u love him, u want to be with him but ur relationship is about to end coz he clams that u don't love him.

u ask why , coz u refuse to have sax with him.

but u want to keep him, u want to show him how much u love him, but u just don't want to lose ur virginity yet.

so now ur about to lose the person u love what would u do.

Is this you or hypothetical?

deniyor:

Is this you or hypothetical?

hypothetical? but what should one do if ur in that situation

You stay true to yourself. If he can't believe you love him outside of sex he still will not be convinced later after sex.

Show him love in everyway you can but don't give it up to prove love, it doesn't work.

Lord_Reed:

You stay true to yourself. If he can't believe you love him outside of sex he still will not be convinced later after sex.

Show him love in everyway you can but don't give it up to prove love, it doesn't work.

if every man can only post sense-able answer like u

thank you that wat i though too. ur man should accept u and love u for who u are not his toy

This LordReed sabi something o!

Tell him goodbye and thanks for all the memories.

After that, hit the club with my girlfriends and party hard.

How long is this dude expected to wait? A month? A year? 5 years?

Really sucks for that guy

So you wouldn't wait if you have to?

How long would I have to wait though?

A man has got certain physical needs

I think I could do six months or a year. But what if it was five years?

I could see if it is was in my 60s, when my libido goes down at a lot. But right now? 

I'd probably cry

ekt_bear:

I could see if it is was in my 60s, when my libido goes down at a lot. But right now?

I'd probably cry

LOL

I know a guy who has waited for 9 years and is still waiting.

rokiatu:

LOL

I know a guy who has waited for 9 years and is still waiting.

He is either self-servicing or receiving something from somewhere. It sounds too fake to me

It would be like someone telling you they've gone nine years without eating a meal Would you believe such a story?

Also, what type of woman keeps a man in a relationship for 9 years w/o marrying him ?!?!?!

I think latest by year 3, you should have a good sense of whether you want to marry or not.

ekt_bear:

He is either self-servicing or receiving something from somewhere. It sounds too fake to me

It would be like someone telling you they've gone nine years without eating a meal Would you believe such a story?

100% certain he's not getting it from no where.

ekt_bear:

Also, what type of woman keeps a man in a relationship for 9 years w/o marrying him ?!?!?!

I think latest by year 3, you should have a good sense of whether you want to marry or not.

He wants to marry her but she's not ready.

@ topic: Kick his a*ss to the curb. Cuz u don't wanna have sex yet, he disregards everything else that you have said  and done in the past that shows you love him?

rokiatu:

Tell him goodbye and thanks for all the memories.

After that, hit the club with my girlfriends and party hard.

That's right  

Women are so indecisive. What is she waiting for?  Is she not ready because she is waiting for him to do something (e.g., have more money)? Or just the usual women not knowing what they want in life? 

Anyway, I salute that brother. He is a better man than me

He probably needs to give her an ultimatum to force her hand, I dunno. Or maybe he needs to petition the parents to force her to get married  

ekt_bear:

Women are so indecisive. What is she waiting for?  Is she not ready because she is waiting for him to do something (e.g., have more money)? Or just the usual women not knowing what they want in life? 

Anyway, I salute that brother. He is a better man than me

He probably needs to give her an ultimatum to force her hand, I dunno. Or maybe he needs to petition the parents to force her to get married 

Na you one sabi we they are living hapily.

caribchic:

@ topic: Kick his a*ss to the curb. Cuz u don't wanna have sex yet, he disregards everything else that you have said  and done in the past that shows you love him?



That's right 

Hi5 sis Tima hope you are reading.

rokiatu:

Na you one sabi we they are living hapily.

You are a very cruel woman, rokiatu 

What on earth are you waiting for? If you are not ready now, why will you be ready five years from now? Be more humane

Anyway, maybe I shouldn't complain on his behalf. If he likes waiting that long, who am I to speak out for him?

ekt_bear:



You are a very cruel woman, rokiatu 

What on earth are you waiting for? If you are not ready now, why will you be ready five years from now? Be more humane

Christ!

Dude take it easy on me.

I only said we, wishing I had that kind of man in my life.

P.S there's two side to every story. Maybe the man want to marry a virgin.

rokiatu:

Tell him goodbye and thanks for all the memories.

After that, hit the club with my girlfriends and party hard.

hi 5 sister

caribchic:

@ topic: Kick his a*ss to the curb. Cuz u don't wanna have sex yet, he disregards everything else that you have said  and done in the past that shows you love him?

you said it sister

ekt_bear:

Anyway, maybe I shouldn't complain on his behalf. If he likes waiting that long, who am I to speak out for him?

Why is the sad smiley for?

Hotie Tima:


hi 5 sister

Thats my girl.






[size=2pt]You know what to do if any man lay that nonsense with you. Call me and some few others u, and we will party hard.[/size]

@rokiatu: Haha, my bad. I misread

And yes, there are of course guys who want to marry virgins. But most of those guys also don't want to date the virgin for a decade before marrying  

Some Mormons I know will get married very young and not take too long with the dating, just to avoid having to remain w/o sex for so many years  

rokiatu:

Why is the sad smiley for?

Err, it was sort of putting myself in the dude's shoes a bit. 9 years. . . damn. I think that deserves a sad smiley, doesn't it?

rokiatu:

LOL

I know a guy who has waited for 9 years and is still waiting.

  9 years damn i wonder who is that  

that's wat u call love

rokiatu:

Thats my girl.






[size=2pt]You know what to do if any man lay that nonsense with you. Call me and some few others u, and we will party hard.[/size]

that's why i love u

Hotie Tima:

  9 years damn i wonder who is that  
that's wat u call love

haahahhahhahahaha I dey laugh.

Don't we all luv him?

ekt_bear:



Some Mormons I know will get married very young and not take too long with the dating, just to avoid having to remain w/o sex for so many years  

I see you slidding down that path

If it were me being told nine years and the girl were worth it, i might do it. But I'd probably become an alcoholic, cocaine user to make up for it  

I'm even wondering about this girl, that she went w/o for nine years. . . is she a human being, or a robot?   

Pweety4me:

He can't be the 1 4 me, it shouldn't take some 'piece of flesh' to prove that i love him, he can think i hate him 4 all i care!#notworthit!

 

ekt_bear:

If it were me being told nine years and the girl were worth it, i might do it. But I'd probably become an alcoholic, cocaine user to make up for it 
I'm even wondering about this girl, that she went w/o for nine years. . . is she a human being, or a robot?   

You are so cruel Ek Bear.

Are you trying to make my friend feel guilty?

rokiatu:

You are so cruel Ek Bear.

Are you trying to make my friend guilty?

I should not even be the one to make her feel guilty. You, her other friends, her brothers, her sisters, her papa and her mama should be the one pressuring her to give it up after nine whole years 

kind of joking, but also half-serious