family, relatives, friends and society at large expects everyone to marry when it's due, but the truth is that I don't desire marriage

I want to live single and have children, does anyone have this same mindset? has anyone ever done it? how did it go? were you accepted?

how can I achieve this, couple with the fact that I have a post in the church

Its now very easy to have upside down thought process

Kids outside marriage

Fucking conts for free without commitment

No..you are only wasting your time in church ..as the work of God Himself is done in fellowship with him
Its actually a love relationship to worship God... You can't serve God for real and have this thought raving your mind till the extent of putting it here on nairaland

We stupidly priotize marriage in this part of the world, to us here, marriage is do or die affair. Useless archaic mentality.


You can make your choice, don't allow anyone or the society to force you into something your spirit is going contrary to.

Righteousness2:
Escaping Marriage is not a problem as Getting Married is not by Force, so you can Escape Marriage by being single.
Note, engaging in Sex outside Marriage is Immorality. It is Sin.
It is Fornication / Adultery based on your Sin Partner.
Post/ Title in Church does not save anyone.

Consider your Place in Eternity and do what is right before GOD. This is what is Important.

Nice preaching Rabbi

Me anlways wondering why marriage is so ovarated especially at our Afonja, Amaka and Almajiri side

But kudos to Amaka, i givit to them

Damnnn niggarrrr

The op is my niggarrrrrrrrrrrrrr

Become a priest...just enroll in one of the seminary across the country and you're good to go.

mtcheeew stupid talk.

Pmedia7787:
Its now very easy to have upside down thought process

Kids outside marriage

Fucking conts for free without commitment

No..you are only wasting your time in church ..as the work of God Himself is done in fellowship with him
Its actually a love relationship to worship God... You can't serve God for real and have this thought raving your mind till the extent of putting it here on nairaland

are you sure you can read or you read but can't understand, did I mention born again anywhere in the post?

I said I have a post in the church, I didn't say I'm a born again, incase you don't know, over 70% of people in the church are not born again

Anigreat:






We stupidly priotize marriage in this part of the world, to us here, marriage is do or die affair. Useless archaic mentality.


You can make your choice, don't allow anyone or the society to force you into something your spirit is going contrary to.

God bless you sir, word of encouragement

you know, the way they make it sound eehh, some are even saying to me things like... on your wedding dey I go do this and I go do that, without even knowing that the bros get different mindset, the bros dey plan bone marriage forever

drake99:
I don't desire marriage.
I want to live single and have children.

Were you accepted?
I have a post in the church

don't let any one use religion to cage you. Is it not these same judgemental pastors whose adulterous sexual escapades gets exposed everyday the world over ?

Do your thing and if necessary leave their post and church for them. That's all religion and not true Christianity.

drake99:
are you sure you can read or you read but can't understand, did I mention born again anywhere in the post?

I said I have a post in the church, I didn't say I'm a born again, incase you don't know, over 70% of people in the church are not born again

So what are you doing in the church.. What does it mean to be born again..you need to grow...cos ,you are lost

You,my friend,Are a Wise man
Marriage Is for Men who Are Blind to Reality
Bro, whatever you do,whatever what people say, DONT EVER GET MARRIED!

Wow he don't want to marry because Nigerian Girls Are Useless And A Worthless Piece Of Shitt.

Pmedia7787:


So what are you doing in the church.. What does it mean to be born again..you need to grow...cos ,you are lost

Mr man, you are blind to ask me what am doing in the church, do you think that upto 10% people in your church are born again?

why won't you ask the ones who are not born again what they are doing in the church

incase you don't know, I'm in the church because my father was an elder in the church and we are brought up in the church

so I was just filling a space

drake99:
Mr man, you are blind to ask me what am doing in the church, do you think that upto 10% people in your church are born again?

why won't you ask the ones who are not born again what they are doing in the church

incase you don't know, I'm in the church because my father was an elder in the church and we are brought up in the church

so I was just filling a space

Man ,just shot up and live live according to real principles as seen in the world...

it's when one is old one would see the real importance of marriage

Pmedia7787:


Man ,just shot up and live live according to real principles as seen in the world...

not comprehensive at all, read what you wrote, edit it and post, I don't have interpreter

Elixirsblog:
it's when one is old one would see the real importance of marriage

let's get old first