iice:

equal joy and pain.
Not blind but tolerant until the water reaches the level
Has alot to do with our preferences
Yes i did get over those i loved because i chose to.
It is, if for while it lasted it was true.
Love of thyself. . .and i don't mean in the way most people would interpret that

Dyt:

Love cld b pain n joy
yh dere s tolerance so long d love s still so strong
wit whom I love i dont think dere r prefrences,i go wit everyth wit him even if i dont lyk it in d 1st place,i get b thinkin of it later lyk yh he loves it,ways 2 mk him happier u know
i lyk 2 jst mk my love all happy

Pweety4me:

Hmmm 9ice1

But if it has a lot to do with preferences then how come it's blind?how come u can't help or u fall for?how come u can't stop it?or does this not apply 2 you?

livedit:

Love is "pain" and "joy". I guess this is why they say "love" (unconditional love) is "long suffering". There are times when it's hard to continue to love someone despite their ways. Or maybe they may do something or say something or even betray you and to still love them. To accept the good and bad in a person. That's unconditional love and some people can really "test" your love.

The bible says: you are to love your neighbor, as you love yourself. So even though I'm no longer "in-love" with my ex. I still "love" him. BUT, with the love of the Lord. For Jesus is Love. And since God is in livedit, then livedit does love him. But that does not mean I should have a relationship with him. I love him with the spirit of the Lord. I just thank God for Jesus, because without HIM, we are all lost.

Hmm i hear that sister, this is the Revelation!

It no easy sha

iice:

Not blind like i said. You can help who you fall in love with.
You get attracted to someone because of the attributes you like and want.
He's tall. Good looking. Has money. etc etc These affect what you feel for someone.
Sometimes, there's something beneath all these attributes that you don't like, but you ignore that and focus more on what you want to see. So that causes problems. I can stop it, i can control it but then it's because i'm very mental about things.

Livedit is right about to accept the good and bad in a person. It's a choice you make. Just as loving someone is a choice you make.

iice:

Love is not a living thing. It is just a something we give life too. Thus as flawed as we humans are.
Consequently the material and physical attributes. Love does not equal attraction but attraction plays a good part of tying yourself to another person.
You cannot be friends with someone you have no attraction too. Be it that you like how he/she thinks. What he/she does. . .etc. Not just physical attraction. There are things that draw you to someone. I don't think you can fall in love with someone without knowing why you fell in love with him/her. It could be his/her kindness, how he/she treats you etc. Maybe some cannot pinpoint what exactly caused it but they have a general idea of why. Unless they need and 'out' so they resort to the i don't know tactics. Which brings me to the process. Yes it can be a process. Sometimes it takes long, sometimes a shorter time. That's why you have the not fancied from the onset thing like you said. So yes you grow to love someone as you get to know the person, whatever of the person drew you or what of the person you eventually find out will help in making that leap.

Hmm thanx for the superb explanation & insight into everything the cherry is on you!

iice:

You're welcome. Now no make me right essay again eh

Hehe ok 1 more things. . .just kiddin

Sooooooo Iice baby r u feeling love?

Kingsleyinfo:

love is pain and Joy

love is not blind it just turns a blind eye

very much, you are attracted to, what you prefer, but what you prefer might not be what is good for you.

we don't get over them we just grow up, and have a better understanding.

the issue of how long it lasts depends on how we handle issues that arise in our relationship. but also understand that when love is one sided it is bound to fail from the start.

it means everything, cos i found it.

M M M:

love is wicked