my bf configured my fone, of wich i never knew abt, he gts a copy of al my received n snt msgs, al hell wnt lose wen he foun

dt i went 2 render an harmless help 4 my ex (cook), cos he ws expecting alot of pple, plz hw do i gt bac hes trust, no insult

pardon my manners im using my fone 2browse, if i may ask d comp guru, hw is it possible 2configured once fone

I laff you in ijebu! Guys no dey form mugu again o.
The your guy na sharp guy-man. See as him don catch thief.
Pele o! Everyday is for the thief, one day is for the maga.

Is this PWEETY4ME?

lol nobody is thief or maga here, god knows nothing happened, bt hw do i convince him, cos hes really disappointed at me.

@babe- nope she aint pweety4me. You know why? If she was pweety4me, by now she would have been throwing insults around.

Its nt prewty4me its a different user, i registered long time ago, bt i prefer to read tru posts n comments made by oder user

Pornodude:

@babe- nope she aint pweety4me. You know why? If she was pweety4me, by now she would have been throwing insults around.

You know who you are thats what matters so. .  Rock your boat

Cook, cork cock suck and for good

@pwee- sorry o, but that trust would be a long time coming.
Tell me, how would you feel if you found out that your boyf visited his ex to give her a massage cos she had hurt herself? Well, thats how he feels right now.

You need to put that guy in his place! He doesn't own you, and there is no ball and chain on your ankle or a ring on your finger. Tell this stupid and insecure guy that he has no right to tamper with your phone. Tell him that these acts now cause you to lose trust for him and that you need some space from him before he places a tracking device on you.

He configured your phone? haha! Nawa o. Why na?

Since the help you rendered was harmless, then no koso now! No kasala, No wahala!

Just explain to him. And if he's still doing strong head, I would say fashi his side!

Nekai:

You need to put that guy in his place! He doesn't own you, and there is no ball and chain on your ankle or a ring on your finger. Tell this silly and insecure guy that he has no right to tamper with your phone. Tell him that these acts now cause you to lose trust for him and that you need some space from him before he places a tracking device on you.

Don't we just think alike

Fact is, he didn't have a right to invade your privacy hence he is as guilty as you not informing him about going over to your ex to render whatever help he seeked.
Looks like the only way forward is you guys breaking up cos ain't no point in dating someone that doesn't trust you.

BTW: It's wrong sneaking behind your man's back to go render help to an ex. Please don't do it again.

jay bee:

Don't we just think alike

Fact is, he didn't have a right to invade your privacy hence he is as guilty as you not informing him about going over to your ex to render whatever help he seeked.
Looks like the only way forward is you guys breaking up cos ain't no point in dating someone that doesn't trust you.

BTW: It's wrong sneaking behind your man's back to go render help to an ex. Please don't do it again.

Point.

@OP you started the firework so don't go outside stay warm. I will say you been unfaithful to him and that prompted whatever configuration he did on your cell phone even though he ain't got no right to do so.

when u went 2 ur ex house did u fu-ck him?
Yes or no

Tanks guys, i ill av yo talk sense into his head, dou i no im guilty, sm guys can b so insecured sha, i bet he did same to my

Other fones, no to talk of hw many times he calls a day. Huum

M M M:

when u went 2 your ex house did u fu-ck him?
Yes or no

pwettygal:

my bf configured my fone, of wich i never knew abt, he gts a copy of al my received n snt msgs, al hell wnt lose wen he foun

And what could be the problem?

Are you guilty?

M M M:

when u went 2 your ex house did u fu-ck him?
Yes or no

she cooked in her PJs

yin.yems:

[b]id b more bothered bout why the fu-c-k he wud configure my phone!! thats just unforgivable, n u still wana earn his trust u sure he trusted u in the 1st place? n u might wana change your fone or number,

your dude is def insecure n with this happening its only gonna get worse n he'll always have an excuse, honestly u might wanna RUN from this one hun, gd luck![/b]

well said.run now while you still can

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pwettygal:

dt i went 2 render an harmless help 4 my ex (cook), cos he ws expecting alot of pple, plz hw do i gt bac hes trust, no insult

did you say harmless, may i ask harmless to who?
i don't get it, before you went to the house of your ex, did it occur to you that you should have at least told him?
there is something called accountability, and its a really big issue in every relationship.

you have got to accept that you made an error and then start from there,

personally i don't give a damn, where or who my girl wanna hang out with,
but with her ex HELL NO,

that's a recipe for disaster.
and please understand the meaning of being insecure,
you guys should stop using grammar to defend yourself when it is not necessary
if i am insecure then i've got issues with my self esteem.
it does not say anything about your actions/intentions, which may or may not be genuine

the dude is not insecure, he suspected something, and followed his instincts, please apologize and hopes he forgives you.