This is the girl we are planning to get married in a few months times,this is what I saw on her inbox, please I need you people advise on what to do.thanks

Cancel all the plans you might have or having with her. Okafor's Law will definitely play out.

Next time, choose the lesser evil. Get a young virgin girl not an experienced one. Always look before you leap, and don't take any red flags lightly.

Sometimes these damaged girls still wanna explore before they settle down, so they see the serious man as an obstacle preventing them from achieving their 'goal'.

O boy! this is a triangle!!

With my little experience about psychology, that lady may not be suitable for you. She craves for something more, something you can't give her, not your fault she finds you boring and gentle. It's very tricky being with someone who isn't fully convinced about you, if I were you, I will cut my loss and move on.

She has to want you as much as you want her. Think deeply about this, all it takes right now is for you to loose your means of sustenance and she's gone, but you can't stop that from happening tomorrow by letting her go now.

Sad as this whole situation may be, you need to be thankful that you got this information before signing the dotted lines. It's already obvious she loves her ex more than you. Are you expecting us to ask you to go ahead to marry her? Look, if you go ahead and marry her, should any unfortunate thing happen to you (God forbid), soon after the marriage, you will realize what it means to be unfortunate in life. Don't neglect the chance to live a happy life, by stopping with whatever plans you two are having.

Thank your stars, the fault is nothing to do with you; trust God for your own divinely ordained spouse and God will crown your life with one!

Ever heard about okafor's law? Cancel everything you have with the girl and don't even try to beg her to change her mind cos that would be a collosal mistake on your part.

Leave her. Listen to those warning you above me and those who will still likely warn you below.

Good luck

Confront (gently) her with what you saw and then cut things of. Its not going to be easy for you, but for the sake of your happiness, you need to.
A broken engagement is easier than a broken marriage.


Plus, I really don't know why men and women go ahead to marry partners they know deep down they don't love. It doesn't make sense at all. Don't you love yourself to want happiness and peace in your marriage? Haba.

Guy, why are you so gentle? This world no balance. Some like hot, some like it, some like it in..........

9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

In mosdii voice: They are all useless..... All of them!

smithy88:
This is the girl we are planning to get married in a few months times,this is what I saw on her inbox, please I need you people advise on what to do.thanks

Will like to know what you have decided on this matter.