:35am On Apr 07, 2011
Both of them,,
Re: Let Say You Caught (him/her) Cheating On You? by Ethiodime: 2:40am On Apr 07, 2011
lmaao thats wasn't my question, my question is who wld u blame more ur bf or da person he cheated on u wit. In dis scenario let say u never knew da gurl in ur lyfe but u happened to caught her n ur bf cheatin on u. wil u blame n b/tchslap ur bf or her ?
Re: Let Say You Caught (him/her) Cheating On You? by BABE3: 2:44am On Apr 07, 2011
well, I knew that wasn't your question, I just decided to answer it that way. tongue

@ your second question, smiley, At that moment, (coz I'll be very angry), I would slap both of them. lol,
Later sha, when I calm down, my bf will suffer more from the side effect(s).A.K.A me.
Re: Let Say You Caught (him/her) Cheating On You? by Ethiodime: 2:49am On Apr 07, 2011
Sweetie I knoe anger can lead a person to do many stupid things but why splash ur anger on da gal wen she never had allegiance 2 u at all? there is nothin 2 be gained by u in pursuin da "other" woman, other than embarrassment. Look to ur man 4 the answers you seek. smiley
Re: Let Say You Caught (him/her) Cheating On You? by BABE3: 2:52am On Apr 07, 2011
ok ma'am. Nuff said!
Re: Let Say You Caught (him/her) Cheating On You? by Ethiodime: 2:54am On Apr 07, 2011
why re u letting me win so easily, re u out of wadz ? undecided
Re: Let Say You Caught (him/her) Cheating On You? by BABE3: 3:01am On Apr 07, 2011
No, I just didn't want to argue, but it seems you're bored, so imma keep you company, lol

Like I said before, In the heat of the moment I would be angry at both of them, then later on, when I cool down, i'll be more mad at the guy .! smiley
Re: Let Say You Caught (him/her) Cheating On You? by kandiikane(m): 3:03am On Apr 07, 2011
If I my catch my man cheating, I would firstly tell him well done, Tell the girl to get out and continue like nothing happened, If he wants to talk anout it I will tell him it is alright we will deal with it when I am ready, when the time comes for us to be intimate I would handcuff him to the bed and then go to the kitchen heat up oil, Will then take that oil  and pour it on his genitals after doing that I would then pour  canyenne pepper on it and then I would say well done, Leave the handcuff key on the bed and leave and cry,
Re: Let Say You Caught (him/her) Cheating On You? by Ethiodime: 3:12am On Apr 07, 2011
BABE!:

No, I just didn't want to argue, but it seems you're bored, so imma keep you company, lol

Like I said before, In the heat of the moment I would be angry at both of them, then later on, when I cool down, i'll be more mad at the guy .! smiley
im bored n half, wld i be here if i wasn't. i dont like pple givin me da thumbs ups n lettin me win easily hun. smiley

kandiikane:

I would handcuff him to the bed and then go to the kitchen heat up oil, Will then take that oil  and pour it on his focal places after doing that I would then pour  canyenne pepper on it and then I would say well done, Leave the handcuff key on the bed and leave and cry,
lmaaoooo evil woman to the naught, let da cheating dogs penisless is ur motion. Hands down. cheesy
Re: Let Say You Caught (him/her) Cheating On You? by kandiikane(m): 3:15am On Apr 07, 2011
Ethiodime:

im bored n half, wld i be here if i wasn't. i dont like pple givin me da thumbs ups n lettin me win easily hun. smiley
lmaaoooo evil woman to the naught, let da cheating dogs penisless is your motion. Hands down. cheesy

lol I just cannot bear a man cheating on me after I have given him my all, If he makes me suffer by cheating I will make him suffer a tenfold, cool
Re: Let Say You Caught (him/her) Cheating On You? by Ethiodime: 3:19am On Apr 07, 2011
kandiikane:

lol I just cannot bear a man cheating on me after I have given him my all, If he makes me suffer by cheating I will make him suffer a tenfold, cool
but going after him will just whistle to him dat he won da cricket, da best act da you can do after u got cheat on, is move past by the ba.stard like nuttin happened. I swear dat wil drive him crazy. but pullin ur hairs n his, dats a big no no if u ask me. smiley
Re: Let Say You Caught (him/her) Cheating On You? by kandiikane(m): 3:22am On Apr 07, 2011
For me no I do not think I can do that, I will take my revenge quietly and leave him,
Re: Let Say You Caught (him/her) Cheating On You? by Phate07(m): 3:23am On Apr 07, 2011
Ethiodime:

Who will u chase,fight with,be mad at or even blame; your partner or the person he or she has cheated on you wit ? why and why not?
i have seen a lot of girls who run after other blameless girls wen their boyfriends cheat, instead of those low lifes there are dating. honest n meaningful answers needed gents n ladies.





Wont fight or do any stooopid ish.

I would just find me a gun and blast the mourrafukcer that's messing with ma girl. Simple. angry sad
Re: Let Say You Caught (him/her) Cheating On You? by Phate07(m): 3:26am On Apr 07, 2011

But on a more serious note, i would most probabely find me another girl.

I would just move on. It aint the end of the world. undecided
Re: Let Say You Caught (him/her) Cheating On You? by Ethiodime: 3:28am On Apr 07, 2011
kandiikane:

For me no I do not think I can do that,  I will take my revenge quietly and leave him,

i totally understand, hey by da way did u got cheated on?  smiley


Phate07:


Wont fight or do any stooopid ish.

I would just find me a gun and blast the mourrafukcer that's messing with ma girl. Simple. angry sad


Such a splendid action, then you will end up in jail where u wil get buttfcuked. It's gonna be a lose/lose on both side 4 u, ooh yesssss.  angry

Re: Let Say You Caught (him/her) Cheating On You? by Pweety4me(f): 3:30am On Apr 07, 2011
It must be a dream.
Re: Let Say You Caught (him/her) Cheating On You? by Ethiodime: 3:34am On Apr 07, 2011
Phate07:


But on a more serious note, i would most probabely find me another girl.

I would just move on. It aint the end of the world. undecided



right after u go to bed crying n fasting endless night, dats wen u can move on. Psssst we women knoe dat men can't live w/o us. women are men oxygen. cool

Pweety4me:

It must be a dream.

excuse moi?
Re: Let Say You Caught (him/her) Cheating On You? by kandiikane(m): 3:35am On Apr 07, 2011
Ethiodime:

i totally understand, hey by da way did u got cheated on?  smiley



yes, I did get cheated on but no need to fret about it cause I found someone better than him before I could do some physical damage, But i did do some emotional damage to him , lol good times smiley
Re: Let Say You Caught (him/her) Cheating On You? by Pweety4me(f): 3:35am On Apr 07, 2011
I said it would have to be that i am dreaming! cheesy
Re: Let Say You Caught (him/her) Cheating On You? by Phate07(m): 3:40am On Apr 07, 2011
Ethiodime:

right after u go to bed crying n fasting endless night, dats wen u can move on. Psssst we women knoe dat men can't live w/o us. women are men oxygen. cool




I didn't say i would live without women, i said i would find another. Quote me right. tongue

And i dont cry. sad
Re: Let Say You Caught (him/her) Cheating On You? by Ethiodime: 3:44am On Apr 07, 2011
kandiikane:

yes, I did get cheated on but no need to fret about it cause I found someone better than him before I could do some physical damage, But i did do some emotional damage to him , lol good times smiley

lmaao tell me lil bitty details about da occurence, u might as well readify (if dats even a word) for my up comin heart breaks. grin

Pweety4me:

I said it would have to be that i am dreaming! cheesy

and why is so ?

Phate07:


I didn't say i would live without women, i said i would find another. Quote me right. tongue

And i dont cry. sad



yea rght big boys don't cry, well tell that to da leaves hanging loose on da lonely palm tree. men cry more da women but in secretive maneuver. Am I right?
Re: Let Say You Caught (him/her) Cheating On You? by kandiikane(m): 3:59am On Apr 07, 2011
Ethiodime:

lmaao tell me lil bitty details about da occurence, u might as well readify (if dats even a word) for my up comin heart breaks. grin


It is nothing dramtic really just abit of mind play, I dumped him the day I started my relationship with my current boyfriend without any warning, For 2 years he has been calling me to get back together and I will be like I will think about it, I would meet him sometimes, tease him and then leave, Act like I still sort of want to be with him Take his money and leave, Basically I played with his mind until I ended up telling him I was in a relationship but he still called wanting to be together,

Not to be big headed or anything but If I am in a relationship with a guy and they mess bout till I leave they never seem to let me go they regret it because I know how to take care of my man and I will make sure you still want me even if we have moved on, I am once in a lifetime opportunity grin, Offcourse there are pretty girls out there that they can get but I am always gonna be the one they will always want, That one girl that escaped, And That is the best revengesmiley
Re: Let Say You Caught (him/her) Cheating On You? by Pweety4me(f): 4:02am On Apr 07, 2011
^^^Hmmm u bad ooo cheesy
Re: Let Say You Caught (him/her) Cheating On You? by kandiikane(m): 4:33am On Apr 07, 2011
nuh be small ting ooo lol smiley
Re: Let Say You Caught (him/her) Cheating On You? by Nobody: 4:37am On Apr 07, 2011
My partner.

I would only be mad at the person in question if I was related to them.
Re: Let Say You Caught (him/her) Cheating On You? by MrsChima(f): 4:41am On Apr 07, 2011
She ^^^cheated on me with Hottie Tima cry cry cry cry cry
Re: Let Say You Caught (him/her) Cheating On You? by Nobody: 4:42am On Apr 07, 2011
Who?

Mzdarkskin? grin grin grin
Re: Let Say You Caught (him/her) Cheating On You? by dayokanu(m): 4:59am On Apr 07, 2011
kandiikane:

If I my catch my man cheating, I would firstly tell him well done, Tell the girl to get out and continue like nothing happened, If he wants to talk anout it I will tell him it is alright we will deal with it when I am ready, when the time comes for us to be intimate I would handcuff him to the bed and then go to the kitchen heat up oil, Will then take that oil  and pour it on his focal places after doing that I would then pour  canyenne pepper on it and then I would say well done, Leave the handcuff key on the bed and leave and cry,

If you were caught cheating should he do he same to you?
Re: Let Say You Caught (him/her) Cheating On You? by MrsChima(f): 5:45am On Apr 07, 2011
rokiatu:

Who?

Mzdarkskin? grin grin grin

You. Hooker. cry cry cry
Re: Let Say You Caught (him/her) Cheating On You? by InkedNerd(f): 7:12am On Apr 07, 2011
@OP: If my boyfriend were to cheat on me, I wouldn't be upset because I'd just dump him on the spot.

There are two scenarios that can occur with the thread you posted.

(1) If my boyfriend cheated on me and the person he cheated on me with had absolutely no idea that him and I were relationship/dating.

(2) If my boyfriend cheated on me and the person he cheated on me is aware that him and and I were in relationship/dating.

If scenario number one occurred, I would blame my boyfriend and not the other person involved. If that person and I had no idea that my boyfriend was being so deceitful, I can't really be mad at the person since we'd technically be in the same boat. The only person who would really be at fault would be my boyfriend since he is the one who's not only two timing me but two timing the other person as well.

If scenario number one occurred, I would blame my boyfriend and the other person. There can be two twists to scenario number two. Twist number one of scenario number two would be, suppose my boyfriend was the one who was making the move on the other person and the other person is aware on my boyfriends relationship with me--if that were the case, then they are both at fault because my boyfriend is the one stepping outside of the relationship and the other person is contributing to the demise of the relationship. If twist number two of scenario number one could be, suppose the other person was the one making the move on my boyfriend and is aware of my relationship with my boyfriend--once again they are both at fault because my boyfriend could have rejected the other persons advances [but chose not to] and the person had an idea what they were doing when they decided to take things a step further.

For the most part, I wouldn't chase, fight, or be mad at either of them. I'd just give 'em the deuces and call it a day cool
Re: Let Say You Caught (him/her) Cheating On You? by BABE3: 7:16am On Apr 07, 2011
Inked_Nerd:

@OP: If my boyfriend were to cheat on me, I wouldn't be upset because I'd just dump him on the spot.

There are two scenarios that can occur with the thread you posted.

(1) If my boyfriend cheated on me and the person he cheated on me with had absolutely no idea that him and I were relationship/dating.

(2) If my boyfriend cheated on me and the person he cheated on me is aware that him and and I were in relationship/dating.

If scenario number one occurred, I would blame my boyfriend and not the other person involved. If that person and I had no idea that my boyfriend was being so deceitful, I can't really be mad at the person since we'd technically be in the same boat. The only person who would really be at fault would be my boyfriend since he is the one who's not only two timing me but two timing the other person as well.

If scenario number one occurred, I would blame my boyfriend and the other person. There can be two twists to scenario number two. Twist number one of scenario number two would be, suppose my boyfriend was the one who was making the move on the other person and the other person is aware on my boyfriends relationship with me--if that were the case, then they are both at fault because my boyfriend is the one stepping outside of the relationship and the other person is contributing to the demise of the relationship. If twist number two of scenario number one could be, suppose the other person was the one making the move on my boyfriend and is aware of my relationship with my boyfriend--once again they are both at fault because my boyfriend could have rejected the other persons advances [but chose not to] and the person had an idea what they were doing when they decided to take things a step further.

For the most part, I wouldn't chase, fight, or be mad at either of them. I'd just give 'em the deuces and call it a day.


You, you're always giving deuces. The day your deuces finishes, I'll see what u'll be giving out then, lol grin

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