PhilipReigns:

Lol , asking u out doesnt means he loves her less. you need understanding when it comes to issues regarding men's romantic life. To men, variety is the spice of life, i can swear on anything that he finds u sexually appealing and wanted to sleep with u while still retaining the other girl(ur friend) as he true love and probable life partner. that's guys for u. Men dont attach emotions to sex, hence they can love a decent woman and wife her while still sleeping around with other ladies who has successfully label themselves as sexual object by dressing seductively. Unlike women, cheating doesnt change a man's love, affection and commitment to his woman and by extension, his family. Its as simple as that!

debbydams:
lol u are right but nothing can keep a man that want to cheat o,
I came to visit my friend, she is so nice nd her bf use to cal her every seconds, video calls nd all that..I'm not jealous tho because I know men are scum..so yesterday her bf came to take us out because she has bn sick, we came back late nd he decided to sleep over.
I was playing with my phone while she's trying to cook for him can u imagine this guy Is asking me out telling me he will give me everything I want I left the room it was when my friend came in before I could sleep in peace..this a guy that showed my friend love nd my friend can vouch her kidney for this guy oo..I now believe that men are scum..the worst part is the guy promised her marriage,,he has even introduced her..men men chai

lkillbrokehoes:
Must you lie to prove a point?

truthsayer009:


Don't put this on men, we are all in it together. Women place value on their V, and once a woman has sex, she feels she has lost something. That's why the only less-parasitic relationship is a no-sex relationship. That's the only form of relationship a woman won't ask you for arm and leg but Nigerian men love sex too much, so they gaz pay up in cash or bitcoin, sorry gifts.

Nobody has one night stands in Nigeria, or let's say most people don't. Once you hear people meeting each other in the club and having sex the same day, he payed for it 99%.

We are all the same, women want men to pay, men always agree to pay. Everybody shake hands.

Reelmii:
I dont blame the men wen they term ladies as being cheap

Most ladies do not have shame, they do not either know their worth or they have low self esteem.... if only ladies can start seeing that they deserve better from any man who is not treating them well and find the courage to leave any relationship that is not making any headway...they will be respected.... but instead, they see marriage as the greatest achievement on earth, making themselves vulnerable to some men who are just out for fun...u will see a lady paying the Bill's of a full grown man( not husband oo) just because she wants the man for keeps, she will even be receiving constant beating and still claim she loves him....so I dont blame the men abeg,, make the woman to borrow sense

PrinceMajestic:
yes

stinflame:


No mind OP he thinks it easy camping a lady. You practically foot all bills and sure you get to know her more.

Divoc19:
Not all men like the marriage idea.
And she may just be madly in love.

Me can't blame anyone for their actions.

Nobody wishes bad for themselves.

They may just be ignorant.

HRHQueenPhil:
It's their of this three
1. I love him so much and his place is comfortable
2. Am super broke and he both love each other
3. He keeps fighting me and getting upset when I return home, let me rather stay
4. Am suspecting he cheats and will abandon me, so let me seduce him with food and sex so he won't stray

That's abt it

prince3009:


If this your story is true because women of nowadays can lie sha...

1) You were jealous...

2) Hope you know that since men are scum, your papa na scum, your brother(s) if you have any are scum and your bf or fiance if you have one is a scum.

Tankio

pocohantas:


You didn’t answer the question.



Okay. So marriage is no more the greatest achievement for a woman? That means we can all go home and stop insulting single and divorced women. I like how you guys speak from all sides of the mouth.



I appreciate this straightforward answer.

Care to share how much is expensive enough and how you grade it?

pocohantas:
What exactly is free sex?

I keep seeing men use that word.

Either they say sex is free or they say she is cheap and can be fcked with ordinary indomie.

Does it mean subconsciously, men love to place high value on the pussy? Like they would rather pay a lot for it?

Tonyspecial:
What's this about FREE SEX who dey give and who dey collect?

Magnoliaa:


Yes. Yes. Yes! They do. Forget all the mouth they make that "pussy is pussy." To them, it is not. I've seen a lot to know this.

donogaga:
When single ladies choose to cohabit with men, yielding to free sexual servicing, domestic chores and the likes, what exactly goes through their minds?

This is love?
This will make him marry me?
I am married and this is my duty?
This is what it takes to hold a man?

Which?

More importantly, why is it difficult for women to see this at this point.
Chances are many are reading this now telling themselves "no, this is not me. My own case is different. We are in love."

Okay then. Love.

What is love? What to you is love?

We cannot understand, you think.

Welcome to the journeys that led to the pregnancies that led to undesired marriages that became toxic and ended up in very hurtful divorces having one person bearing almost all the physical, financial and social cost of it as a single parent.

Welcome to the realities many of us currently live but then, maybe we don't understand.

If he truly loves you, he'd do the needful and marry you right. Don't be mistaken. When the right one comes along, he'd do away with all the excuses he's giving you and marry her. Unfortunately, many learnt this lesson the hard way.

The choice is yours.



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tunapawizzy:
As long as the society preaches that being married to a man is the ultimate success/achievement in life, women will always do whatever they think will make a man marry them. Everybody wants to be successful and if the society defines marriage as ultimate success what do u expect a lady to do.
Whether cohabiting will make him marry you is a different issue all together, i wont blame anyone for trying that, it has worked for some and if you dont try something how will you know if its gona work for u or not.
BTW what do u mean by 'give men free sex' ? the woman no dey enjoy d sex? abi shes supposed to get paid for sex

Magnoliaa:


Yes. Yes. Yes! They do. Forget all the mouth they make that "pussy is pussy." To them, it is not. I've seen a lot to know this.

Divoc19:
Not all men like the marriage idea.
And she may just be madly in love.

Me can't blame anyone for their actions.

Nobody wishes bad for themselves.

They may just be ignorant.

legba1:
I will like to address the "free sex" narrative... In the context of the subject matter. The fact you cohabit with a guy that pays his rent and utilities we both use already placed a price on every and all benefits that accrues from our living together, except you share the burden of the cost which in most cases is not. So the sex in this case is not free, the relationship is not symbiotic and mutual

meobizy:
”Single at home, married in school” makes its way to the front page for the nth time in five years. Dead forum.

debbydams:

donogaga:
When single ladies choose to cohabit with men, yielding to free sexual servicing, domestic chores and the likes, what exactly goes through their minds?

This is love?
This will make him marry me?
I am married and this is my duty?
This is what it takes to hold a man?

Which?

More importantly, why is it difficult for women to see this at this point.
Chances are many are reading this now telling themselves "no, this is not me. My own case is different. We are in love."

Okay then. Love.

What is love? What to you is love?

We cannot understand, you think.

Welcome to the journeys that led to the pregnancies that led to undesired marriages that became toxic and ended up in very hurtful divorces having one person bearing almost all the physical, financial and social cost of it as a single parent.

Welcome to the realities many of us currently live but then, maybe we don't understand.

If he truly loves you, he'd do the needful and marry you right. Don't be mistaken. When the right one comes along, he'd do away with all the excuses he's giving you and marry her. Unfortunately, many learnt this lesson the hard way.

The choice is yours.



https://www.facebook.com/100047151253398/posts/322131562701883/

debbydams:
see the good indeed,men are scum,I can't impress any man sha nd I do whats convenient for me,,nd I can't move in with a guy that has not marry me oo..I v a lot of guys as friends nd I know most things about them, only few of them are God fearing,most of them are scum oo...

donogaga:
When single ladies choose to cohabit with men, yielding to free sexual servicing, domestic chores and the likes, what exactly goes through their minds?

This is love?
This will make him marry me?
I am married and this is my duty?
This is what it takes to hold a man?

Which?

More importantly, why is it difficult for women to see this at this point.
Chances are many are reading this now telling themselves "no, this is not me. My own case is different. We are in love."

Okay then. Love.

What is love? What to you is love?

We cannot understand, you think.

Welcome to the journeys that led to the pregnancies that led to undesired marriages that became toxic and ended up in very hurtful divorces having one person bearing almost all the physical, financial and social cost of it as a single parent.

Welcome to the realities many of us currently live but then, maybe we don't understand.

If he truly loves you, he'd do the needful and marry you right. Don't be mistaken. When the right one comes along, he'd do away with all the excuses he's giving you and marry her. Unfortunately, many learnt this lesson the hard way.

The choice is yours.



https://www.facebook.com/100047151253398/posts/322131562701883/

thatsleepboy1:


Men & women from kwara are naturally useless so I clearly understand where you're coming from but don't be a menace, na You dey do am pass.

PeaceJoyLove:
Poverty is the reason topics like this come up. Poverty is why a woman chooses to live with a man.

debbydams:
see the good indeed,men are scum,I can't impress any man sha nd I do whats convenient for me,,nd I can't move in with a guy that has not marry me oo..I v a lot of guys as friends nd I know most things about them, only few of them are God fearing,most of them are scum oo...

Lanretoye:
before u go about shouting men are scum,remember that your father is a man and someday you will marry a scum.as a matter of fact most of ladies that go around saying men are scums are those cheap hungry ladies that put all their livelihood on men,they easily get used and dumped because of their unlimited liability which no body wants.