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Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by bigjackass: 11:53am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Blackdisciple:nonsense. That half salary you talking about is just 25k and you expect a nursing mother to keep a family of five with that amount. Plus pampers and baby food. I'm sure you are still a young unmarried guy hence your way of thinking. Even telling him to reduce it to 20k again. He's giving his wife 25k for 5 people and using 20k personally. For what? probably drinking beer and carrying olosho. You should advise him to find a way to increase his income to take care of his family not this shit. 3 Likes |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by blesskewe(f): 11:57am On Mar 16, 2021 |
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Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Jossyfine(f): 12:02pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
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Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by HRprof: 12:08pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
The problem I see here is Finacial problem and nothing more. My 2 cent to upcoming married man.....lol..... Following the current realities before you choose a girl friend ensure she have skills or she is independent because pregnancy might occur and it will lead to marriage otherwise get prepared for the outcome like this. |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by 2mch(m): 12:11pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
OP is not supporting 5 people on 55k, he’s supporting 7. You people forget this mother and sister. Those two lazy people should be working. 3 Likes |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Glamourboy005(m): 12:36pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
Op gives her 25k every month.... As a lady she's idle(that's a typical devil's workshop). If she is working and bringing in 10-15k and add up to what op is giving her it'll be ok to some point at least. She does nothing but nag... Will nagging raise income or put food on the table??.... Op has made a mistake by getting her pregnant and with three children??..... He needs assistance from her not complains. OP, Get items for her to sell and raise income no matter how small or you can get a job that won't stress her because she has 3 children to take care of. The lady is messing up his minds and such will make a man lose focus and act abnormally. she can't even consider selling items in front of the house since it's a family house and no need to pay rent. No amount she brings is too small. Op mark my words if she don't get her hands busy, she might be tempted to get her body busy to get money. Remove $€x What do women contribute in relationship? Ans: Nothing, 98.2% of them have nothing. If she was working and contributing financially (nobody say make she spend her money for her man oo) prior before marriage Op won't be in this dilemma. Mind you, if op gives her 60k for upkeep.... She'll upgrade from 5k hair to 25k wig and 20k handbag,... At the end of the day the 60k won't be enough too. Note: Good soup these days no be money kill am again oo..... Na the person wey dey cook am kill am. You may give someone 100k to cook soup of the century and will end up not eating the shit that was prepared, while someone else will give you a cuisine with 3k-10k. |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by shashaperry(f): 12:44pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
Mariangeles: Words on marble 1 Like |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Johnnyplus01k(m): 12:50pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
brownemmanuel43:ethnic bigot, if you don't have anything in your dry skull to contribute then keep quiet |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Bullhari: 12:58pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
Prospertochu:You are an ijiot. So you can use 20k for yourself, give your mum that left you and your siblings 10k, Then you expect your wife with 3 babies to manage 20k? in today's Nigeria? You are mad. Very mad. I feel like you should be severely beaten for being bold enough to type this trash. You much is Diaper? Do you realize that 3 babies are suckling from your wife? She need to eat well, You are putting that lady on undeserved Mental illness. Prospertochu:You are not stingy, You are stewpid. Prospertochu:You shouldn't have. It was a great mistake on your sides. you still get mind dey get erection after everything wey dey happen for your face. Erection for what exactly? Prospertochu:I dey shame for you. Oga, brace up and take care of your family. Your uncle threatening to send you out shows the puzsy of a boy you have been. |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Bullhari: 1:00pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
Kriss216:Oga close tap. how much him dey give her, for him to give her 20k and spend 30k on himself and his family, he deserve no peace |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by shashaperry(f): 1:01pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
Toks2008: Find something to do alongside the three toddlers she's nursing? Is She a robot? |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by LogansShadow: 1:03pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
cococandy:He shouldn’t have the nerve to contemplate sex because he has problems? |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by ABANGWABOI(m): 1:08pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
[quote author=Jossyfine post=99931035][/quote] Have a nice day and cheers to a better life.. 1 Like |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by LadyTiannah2: 1:12pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
Kriss216:Ode. A sensible woman should have a business before marrying...what of a sensible man? Him with his 55k salary, yet cumming inside his gf? He should be applauded abi foolish bitter misogynist 2 Likes |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by brownemmanuel43(m): 1:13pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
Johnnyplus01k:One thing I hate about west and east is their ability to accept their bad side, mostly West bcs an easterner can boast of being a drudge lord or baby factory owner but West they never accept their negative side, that's why they brought this calamity of govt. See, I hv traveled almost 20 states of the federation and I hv volunteered with an NGO that deals on child abuse, child abandonment and domestic violence, whenever I see or read a story about issues like this, I will confidently tell u where the the writer comes from. |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by SURElee(f): 1:56pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
Your regret should be having unprotected sex that got her pregnant which led to all these. You are now a man and a father to 3kids and a husband. You can show her your payslip and you two plan with what is on ground. Let her see for herself. You weren't ready for marriage, you go knack, now responsibility don show , you dey write epistle for us to read. Paddle your life o! One baby changes the financial expenses of the family of 3, not to talk of 3 babies making a family of 5. Sit down and communicate. Communicate effectively. Let her understand you and you understand her. Let there be peace. You can't bring kids up in a dysfunctional family setting. Let love reign. Give those kids a peace atmosphere to bloom and blossom in. |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by olenime(m): 2:23pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
Guy ur preek still stand after triplet with 55k� Next na 4 u born once oh |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by berrystunn(m): 2:30pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
thelish: I gave you example with a girl . She need help not just money Not easy to keep awake for one not to talk of 3. |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by LadySarah: 2:52pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
Toks2008: She can't do anything because triplets won't let you do anything.While one is feeding,another is crying by the side while another is waiting to feed too.Any free time,laundry, cooking,market runs.Repeat again. In all these,she can't work unless those kids are enrolled in school.They are triplets not a Singleton you can carry about. Pity women. 3 Likes |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by jimter44(m): 3:15pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
Prospertochu: You are a very wicked person You got somebody's daughter pregnant and you do not want to married her. It's incredible. If the foundation is destroyed, what can the righteous do? You are reaping what you sowed. If you are not married, stay away from sex. A lesson for others. 2 Likes |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by adedayoa2(f): 3:22pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
erico2k2:oga things are very expensive now, infact 200% increase on almost everything. There's a way he'll talk to his woman and there won't be quarrel all the time |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Toks2008(m): 4:11pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
shashaperry: This is why ladies are advised to get something doing, a hand job or business so that they won't become a total liability For people quoting me and writing what comes to their heads please go and read my comments again. You people should save me the talks of triplets not allowing her do any other thing. If there was an existing business or job before now I'm sure this guy won't be wailing. The Nigeria system is bad enough, please ladies, get something doing before ever bringing a child into this world whether as a married lady or single woman. |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by purples25(f): 4:45pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
Toks2008: Lol, the only way you would stop running your opinions is if you give birth to not one but three, see how that feels first. Then have kids suck from your breast and wail to be comforted day and night and midnight. Then bathe and clothe and change them every few hours. But because you stand gidigba with balls, no weakness in your body, you never thought of how it is for the woman. With the maxi pad on with she will be bleeding after birth, and the kids who don't understand anything but she must take care of them whether she is sick, weak or strong, you want her to go out and work. My mother was working after the birth of our last born. Her customers couldn't care less. She nearly DIED due to the stress. You are only thinking of your gender, you are INSENSITIVE! Even if she has work, she should continue it after birth?! Even sane countries realize and give women maternity leave! Why are you wicked and your heart is like stone! Is it a woman's fault that you were born a man? Did she punish him because she had to birth children? Why are you trying to punish women because your role is to go out and work?! Why are you bitter because it is your work as a man!!! 4 Likes |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by IjeBos(m): 5:20pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
Toks2008: Stop this stuff. Some of you guys here sound like Neanderthals. Have you ever taken care of a child, let alone 3? There is no business a woman who has new born triplets should be doing, unless she has some type of help and even then that wouldn't be immediately. And if you are the type of man to expect that, that is a flaw in your character and a tacit acknowledgement that you are unable to stand up to your responsibility at that moment. Be better than this. 5 Likes |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Toks2008(m): 5:41pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
IjeBos: But for fools all words should be written in proverbs goes a saying. Please get the guy's contact and make a transfer of good sum Into his account to assist him. |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by RedSquid: 5:43pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
Toks2008: No listen to pittance. Any adult that has unrestrained sex should be ready for its consequences. |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Toks2008(m): 5:51pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
purples25: I know you are a lady and most ladies are not apt when it comes to discussing matters such as this cos they never use logic but emotions. I think you should try to calm down to raging hormones and think like a reasonable fellow. You are are just spewing anything that comes into your heads without considering the vivid situation. I suggested him opening a food stuff business in a shop if only he can get a loan and all you people can opine is trashy condemnations. The only way any one countering me will make sense is to send the guy money or just Shut up. See your lame post up there which is typical of a naija lady with no sound intellect. When you make posts on a social forum, give your points without sounding like a local uneducated pepper seller and you will make more sense. |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by RedSquid: 5:54pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
Toks2008: When we turned 18. Our parents thought us about sex and it's consequences. Men should be told the truth without emotional guilt tripping that's atypical of the Nigerian society. Leave them bro. He knew what the possible consequences of his actions were. He should deal with it. 1 Like |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Toks2008(m): 6:05pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
RedSquid: On the contrary I believe this can happen to anybody and what the guy needs now is not a pat on the head or castigations but a way forward. I have seen numerous comments of people blaming and shaming but hardly did anyone give a way out. My suggestion for him to open a small food stuff business or any business with little stress is because I know it is possible even if she won't be actively involved at the moment but it is a way of easing the financial stress on the man and trust me, food stuff business is lucrative to an extent. But because we have bunch of lazy ladies who are quick to use anything as an excuse, they would rather want the guy to go jump into the lagoon out of frustration or die of High BP. I implore nairalanders to also render any financial help they can to alleviate the pressure on this young man. Nobody plans for triplets and once it happens, we must find a way to move ahead. |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Cobresal(m): 6:09pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
Jossyfine:Better person 1 Like |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by RedSquid: 6:11pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
Toks2008: It's also part of the consequences of reckless sex bro. Let's not be diplomatic in truths my brother. I had a lady I loved to the high heavens. My mentor God mother held me by the hand and told me she must see my financial plan for 4 kids for the first 5 years of marriage before I could touch her wrist I developed a 20 years plan with financial outlook for kids. My dear you're in a sane clime, you know these things. There's something called responsibility. I disagree with the ideology and perspective you're speaking from with due respect bro. Wanna know why? If a man had all his youth didn't build, had peace didn't build, had no responsibility, didn't build. Is it in storms he'll build? He's psychologically not in a place of advantage where he can begin to construct and build up. Why should a man with less than 50k monthly be having free, rampant, unprotected, continous sex. Smh 2 Likes |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Blackdisciple(m): 6:14pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
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