Crystalom3:
I've been coming across various posts on this forum about how women and mostly women are useless and why men should avoid them at all cost.

This is not only a nairaland plaque. It is also on twitter with traces on Facebook.

In my honest opinion I do not see women or Nigeria girls as useless. Rather I see people who understand their values and exploit it to the fullest.

For instance, when we ask what a woman has to offer in a relationship, a lot of us do not know that the answer to that question is very obvious. But because we are asking the wrong question, we get the wrong answers.

A woman does not have to bring anything tangible to the table. Hear me out please. If a woman must bring something tangible to the table, then you must ask yourself why you keep preparing lines, working hard to get a girl's attention who you are confused has nothing tangible to offer you.

First off, you are not doing a woman a favour by liking her, asking her out or taking her places. She was on her own, then you saw something you love, a value which you liked and made you to approach her.

Herself being a woman is a value. This is why it is often hard for a woman to walk up to a man to toast him on her own. In doing so, she is declaring that she has no inherent value and automatically becomes the one to work hard to measure up to your standards.

Women have an inherent value just as you as a man have an inherent strength and do not need much workout to beat almost 80% of women on earth in a fight.

As such, they have themselves to offer in a relationship. Not just their body but their presence, laughter, conversations and smiles.

Trust me those things are what your money can never buy and if you have ever been loved truly b a woman you'll understand this to the fullest.

Evolutionlove:
A SIMP and his money are soon parted.....

RENOWNED2:
This is the stupidest shit i have read in a long time and i have read some pretty stupid shit lately.

Crystalom3:
Well, you've finally become what you read. No offense.

RENOWNED2:
Okay. Easy on the stupidity though. Goodluck!

MJBOLT:

The kind of rubbish people come here to type is astounding,so because she's a woman she instantly has value and you even went further to say more stupid things like she brings presence,laughter,smiles and conversations so your fellow guys that bring all these things are useless because they are not women

do we not have women chasing after men,is it not the same women that you claim have value that come online complaining about "how they can't find a man", these same women constantly talk about how they need a man in their lives the same women are the ones putting on make up, putting on body revealing clothes,fake hair just to grab the attention of men but according to you they don't chase men.If the presence of a man means nothing to women, they wouldn't be the biggest patrons of plastic surgery and cosmetic.

Crystalom3:


You still have not counter any thing I said just using insults to elude the argument.

If a thing has no value, why do you chase after it? If it is worthless, why go after it at all.

If the presence of a woman in your life is nothing, why squander so much of your sweat for it?

MJBOLT:

do we not have women chasing after men,is it not the same women that you claim have value that come online complaining about "how they can't find a man", these same women constantly talk about how they need a man in their lives the same women are the ones putting on make up, putting on body revealing clothes,fake hair just to grab the attention of men but according to you they don't chase men.If the presence of a man means nothing to women, they wouldn't be the biggest patrons of plastic surgery and cosmetic.

Casham:
I totally disagree with this. All of the girls I've dated so far except one did the chasing and approaching. We talk of women as if they are the final reward for a man's hardwork. As if their presence is all you need. Talks like that makes it look like they are doing the man a favor if they "agree" to date or marry him. I will say it is our culture that makes it seem that way. The truth is that it is the man doing her a favor. The earlier we accept this truth, the better for our children.

Crystalom3:
they are the final reward.

Kings have been chosen the prettiest women for ages and till date, Ned nwoko will choose Regina Daniel over your sisters just as she would choose him over you.

CsRockefeller:


You are delusional. "Women are the final reward"?

You must be a man who fantasizes about women always.

Crystalom3:
they are the final reward.

Kings have been chosen the prettiest women for ages and till date, Ned nwoko will choose Regina Daniel over your sisters just as she would choose him over you.

Crystalom3:
All I see is insult upon insult with no concrete argument.

Is the end goal to shame me into accepting your position on the matter?

Crystalom3:
I've been coming across various posts on this forum about how women and mostly women are useless and why men should avoid them at all cost.

This is not only a nairaland plaque. It is also on twitter with traces on Facebook.

In my honest opinion I do not see women or Nigeria girls as useless. Rather I see people who understand their values and exploit it to the fullest.

For instance, when we ask what a woman has to offer in a relationship, a lot of us do not know that the answer to that question is very obvious. But because we are asking the wrong question, we get the wrong answers.

A woman does not have to bring anything tangible to the table. Hear me out please. If a woman must bring something tangible to the table, then you must ask yourself why you keep preparing lines, working hard to get a girl's attention who you are confused has nothing tangible to offer you.

First off, you are not doing a woman a favour by liking her, asking her out or taking her places. She was on her own, then you saw something you love, a value which you liked and made you to approach her.

Herself being a woman is a value. This is why it is often hard for a woman to walk up to a man to toast him on her own. In doing so, she is declaring that she has no inherent value and automatically becomes the one to work hard to measure up to your standards.

Women have an inherent value just as you as a man have an inherent strength and do not need much workout to beat almost 80% of women on earth in a fight.

As such, they have themselves to offer in a relationship. Not just their body but their presence, laughter, conversations and smiles.

Trust me those things are what your money can never buy and if you have ever been loved truly b a woman you'll understand this to the fullest.

Crystalom3:
easy on the shit you vomit though

Jesterinjay:
So we as men have no value,we don't deserve to be worked for. They have inherent value,we have inherent strength that makes them lazy and expect a hardworking and successful man come for them. Let their value feed and carter for them. Spits