Jashub:
Leave him. There are others out there and it will be a waste of time to marry a man whose focus is only money money. What if there is no money and he decides to use you for rituals? Think well. Peace

CheerfulGiver:
First of all, long distance relationships are a waste of time, as far as I am concerned.

Second and most importantly, when someone shows you signs that he doesn't want to be with you, compares you to other ladies and generally puts you down in private and in public, it's time to hold your head high and walk the hell out of that relationship.

As humans we get so emotionally attached that we always think there is no one else better than the one taking us for granted. A failed relationship is always better and more preferable, than a broken marriage. It's very simple. I don't care if you've dated him for 10 years. If you don't have peace of mind now, you can't get it in marriage. Consider that 4 years as wasted.

He is showing you signs of how your marriage is going to be. I can tell you for free that no one actually changes from an attitude they didn't show you before, but have begun to show it in very strong terms.

Unless of course there is something else you're gaining from that relationship, like money or good sex, you should leave that abusive relationship. Majority of you ladies are fond of seeking advice and then go contrary to what advice you were given because of "good dick".

It's your cross to carry but for free, this guy doesn't look like the man for you. He may be a very perfect fit for another girl, but he is not for you. There's no crime in a person's choice for a life partner. He has told you why you guys are no longer compatible. This is the writing on the wall. He isn't going to break up with you, until he has started dating his future wife. Take his cue and leave that relationship with your head held high, else you risk being as useless to him as the P in Psychology.

Cheers

stanliwise:
@trisha01
In conclusion he wants to get to the cookie jar.
He is only trying to destroy your ego that would get against that.
I rest my case

danietohbadt:
Lemme give you small expo....

I'm sure you both chat on WhatsApp often?
if yes, good...

Go to your WhatsApp and do the following :
1. Remove your DP
2. Don't upload status for one week, and if you must do, block him from seeing your posts, block his friends too or your friends that he might ask questions from
3. Change your WhatsApp settings to prevent people from seeing your "last seen" time
4. Change the settings to show the second blue tick only after you've replied a message.
5. Don't take his calls for this period

Walahi, if he no get heartache, call me bastard.

When you do these, I'll tell you what to do next.

Godada:



The guy above me has said it all.

trisha01:

Wow, just to have sex?

trisha01:

Interesting... I think I should try this...but what is this aiming at?

trisha01:
Okay, my post might be quite long but please be patient and understand before commenting. And also please ignore any typos.

I'm on the fence here and I just need someone to draw my ears� and advice me. I'm dating a guy(30 years and in the medical field). I use to love him but of recent, all I feel for him is hate and anger.
We have been dating for 4years now but we don't stay in same state and have spent time together only twice. He said he wants to marry and was disturbing me to inform my family about him... which I later did.
Now, all he keeps saying is that he is business-oriented and because I'm not (according to him), I'm not meeting his standards. He tells me about his female colleagues and ladies that are always falling for him, tells me about how his family is well known and rich in business. Of recent, he told me he made a lady fall in love with him so that he would delay paying the money he borrowed from her...who does that?! Telling me that he can do anything to survive.
I think he is used to girls throwing themselves at him(because of his profession), so he expects me to treat him like a god. Everything to him is about business!
I don't know what to do to make him know that I'm not like other girls that throw themselves at him(is not like he is fine sef, just average), I want him to look for me, if it will lead to break up, fine!
Do you understand my anger?

Please ladies, redpill guys, what do I do?