pls, i need your advice. am in love with a girl, when i was in school i have a girl that i was dating and i love her too much although, i senior her and she has made her self known to almost all of my relatives, to the extent that she has came to lagos for three consecutive years to celebrate both xmas and new year with me.But, am presently serving in calabar batch B corper and along the line i came across another graduate girl who is seriously ready to marry me inspite defact that i showed her the pics of my fiance.
Nevertheless, i still love this my undergraduate girl and this graduate one is ready for marriage with me and as a result of this, she has been doing everything to make me understand how immensely she loves me.What can i do please

i don't think you are ready for a commited relationship
because you have someone who you claim is ready to marry you at home but your eyes are still roaming around for another woman.

By the way why do you only discuss marriage with the women you date why can't you just date and see where it takes you instead of planning on marriage right as you meet a woman.

To answer your question i think you should set the girl at home free and the girl at school you should watch out for because if she knows you are commited to someone else and she is still pushing up on you , the ending of this fairy tale would not be happily ever after

U do not sound like a graduate(grammatically and in reasoning) .I suggest u round up your service 1st,secure a job and stabilize financially and psychologically b4 u talk to any woman about marriage.Marriage shouldn't,t be the right thing on your mind as a corper !

when you said you had a dilemna i thought you were being serious. this is not a dilemna you're cheating on ur girlfriend. kapish!

Why can't you control yourself.
You are the one who said you love the girl. So if you claim to be in love as you said, why couldn't you put it into pratice?

If she was the one who did this to you, how would you feel?

u lack safe control and if care is not taken you will marry two of them or marry one and born for one(MOBO).

Ur obviously not in love with this girl if ur cheatin on her.
If ur cheating on her now, how would u cope if u guys get married.
U know what u need to do, ur not in a dilemma, i suggest u change ur lifestyle.

Why is the second girl so bent on marrying if you didn't propose to her.
Thatz not normal, don't you think?

The best thing is to wait till you're ready, wait for your girl to graduate and see who's really ready to marry you

Re: Am In Dillema

Nope, absolutely not. If this is a dilemma, i wonder what we'll call the real thing?? Dilemma, raised to the power of two?? lol

lolypop:

please, i need your advice.

I'll try and break it down as gently as possible.

am in love with a girl, when i was in school i have a girl that i was dating and i love her too much although, i senior her and she has made her self known to almost all of my relatives, to the extent that she has came to lagos for three consecutive years to celebrate both xmas and new year with me.

Ok . . . but are you sure you're in love with her, you're falling out of love??

But, am presently serving in calabar batch B corper and along the line i came across another graduate girl who is seriously ready to marry me inspite defact that i showed her the pics of my fiance

Well we all know that husbands are scarce. But she's being unbelievably cheap, didnt know it had come to that

Nevertheless, i still love this my undergraduate girl

So what exactly is the problem?? Are you sure you love her enough?? Or you think you love her??

and this graduate one is ready for marriage with me

Did your girlfriend at home say she wasn't ready to marry you??
Or are you read[b]ier[/b] to marry this other girl?? Is that what you're trying to tell us?? I thought the important thing was whom you are ready to marry, the girl i bet you is ready to marry anybody, sorry to say that!!

and as a result of this, she has been doing everything to make me understand how immensely she loves me.

Isnt your now-girlfriend doing the same thing too??

What can i do please

Lets see . . why don't you do an evaluation. Yea it might seem like an extra christmas day for you, having two girls after you?? Well dearie, it won't be likt that forever, so try being noble here.

Which of them do you love more, i don't mean the one you're more infatuated with oo. i said LOVE!! Is there anyhting this other girl does or has that makes her more of what you want than your girl?? Are you carried away with her being the new face and her "doing everything to please you"??

After searching your heart of hearts and finding out whom amongst them is your dream come true, please gently let the other walk . . but think wisely and deeply, all that glitters aint gold . . I warn you Good luck hun!!

@ poster, are you stupid? drop the two of them and marry cuteass

mr ferlie:

@ poster, are you stupid? drop the two of them and marry cuteass

Now you got me rolling on the floor, the poster is telling you the priest got burnt and you're asking him if the priest's musctache got burnt too, lol

ROFLMAO @ various harsh replies
Anyways nice analysis cute ass

Cute ass,

I remember one post where somebody addressed you as cute_yansh. I beg to follow suite; Good talk.

@post,
You are serving and want to get married? Only son? Inherited papa's wealth? Settling with a snatcher? Poised to be a heart-breaker?

Cute ass, ur analysis cute pass ass. If d guy no learn 4rm u, I wonder how in go tek learn again.

u are not in a dilema

No body is forcing u to do what u do not like

But since u have someone that love u and u claim to love her get commited to each other cos am very sure if u dump her u will dump the new one and that's hw u going to continue ur life

uchetobi:

Anyways nice analysis cute ass

thanks jare

Kashif:

Cute ass,

I remember one post where somebody addressed you as cute_yansh. I beg to follow suite; Good talk.

Continue following suit

Joey82:

Cute ass, your analysis cute pass ass. If d guy no learn from u, I wonder how in go tek learn again.

thanks for the compliment dear

i think u r just infatuated over this new girl

moreover as a corper, u should be thinking of planning ur life and not marriage now

if you know that you really love the undergraduate and she's been faithful to you all along, i think you shld just keep up with her instead of the new girl you just met.Being desparate to marry you does not mean that she's serious about you.the film always begin after marriage,once she entered ur house the you're in for the movie.

Stay on that girl that you've known a little while.