I don't know how to believe my girlfriend even when she is telling the truth

Sometimes I'll screw her base on what's on my mind and how i think of what she is doing at my back which is not real

It will get to a point that she will need to cry before I believe her

We've been together for 6mnths now And we've been doing well

I want to believe this girl
About everything she tells me

Pls help nairalanders

It's either you lie a lot yourself or your life is a lie or you have always been surrounded by liars.

As a result truth seems alien and impossible to you.

You are not alone so many guys here have

seen so much hate that they can't relate with true love or acts of kindness.



I pity this poor girl in your life and many other women that will come after her.



Oh mother nature, never you give me a GOOD but RUINED man !

Bro, I think you gate trust issues.

Good; thing you dnt believe.
Better; dnt ever believe her.
Best; dnt put ur mind in the relationship. Jst use her as a f*ck buddy.

You have issues and it's good you acknowledge that. For starters, I suggest you stop reading crap from NL boys who are either from broken homes or have failed woefully in thier own relationships. Also, let the girl go if you can't bring yourself to be more deserving of her. Stop selling the idea that men are scumbags.

Nothing like help here Mr,if you can't trust her now in relationship don't expect to do so in marriage. Let her go if she's not trustworthy before it's late, people like you are the reasons girls keep things you ought to know.

Why is YERUBA Music so fast as if they're using stolen instruments?

WoundedLamb:
You have issues and it's good you acknowledge that. For starters, I suggest you stop reading crap from NL boys who are either from broken homes or have failed woefully in thier own relationships. Also, let the girl go if you can't bring yourself to be more deserving of her. Stop selling the idea that men are scumbags.

God bless you.

thatsleepboy1:
Why is YERUBA Music so fast as if they're using stolen instruments?

So many Kolo on NL

They're talking about A, this Ozoor is saying X

chinchonglee:
Good; thing you dnt believe.
Better; dnt ever believe her.
Best; dnt put ur mind in the relationship. Jst use her as a f*ck buddy.

bros
I love this gal mehn
I can't use her for as a fvck bug

Deborah98:
Nothing like help here Mr,if you can't trust her now in relationship don't expect to do so in marriage. Let her go if she's not trustworthy before it's late, people like you are the reasons girls keep things you ought to know.

you shouldn't screw me
I'm seeking help here bro

doggedfighter:
It's either you lie a lot yourself or your life is a lie or you have always been surrounded by liars.

As a result truth seems alien and impossible to you.

You are not alone so many guys here have

seen so much hate that they can't relate with true love or acts of kindness.

I pity this poor girl in your life and many other women that will come after her.

hmmmmmmm

So many scarred and near-damaged people...

UTAN28:
I don't know how to believe my girlfriend even when she is telling the truth

Sometimes I'll screw her base on what's on my mind and how i think of what she is doing at my back which is not real

It will get to a point that she will need to cry before I believe her

We've been together for 6mnths now And we've been doing well

I want to believe this girl
About everything she tells me

Pls help nairalanders

Mtchwee
Lollittaa see one of them

UTAN28:
bros
I love this gal mehn
I can't use her for as a fvck bug

Listen lemme tell you something.
Quote me anywhere!
"The very moment you start suspecting ur girlfriend of cheating, she is already cheating or in the process to cheat"

Know that!

how did this relationship begin

Don't judge a book base on it cover and don't use a plant to judge other plant of same fruit cos dey may be different in taste or size... Learn to believe her.. Making a lady cry is not good its like hurting her feeling.. U still have to work on ur relationship cos I don't see it going on for long if u are still thinking like this...

I advise you maintain status quo and let her remain at your mercy or change status quo and be at her mercy. Your choice brother man.

thatsleepboy1:


Ma mpa gị ma mma gị na ndị ụlọ gị nile wu chá ozor na adaka. Oji ịhụ àlá azụ

Type wetin A fit understand Eleribuu

chinchonglee:
Good; thing you dnt believe.
Better; dnt ever believe her.
Best; dnt put ur mind in the relationship. Jst use her as a f*ck buddy.

some men on nairaland deserve 66 lashes of Cain ,,what if he 's dating your sister?

UTAN28:
I don't know how to believe my girlfriend even when she is telling the truth

Sometimes I'll screw her base on what's on my mind and how i think of what she is doing at my back which is not real

It will get to a point that she will need to cry before I believe her

We've been together for 6mnths now And we've been doing well

I want to believe this girl
About everything she tells me

Pls help nairalanders

Op u better let her go before u develop high blood pressure, I have been in your shoes and it didn't end well, if she's not with me, my mind will be telling me she's out there screwing another guy, it was not my fault then because, I have confronted her and she had confessed cheating at a point.

I tried to trust her but I end up thinking and having sleepless night, base on the facts that I loved her and wanted things to work, in the long run, I had to let her go, because there is no way I was gonna marry her or continue keeping her, because she was already making me loose my sanity then. I left her and life became sweet and interesting again, I dont stay up late thinking of her cheating or not,

And again, if your girl is still a student and she is struggling to see her self through in a university, just forget her bro, she's getting dicked on a daily by all those guys on her contact that she says they are just her friend, plus course mate and school boyfriends, plus she has needs too, paying school fees and feeding and all , dont be fooled

debbydams:
some men on nairaland deserve 66 lashes of Cain ,,what if he 's dating your sister?

My sister have her own cross to carry..
Believe women at your own peril

Too much stories on nairaland abt Nigerian girls is affecting u... U better leave that poor girl before it affects ur sanity too

niggas with trust issues dont deserve girlfriends .......baba rest before you kill somebody child with jamb questions

WoundedLamb:
You have issues and it's good you acknowledge that. For starters, I suggest you stop reading crap from NL boys who are either from broken homes or have failed woefully in thier own relationships. Also, let the girl go if you can't bring yourself to be more deserving of her. Stop selling the idea that men are scumbags.

Morafvcker

its a psychological problem it's either you've been lied to by your exs and when you have an original it's difficult for you to believe or you're a liar and think she's same

UTAN28:
I don't know how to believe my girlfriend even when she is telling the truth

Sometimes I'll screw her base on what's on my mind and how i think of what she is doing at my back which is not real

It will get to a point that she will need to cry before I believe her

We've been together for 6mnths now And we've been doing well

I want to believe this girl
About everything she tells me

Pls help nairalanders

What Kind of help do you need

You have already trained your mind never to trust her, so it's up to you to redress yourself

Until you loose her and get that one that will never tell you the truth, then you hang transformer

merieam16:
Too much stories on nairaland abt Nigerian girls is affecting u... U better leave that poor girl before it affects ur sanity too

The way NLders criticize ladies...it might affect your sanity.
Some of this guys are hypocrite.

...A nairalander romance addict, spotted.

I don laugh tire

thatsleepboy1:
Why is YERUBA Music so fast as if they're using stolen instruments?

Hmmm ur own gud self,I end my own relationship because weda I believe her or not e no dey concern her and d babe na almost my replica our character na same so I just run from her.

I've got big trust issues too, my relationship crashed because of that.