My longtime slim lanky handsome friend just proposed to a big lady that is appropriate to qualify as being a whale in a politically incorrect world. Let me shield my sword just yet and exercise some lexical restraint.
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This got me thinking, cos this is not the first, second, or third time someone smart, brilliant and handsome of my friends, though slim, will fall into the trap of a big woman. The question is what's the attraction. Why? Especially considering the fact that marriage is a marathon where even a slim woman can end up fat or dishappened very quickly let alone a woman married on day one as fat.
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Most times I feel they were scammed to the illusion of love, because someone like me, even though I oftentimes fvck plus size women for the juiciness of their honeypot, I still plan to end with a slim gal cos this is marriage where women easily get fat after birth or after enjoying good married life.
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Why do young guys fall for fat women.....Pls enlighten us if you are with one...tell us the sexual attraction, is it that u don't care of the physical attribute? Or was it overlooked as not important? I'm lost.
Thanks, pls pardon my language if offensive. I couldn't get milder words to convey my thought/msg

Love is not totally about the outside it's about the inside.. we can't allow plus size woman to waste na..

It's simply because the world is mysterious and filled with words and opposites..also, I have never seen a short lady with a short guy as spec..... They also go for long mehn. A tall guy won't go for a tall lady cos he doesn't want him pikin to be like light pole, furthermore, the fat ones won't go for their peers simply because dem no want born yokosuna but will go for slim.. Such is life.... Help me find my slippers abeg...

lilvicky68:
Love is not totally about the outside it's about the inside.. we can't allow plus size woman to waste na..

Love may not be about outside attribute, what about sex, which largely depends on outward physical appearance at least for a man.

FreeSpirited:

Love may not be about outside attribute, what about sex, which largely depends on outward physical appearance at least for a man.

Sex is overrated

lilvicky68:

Sex is overrated

You say Sex is overrated in marriage or in a serious relationship?

meobizy:
The phone you used to type this topic, open the voice recorder app and go interview the individuals. Come back and update the thread with results.

Are you a fat plus size woman? Just a legitimate wonderment

It's because opposite attracts. Just like short people marry tall people.

We mostly go for what we lack at times in a partner. This is just an illusion. We believe going for those qualities in our partners will cover-up for what we do not possess within ourselves. We are simply looking for perfection, someone who is gonna complete us in a partner we choose but it's just an illusion...

Short girls likes tall guys Slim guys likes thick girls. to balance the equation.

Opposites attract

One has to compliment the other.....

Because of the children. You're slim and aiming for slim lady, hell Naaah brah.
How do you want kids to look?

Respect their choice

I'm slim and lanky... And my likeness for chubby girls ehn! . I believe it's nature sha, we're attracted to what we lack. With proper exercises, I'm sure a lady can maintain her weight even after child birth.

MediMedi:
Because of the children.
You're slim and aiming for slim lady, hell Naaah brah.

How do you want kids to look?

Broomsticks and twigs.

For equilibrium

meobizy:
The phone you used to type this topic, open the voice recorder app and go interview the individuals. Come back and update the thread with results.

My sister why are you taking the thing personal like this nah?

Not all slim guys cause I know I'm slim

Una don start questions again for Nairaland

Anyways I will enjoy the comments

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I'm currently dating one, but I'm not that slim. she's not just big but curvy and has a big backside. my friends first saw her with me and were surprised, they never expected that kind of figure. a lot of perverted eyes were on her backside. them no allow me rest that day.

Aguilar:
I'm currently dating one, but I'm not that slim. she's not just big but curvy and has a big backside. my friends first saw her with me and were surprised, they never expected that kind of figure. a lot of perverted eyes were on her backside. them no allow me rest that day.

She better get good heart,if not the perverted eyes go just follow u dey chop her on code. And you have to be wise too,so that nobody go play you local for the mata. I love them curvy and thick too.. Big yash no go kill me..

trust me bruh she dey loyal

Ishilove:

Broomsticks and twigs.

Lol... I'm slim and looking for wife o, and I want big babe with pretty yam legs... You dig baby?

Not all my guy

Aguilar:
trust me bruh she dey loyal

It is a sin to put "loyal" and "she" in the same sentence!

Lowkey another man dey chop her....no be only loyal na loyalmilk whey everybody dey buy and drink.

if a slim guy and slim girl get married, when they copulate, na that time wahala go happen cos na bone and bone go dey jam each other.

Bone fit break.

So, to prevent stories that touch the heart, slim guys go for girls that are fleshy and slim girls go for guys that are fleshy.

You dig?

To Balance The Equation

sharpwriter:


Lol... I'm slim and looking for wife o, and I want big babe with pretty yam legs... You dig baby?

I dig