the rate @ which marriages are crumbling these days is higher than the rate @ which pple are even getting married!

Yeap divorce is the order of day, these days. Number one reason being lack of communication followed by lack of trust.

If those 2 great pillars of marriages are broken off cuz divorce rate will be high. Common sense!

source?

cos we now live 4 better 4 better.

Blame god.

more like the LACK of GOD in these marriages. So many people are getting married for all the wrong reasons. Like, just because you have a child(ren) with a person does not mean that they were meant to be your mate. Also, not waiting on GOD to send the rightful mate. Not keeping GOD first in the marriage. Getting married because it's the latest "fad" just because other people are marrying. Not taking the time to get to thoroughly know their mate before marrying them. Lack of knowledge, wisdom and understanding of what a marrage is most of the key reasons why there are so many divorcees in this world. Then you have people who are emotionally and spiritually unavailable who are not trustworthy, lack of self control and irresponsible. Marriage IS a blessing from GOD when it is ordained by HIM. And what GOD don't put together, HE won't keep together. I could go on and on. GOD loves us and why would he ordained something that will hurt us. It's sad so many people are under the influence of Satan. Satan is the liar, not GOD.

I think the rate at which people get married EARLY nowadays is the problem. haha! Marriage na beans?

What I meant by "EARLY" is --- the couples don't care about knowing each other VERY WELL anymore. It's all about getting married and buying Aso-Ebi!

And the way teenagers get married these days too is baffling, asif marriage na yam.

Ultimately, this kinds if marraiges won't last----