iice:

No category. Doesn't mean real love or no love. If you're happy with her and she's happy with you, that is what matters.

Yep


@Poster wake up! all girls are not 'cash-hunters' if she has her own y would she demand anything from you?or does she look 2 yu like she is in NEED of your expenses?just listen to iicee being happy with eachother is what matters, u guys need to learn to stop labelling people.

d bigrod:

That is d way it should be. Babes are not supposed to demand for anything frm their bf. U should give her out of your own freewill.

Dyt:

She prolly got good home training bt hey
doesnt mean she dont want em
she jst tryin caution er demands
u 2 bro no b stingy

iice:

No category. Doesn't mean real love or no love. If you're happy with her and she's happy with you, that is what matters.

Pweety4me:

Yep


@Poster wake up! all girls are not 'cash-hunters' if she has her own y would she demand anything from you?or does she look 2 yu like she is in NEED of your expenses?just listen to iicee being happy with eachother is what matters, u guys need to learn to stop labelling people.

desertboom:

This girl must be real and enlighten. Out of every 100 Nigeran girls you can only find 2 of this type of girls described by the poster that's why is as if all Nigerian girls are 'money hunters'

coded777:

Exactly!

Nice one @all. You guys didn't gett the hint, my take is from another perspective. i'm beginning to be worried that she never asks nothing from me, not a even a dime.
What if she only pretends to be a good gal who doesn't makes demands but yet makes demands from other guys who are ready to offer her anything peradventure take her to bed . .
couldn't being nice just another modern way of Cheating on your B/F ?

coded777:

Nice one @all. You guys didn't gett the hint, my take is from another perspective. i'm beginning to be worried that she never asks nothing from me, not a even a dime.
What if she only pretends to be a good gal who doesn't makes demands but yet makes demands from other guys who are ready to offer her anything peradventure take her to bed . .
couldn't being nice just another modern way of Cheating on your B/F ?

Does she have things you know she can't get by herself or from her parents?
Is she being sneaky around you? Does she have close physical relationship with other guys?
What is her reaction when you give her things? Does she comment alot of stuff she likes but can't afford. Is she a simple person?
Na wah, leap from 1 to 5 just because she doesn't 'demand' from you.

Me i have never demanded and i don't accept anything, unless na food _{used to drive my Exes mad. . .whatever!} . Just my nature. What i want, i get it for myself. If i can't afford it, i make do without. I didn't die when i didn't have it and i won't die if i don't get it.

iice:

Does she have things you know she can't get by herself or from her parents?
Is she being sneaky around you? Does she have close physical relationship with other guys?
What is her reaction when you give her things? Does she comment alot of stuff she likes but can't afford. Is she a simple person?
Na wah, leap from 1 to 5 just because she doesn't 'demand' from you.

Me i have never demanded and i don't accept anything, unless na food _{used to drive my Exes mad. . .whatever!} . Just my nature. What i want, i get it for myself. If i can't afford it, i make do without. I didn't die when i didn't have it and i won't die if i don't get it.

iice:

Does she have things you know she can't get by herself or from her parents?
Is she being sneaky around you? Does she have close physical relationship with other guys?
What is her reaction when you give her things? Does she comment alot of stuff she likes but can't afford. Is she a simple person?
Na wah, leap from 1 to 5 just because she doesn't 'demand' from you.

Me i have never demanded and i don't accept anything, unless na food _{used to drive my Exes mad. . .whatever!} . Just my nature. What i want, i get it for myself. If i can't afford it, i make do without. I didn't die when i didn't have it and i won't die if i don't get it.

endmoll:

Any evidence to prove that the above statement is true and nothing but the truth?

andy1:

wow!! Miss if dis is rili ho u are. Then your rili a symbol of an independent woman, if i had met a woman lyke ya i prolly wld be married by now, all d 1nes i have met r either money mongers or they got attitude,

Just because i don't chase money doesn't mean i don't have my issues.  You may prolly think the money chasing one is even better.

rully2:

Really, and u r complaining abou this??, most guys will sing there head out!, ok seriously, i dont think there is anything wrong with dat. How long have u both been dating, she's probably still waiting to get really used to u b4 she starts asking, also she may not be trained to make demands from guys (which is a good thing).

I personally am not used to making demands from guy except its highly neccessary, u on the other hand could choose to give her, she does'nt have to ask for something, take her on outings and buy her suffs u think she mite love to have.

Talking about pretence, what kind of girl is she?, the flashy type or the lay low type, if she is the latter, then u probably have nothing to worry about, just give her sometime.  

iice:

Does she have things you know she can't get by herself or from her parents?  
Is she being sneaky around you?  Does she have close physical relationship with other guys?  
What is her reaction when you give her things?  Does she comment alot of stuff she likes but can't afford.  Is she a simple person?  
Na wah, leap from 1 to 5 just because she doesn't 'demand' from you.  

Me i have never demanded and i don't accept anything, unless na food _{used to drive my Exes mad. . .whatever!} .  Just my nature.  What i want, i get it for myself.  If i can't afford it, i make do without.  I didn't die when i didn't have it and i won't die if i don't get it.

endmoll:

Better be aware that women are like green snake in green grass. I have never seen a Nigerian lady that does not demanding regardless of her status. They take it to be their birth right that a man should always provide for them,some of them who have good jobs or good monthly pay checks are not excluded. Forget about most of them who come out to say they are independent and never asked from there manthey are all lie rs and not truthful to them selves.
I get amazed most time when i see most of them brandishing out BB phones from there pockets, i ask my self how much does most of them earn in a month to be able to afford such exotic material.I am not against any body having any good thing if you can afford it.
Its not a crime to seek for assistance from your boy friend or your girl friend in time of need but it should not be reason for being together because some body has to bail the cat therefor milking the cow to death.
I guess it is a cultural attitude that has to be changed period.

blogexpert:

This thread is really getting interesting. I see it clearly now and to me Ladies fall under more than three categories when it comes to demanding material things from their bf.

Some don't demand at all if their mums spoil them with more than enough, (It does not mean that, they won't demand if the story was different)
Some will demand to know if you are the caring type
Some will demand from their bf just see how generous he can be, so as to increase the rate of their exploits (These ones call us mugus)
Some will spoil you instead with riches from sugar daddies just to secure your love and keep you under their armpits.
Some, don't know anything different than to demand your last buck.
[size=14pt]Some, truly do care and will never demand a dime, you'll know this kind when she's willing to soak G4 with you, and with smiles on her face.
Some don't just know how to demand and will never demand, but will leave you, when they realize that you are stingy.[/size]

bobeefc:

She doesnt demand cuz she assumes u as a man shld know wat to do. If u really love her show her in your attitude,appreciate her by buying her gifts,doesnt have to be expensive. Stop suspecting d poor girl of cheating cuz she didnt demand from u. She's probably thinking d same thing "this guy doesnt give me anytin.mayb there's anoda girl he's giving it to" How long have u been together

Wislet:

@OP, U know your girl more than we do. U should know her family, how financially stable she is or otherwise. Get to know her more, then you can be able to answer your own questions. . . Some ladies are independent, others are not. Some, because of their background, almost always seem to be demanding. I personally DO NOT ask anything from a guy. And i don't want any. Keep your money, i have mine. If any strange person sends me anything,especially in the form of airtime, i send such back. Don't have the mentality that EVERY LADY is looking for something, otherwise u're continually going to feel insecure.

coded777:

Thanks babe.

Why is it that No gal wanna admit that she's demanding ?? or is it something to be shy of saying,? just wondering, everyone claims not be demanding, when the reverse might actually be the case, LOL