Like if the relationship was falling apart or you two just weren't talking as much. Maybe you just didn't seem to feel that same spark you had before but you still loved the guy/girl, how far would you be willing to work to try and make it work again? Would you be willing to compromise some of your own beliefs for the sake of sticking it out?

^^ ermmm, J12, why you putting our business out there like this now? ehn? ***smh** 

And this is all your fault sef. I told you last night, "it's ok, if you're gay". We can simply go our separate ways. No wahala! I don't know why you're coming here to post topic, coz me I can be in a realtionship with a gay person. I'm straight! 

BABE!:

^^ ermmm, J12, why you putting our business out there like this now? ehn? ***smh**

And this is all your fault self. I told you last night, "it's ok, if you're gay". We can simply go our separate way. No wahala! I don't know why you're coming here to post topic, coz me I can be in a realtionship with a gay person. I'm straight!

Kai! I don suffer.

Are you two lesbians or what?

****laughing my a$$ OFF*****

@ Crude Oil---It's complicated!

^^ Dont laugh off everything o!, remain small for me okay? [size=3pt]I would eat it later[/size]

BRB

^^^**smh** So you're BI now abi? Anyways enough of the derailing

I can't really go far. I like being in my zone. I'm very comfortable there. Plus my zone is pretty universal, so that takes the cake. If you don't like what you're getting, then------ 

as 4 me, i can go to the extent of condoning just two mistakes. The third one will then be delibrate or just stubborness or pure infidelity infection. To hell with the relationship rather than turn to a permanent mumu.

One thing folk fail to realise is that relationships are like the sea, it has a high tide and low tide but the sea itself is constant.

That you are having issues is not reason to feel it is all over. Look at the things that make the relationship, I am talking about the foundation now. Why are you with this person? What things do you have in common? and so on.

Making things work in a relationship will always require conscious action both in the good times and the bad times.

Unless you no longer value the relationship you should do what needs doing to put things right.

I personally will talk, study, pray and seek advice.

@ Lord Reed bla! bla! bla! While eating "people" with fork and knife!!! lmaooo, 

If wat were re talkin about is marriage then i will try to save it as much as a I can if i learn dat my hubby is tryin too on his side, but if its a bf-gf relationship den i can easily let da kind of mush mush go.

@BABE!
Are you offering me a meal?

^^ Kmt!

well, @Everybody, pls don't mind the OP, he's putiing our personal matters out for the public. Don't mind his yans o. The matter for ground don pass NL. J12 is gay/Bisexual, and he wants me to stick around with him. And I can't. He's now here reporting BS. Pls can anyone of you take that?,

@BABE!
Bring it! 

Kai! So thats you in the pix! LoL

Lord_Reed:

@BABE!
Bring it! 

Kai! So thats you in the pix! LoL

**smh***  What picture? 

Yes, that's me in the picture (before I took it down,). I'm beautiful right? I know, I know! I get that a lot, 

@BABE!
LMAO! Honestly I thought you'd look different. I had a pix of you in my mind and the real one blew it outta the water.

Sounds like a marriage to me.


*STUCK IN BOREDOM*

Just do like I would. . .take a break. . . see other people and then come back to see if the spark is still there.

Sometimes, love needs a holiday too. Give your partner ALL the break he or she wants.

If we can manage a spark. . .fine. If not do some more 'moving around'.

Give it 3 chances. . . then 'strike out' for gooooooood!

Life is too short to be carried like a cross. I am not Jesus Christ!

Lord_Reed:

@BABE!
LMAO! Honestly I thought you'd look different. I had a pix of you in my mind and the real one blew it outta the water.

Hanswer the kueshon! I'm beauriful right?

Btw, what sort of picture did you have in your head? I wanna know, honestly,

Lord_Reed:

One thing folk fail to realise is that relationships are like the sea, it has a high tide and low tide but the sea itself is constant.

That you are having issues is not reason to feel it is all over. Look at the things that make the relationship, I am talking about the foundation now. Why are you with this person? What things do you have in common? and so on.

Making things work in a relationship will always require conscious action both in the good times and the bad times.

Unless you no longer value the relationship you should do what needs doing to put things right.

I personally will talk, study, pray and seek advice.

true talk.
@BABE why did u get d thread abt u and d od chick locked, I rili loved d topic oh,

^^ ehn be loving it! Lovers Club! lmao,

I didn't like that. That was just--pfftttt, Anyways the thread is gone!

BABE!:

^^ ehn be loving it! Lovers Club! lmao,

I didn't like that. That was just--pfftttt, Anyways the thread is gone!

lol baby baby baby!!! ***finking*** am rili missing dat ur beautiful face oh, lol, u wld have mobilized mi 2 vote 4 ya like buhari was tryna do to win last week's elections, i wld have voted 4 ya dats if u were ready 2 settle mi oh, lol

@BABE!
I thot you were one oyinbo pepper slightly orobo chick, didn't know you were an african pretty lepa babe. I like the hair. All natural?

so far ask i still want 2 fu-ck her.

Lord_Reed:

@BABE!
I thot you were one oyinbo pepper slightly orobo chick, didn't know you were an african pretty lepa babe. I like the hair. All natural?

Yh! They are locks!

BABE!:

^^ Kmt!

well, @Everybody, pls don't mind the OP, he's putiing our personal matters out for the public. Don't mind his yans o. The matter for ground don pass NL. J12 is gay/Bisexual, and he wants me to stick around with him. And I can't. He's now here reporting BS. Pls can anyone of you take that?,

WTF!

^^^ Don't tell me you're vexing already?  lol, I think I chased people away with my "joke". Sorry ehn, Create another thread, I won't come near it. I promise!

NO I MUST RETALIATE!

lmao, See this one! What will you do? Cyber slap me? , buhahaha,

You two should get a room and take care of yourselves. Okay ?

^ hey! stop there! Mr. Petroleum, wetin be your own sef. ahn ahn, We don't need a room. We're ok!

OP.
I would do everything to get her back.