Morning nairalanders

Yesterday at work we had a discussion if it's wise to spy on ur girlfriend or boyfriend social media accounts eg WhatsApp,Facebook,Instagram,email etc.
The ladies all said it's is totally wrong for a guy to be going through a ladies social media accounts even if they are engaged not to talk of boyfriend and girlfriend level.some of the ladies said what ever the guy is looking for in a ladies phone he will see with his eye and they totally disagree on spying.
On the other hand, we the guys told them if they are clean why are they scared of spying,if I don't have any skeleton in my wardrobe why will I be scared of police coming to search my house.one of the guys said the time he spyed on his girlfriend phone he found out that they were like 4 of them dating the girl and they where all complimenting her sex skills.he was so diverstated as he felt he could marry her and he trusted her.another guy said the girl he was with is a coded prostitute :Das he found out after he spyed on her phone.Cheating is not only for women,men too do cheat.even married men cheat more compared to married women.
If u have ever spyed on ur boyfriend, girlfriend,husband, wife,fiance tell us what u found,how u felt,what was ur action after that ,what method did u use in spying and what do u think about spying on one phone.am planning to spy on my lady social media accounts.pls pray for me so I don't get heart attack

Godian45:
Morning nairalanders

Yesterday at work we had a discussion if it's wise to spy on ur girlfriend or boyfriend social media accounts eg WhatsApp,Facebook,Instagram,email etc.
The ladies all said it's is totally wrong for a guy to be going through a ladies social media accounts even if they are engaged not to talk of boyfriend and girlfriend level.some of the ladies said what ever the guy is looking for in a ladies phone he will see with his eye and they totally disagree on spying.
On the other hand, we the guys told them if they are clean why are they scared of spying,if I don't have any skeleton in my wardrobe why will I be scared of police coming to search my house.one of the guys said the time he spyed on his girlfriend phone he found out that they were like 4 of them dating the girl and they where all complimenting her sex skills.he was so diverstated as he felt he could marry her and he trusted her.another guy said the girl he was with is a coded prostitute :Das he found out after he spyed on her phone.Cheating is not only for women,men too do cheat.even married men cheat more compared to married women.
If u have ever spyed on ur boyfriend, girlfriend,husband, wife,fiance tell us what u found,how u felt,what was ur action after that ,what method did u use in spying and what do u think about spying on one phone.am planning to spy on my lady social media accounts.pls pray for me so I don't get heart attack

None of our business and I pray you have stroke and paralyze.. Since some of you humans can speak about positive things with the tongue God gave you.

I really want to do this before marrying her even its just for a week.

Jeon:


None of our business and I pray you have stroke and paralyze.. Since some of you humans can speak about positive things with the tongue God gave you.

thanks for ur contribution

nellyelitz:
I really want to do this before marrying her even its just for a week.

you better do

nellyelitz:
I really want to do this before marrying her even its just for a week.

Dont do it now, all u had to do is marry her, after she don born enough for u and u know u have all ur kids, then go through her social media, at this moment, she will drop all her guards since u don't use to check her social media and she will chat like her normal self without fear of being caught.

If u find anything u don't like, divorce her and live life like a king, but if u see that ur wife is a good lady, love her more and buy her a gift she likes and surprise her.

Ladies always take screenshot of those cloths, shoes and bags they admire, u can buy it for her as a gift

richmond500:
Dont do it now, all u had to do is marry her, after she don born enough for u and u know u have all ur kids, then go through her social media, at this moment, she will drop all her guards since u don't use to check her social media and she will chat like her normal self without fear of being caught.

If u find anything u don't like, divorce her and live life like a king, but if u see that ur wife is a good lady, love her more and buy her a gift she likes and surprise her.

Ladies always take screenshot of those cloths, shoes and bags they admire, u can buy it for her as a gift

spying after he have married her already?.this advice get as e be

Godian45:
spying after he have married her already?.this advice get as e be

Ofcos na, instead of doing baby mama which she can pour all blames on u, make it look serious by wifing her then look for opportunity to divorce, at this moment, u won't be seen as a bad person cos u can defend urself that u are a victim of circumstance but deep down, u really know its a lie, u just don't want to be tied down for the rest of ur life by a single woman and u also don't want children from different mothers so as to avoid food poisoning.
U won't even have guilty conscience divorcing her, people will even understand ur point

richmond500:

Ofcos na, instead of doing baby mama which she can pour all blames on u, make it look serious by wifing her then look for opportunity to divorce, at this moment, u won't be seen as a bad person cos u can defend urself that u are a victim of circumstance but deep down, u really know its a lie, u just don't want to be tied down for the rest of ur life by a single woman and u also don't want children from different mothers so as to avoid food poisoning.
U won't even have guilty conscience divorcing her, people will even understand ur point

Nobody should heed to his advice up here pls. Clear your doubt about her before putting the ring on it

Please, men and women, boys and girls, always check on your partner once in a while o.

Why will you snoop if you are both plain with each other and the trust is there? Personally I locked my WhatsApp because of theft and other people snooping in my personal shiit, but I can comfortably leave my phone with my partner for the next one month without breaking a sweat. I know his password too but I choose not to invade his privacy because I have implicit trust in him, and also to respect the fact that he loves his privacy. If he wants to do kurukere, na hin sabi, as long as I am not aware.

If you have no skeletons in your cupboard then going through each other's phones should not be a big deal. However, we need to learn to respect boundaries and just keep hoping that our partners will not betray the trust we have entrusted them with.

nellyelitz:
I really want to do this before marrying her even its just for a week.

You better do it. I beg you.
It will define your step and future.

Omo check phone o, e get why

[quote author=Godian45 post=102041834]Morning nairalanders

Yesterday at work we had a discussion if it's wise to spy on ur girlfriend or boyfriend social media accounts eg WhatsApp,Facebook,Instagram,email etc.
The ladies all said it's is totally wrong for a guy to be going through a ladies social media accounts even if they are engaged not to talk of boyfriend and girlfriend level.some of the ladies said what ever the guy is looking for in a ladies phone he will see with his eye and they totally disagree on spying.
On the other hand, we the guys told them if they are clean why are they scared of spying,if I don't have any skeleton in my wardrobe why will I be scared of police coming to search my house.one of the guys said the time he spyed on his girlfriend phone he found out that they were like 4 of them dating the girl and they where all complimenting her sex skills.he was so diverstated as he felt he could marry her and he trusted her.another guy said the girl he was with is a coded prostitute :Das he found out after he spyed on her phone.Cheating is not only for women,men too do cheat.even married men cheat more compared to married women.
If u have ever spyed on ur boyfriend, girlfriend,husband, wife,fiance tell us what u found,how u felt,what was ur action after that ,what method did u use in spying and what do u think about spying on one phone.am planning to spy on my lady social media accounts.pls pray for me so I don't get heart attack









Woman are not loyal and entitled by nature ,don't trust anyone of them and don't spy or check thier phone

I'm just realistic and I know a woman can cheat or even move on with another man anytime .


I always tell my wife ,you can cheat and do anything you want,and please make sure you hid it very well,but the day I know ,you're gone for good and I mean it ,she be always on her toes and will not cheat if she truly wants to have a future with you

Laideabdulahi:

You better do it. I beg you. It will define your step and future.

I REALLY NEED TO

I think being open in a relationship is the way to go

Godian45:
Morning nairalanders

Yesterday at work we had a discussion if it's wise to spy on ur girlfriend or boyfriend social media accounts eg WhatsApp,Facebook,Instagram,email etc.
The ladies all said it's is totally wrong for a guy to be going through a ladies social media accounts even if they are engaged not to talk of boyfriend and girlfriend level.some of the ladies said what ever the guy is looking for in a ladies phone he will see with his eye and they totally disagree on spying.
On the other hand, we the guys told them if they are clean why are they scared of spying,if I don't have any skeleton in my wardrobe why will I be scared of police coming to search my house.one of the guys said the time he spyed on his girlfriend phone he found out that they were like 4 of them dating the girl and they where all complimenting her sex skills.he was so diverstated as he felt he could marry her and he trusted her.another guy said the girl he was with is a coded prostitute :Das he found out after he spyed on her phone.Cheating is not only for women,men too do cheat.even married men cheat more compared to married women.
If u have ever spyed on ur boyfriend, girlfriend,husband, wife,fiance tell us what u found,how u felt,what was ur action after that ,what method did u use in spying and what do u think about spying on one phone.am planning to spy on my lady social media accounts.pls pray for me so I don't get heart attack

My ex did this shit.
It was a twisted relationship I'd say.

Allaboutkatiee:


My ex did this shit.
It was a twisted relationship I'd say.

tell us what happened

Only a fool won't check his/her partner's phone...

Those folks above me shuld keep deceiving themselves.
Living in lies, deceit and the trickery called trust!