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Re: My Girlfriend Wouldn't Detach From Her Siblings. A Bad Sign? by LienwaltAbel(m): 3:56am On Jul 06, 2021 |
Let us all sit and imagine for a moment this was the other way round, the man would have rushed here to talk about how his wife wants to cut his family off. Is it that the men on nairaland love nagging more than pregnant women or what? 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Wouldn't Detach From Her Siblings. A Bad Sign? by harmony75: 4:18am On Jul 06, 2021 |
I don't think she's ready to settle down yet with her statements if you can't handle it go your ways hope it will not be too late for her |
Re: My Girlfriend Wouldn't Detach From Her Siblings. A Bad Sign? by meobizy(f): 4:32am On Jul 06, 2021 |
She is not your wife. Keep your thoughts to yourself. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Wouldn't Detach From Her Siblings. A Bad Sign? by Fuckyoumod: 5:24am On Jul 06, 2021 |
bigpicture001:guy, that's how daft people respond to important issues. Don't mind that foolish post! They just jump and conclude nonsense. My brother, for your own good leave that girl. I know men suffering it today, when a woman gets married her attention switches to her husband and children, her number one priority becomes how to build her own home with her husband and raise her kids, while also carrying her siblings, father and mother along. But when her siblings comes first, then her husband and kids comes second, I pity her husband. You won't understand it now, until when you become her husband. You will be building your home alone without a helper (wife). All her resources and attention will be channelled to her siblings. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Wouldn't Detach From Her Siblings. A Bad Sign? by osazsky(m): 5:33am On Jul 06, 2021 |
OP u have no moral right to discuss or make decision on this matter she is just your friend...not wife when nigerians go get sense..I will give u my reply like 7 years time when u are married and ur wife start having children...cuz by then u will be the one forcing her to call her siblings..all women ..mothers have been programmed just continue with ur boyfriend and girlfriend matter 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Wouldn't Detach From Her Siblings. A Bad Sign? by Fuckyoumod: 5:37am On Jul 06, 2021 |
Nwodosis:you are a daft person. What a nonsense response! You don't know anything about marriage or family bond. You are the type that would milk your sisters and brothers married or unmarried dry. Marriage is bigger than that useless family bond of yours. A family bond that does not respect marriage is nonsense. Now let me tutor you, so you don't go about breaking peoples marriages, when a lady is married, her husband and children becomes her number priority! She starts building her own home. This is how God has planned marriage. That does not mean her siblings father and mother are number two priority, No, rather she must find a way to reach out to them and carry them along as family too. It is optional dear, when you eventually get married, please follow my advice to avoid divorce. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Wouldn't Detach From Her Siblings. A Bad Sign? by OrdinaryNigeria(m): 5:39am On Jul 06, 2021 |
bigpicture001: U never see sickness. Wife wil run leave u. Family will gather ur ass bc they ve nowherr to run. U are just seeing this from ur angle. That lady will build good bond btw ur children and u. I divorced my wife for standing between me and my poor family members. We pass tru alot but they never left me til I stabilized 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Wouldn't Detach From Her Siblings. A Bad Sign? by osazsky(m): 5:45am On Jul 06, 2021 |
bigpicture001:oga go and sit down u have no moral right to discuss on this matter..for now u are only her friend...we all stayed with different babes in hospital during our university days.we nor marry any one..if u have not done this u nor be guy..I will answer you in 8 years time when u are married..for now continue with ur boyfriend and girlfriend..she may even have other plans u are not seeing now nor be woman 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Wouldn't Detach From Her Siblings. A Bad Sign? by Fuckyoumod: 5:50am On Jul 06, 2021 |
bigpicture001:you have already crossed the line! If I knew you were a terrible simp I wouldn't have responded earlier. You have already out performed more legally married men in terms of commitments and responsibilities and you are just an ordinary boyfriend. Damn! You crossed the line! The rule is don't investment so much on a girlfriend. Everything done for a girlfriend that does not translate to a wife is called WASTAGE. |
Re: My Girlfriend Wouldn't Detach From Her Siblings. A Bad Sign? by Rubbiish(m): 6:25am On Jul 06, 2021 |
bigpicture001:You are very petty for man! This complains should be coming from your girlfriend, not u the man! Very shameful! Better leave that girl alone & let her meet a more reasonable person, before u ruin her life with your pettiness! 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Wouldn't Detach From Her Siblings. A Bad Sign? by Nobody: 6:29am On Jul 06, 2021 |
bigpicture001:i think u lack wisdom. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Wouldn't Detach From Her Siblings. A Bad Sign? by Babastrong(m): 6:35am On Jul 06, 2021 |
Now you know the kind of wife she's gonna be. You can decide to marry or leave her for better dude out there. Adult with childish brain. |
Re: My Girlfriend Wouldn't Detach From Her Siblings. A Bad Sign? by Chuka200: 6:38am On Jul 06, 2021 |
mariahAngel:Lol how r u |
Re: My Girlfriend Wouldn't Detach From Her Siblings. A Bad Sign? by Nwodosis(m): 6:43am On Jul 06, 2021 |
Fuckyoumod:Are they married? 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Wouldn't Detach From Her Siblings. A Bad Sign? by JohnOkolo: 6:48am On Jul 06, 2021 |
bigpicture001: Get out if you can't respect her emotional connection. You said she and her siblings were orphans and yet don't want her to feel too attached to them. We're your family members orphans or stayed with different relatives? If you did you would understand what it is to have a family. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Wouldn't Detach From Her Siblings. A Bad Sign? by Nobody: 6:53am On Jul 06, 2021 |
OP, you are a very selfish person. What's your business with her attachment with her family? You expect her to cut ties with them over your dick or what? Omo face your role and leave the rest! As an orphan you don't know what they went through and the sacrifices they made for each other to be where they are today, I bet if she turned out to be a bread or akara seller in the street you won't notice her. 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Wouldn't Detach From Her Siblings. A Bad Sign? by VTJN(m): 6:58am On Jul 06, 2021 |
bigpicture001:You don't deserve that lady.. how on earth do you expect her not to love and cherish her family? I'm not surprised by your actions though, it's a typical African man's mentality She knows them first before knowing you I wish that lady can drop your ass off, with this your materialistic mentality about family's love 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Wouldn't Detach From Her Siblings. A Bad Sign? by sanpipita(m): 7:02am On Jul 06, 2021 |
Lol seems this guy is possessive and jealous, nothing wrong but you need to understand why she's like that, already you say she is an orphan the attachment could have been out of life situations they have faced as orphans. It can change really just don't force her or make her feel bad about it, keep a good and steady relationship with her. |
Re: My Girlfriend Wouldn't Detach From Her Siblings. A Bad Sign? by VTJN(m): 7:03am On Jul 06, 2021 |
Nbotee:My elder sister is a victim of this The useless man took her far away from us, and my senseless sister accepted because of non existing |
Re: My Girlfriend Wouldn't Detach From Her Siblings. A Bad Sign? by VTJN(m): 7:08am On Jul 06, 2021 |
bigpicture001:Guy you are wrong Her family will sacrifice and take a bigger risk much more than you You talk as if we are all dumb.. You are absolutely wrong with that statements 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Wouldn't Detach From Her Siblings. A Bad Sign? by Ovamboland(m): 7:11am On Jul 06, 2021 |
Nbotee: He's already calculating the brothers salary and how much he must give his sister for a trip. The girlfriend who must have told him the salary is not even so bothered but the boyfriend who is not earning the 600k is bothered on her behalf. If the girl reads this, she better run away from this guy, he's a mere price tag 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Wouldn't Detach From Her Siblings. A Bad Sign? by VTJN(m): 7:11am On Jul 06, 2021 |
Kondomatic:i swear to God I wish I'm a witch, i will scatter the stupid relationship instanta |
Re: My Girlfriend Wouldn't Detach From Her Siblings. A Bad Sign? by VTJN(m): 7:18am On Jul 06, 2021 |
lyndaway:i swear down The guy dey annoy me Instead of him to support and show her much more love 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Wouldn't Detach From Her Siblings. A Bad Sign? by VTJN(m): 7:23am On Jul 06, 2021 |
plaetton:The guy no be good person He was even saying if things goes south he will be the one to stand by her not her family The guy forget the adage Family over everything 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Wouldn't Detach From Her Siblings. A Bad Sign? by friendl: 7:25am On Jul 06, 2021 |
Leave her ,she never get sense |
Re: My Girlfriend Wouldn't Detach From Her Siblings. A Bad Sign? by VTJN(m): 7:29am On Jul 06, 2021 |
DonBenny77:look at you You place family's love on materials things Even if they didn't give her a dime and she still chose to love her family deeply then let it be Her mentality for love for family differ from una type of material love for family 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Wouldn't Detach From Her Siblings. A Bad Sign? by VTJN(m): 7:33am On Jul 06, 2021 |
wirinet:ok e right to place husband/wife over family? |
Re: My Girlfriend Wouldn't Detach From Her Siblings. A Bad Sign? by Chris525: 7:38am On Jul 06, 2021 |
Guy, ignore the bashings here. No matter how important her family is to her she never should say they’ll forever be more important than her hubby or kids. Free her. |
Re: My Girlfriend Wouldn't Detach From Her Siblings. A Bad Sign? by VTJN(m): 7:40am On Jul 06, 2021 |
wirinet:that is how they start He will take the girl out of her family reach Na from clap dance take dey start I love the girl for the genuine love she had for her family 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Wouldn't Detach From Her Siblings. A Bad Sign? by NoToPile: 7:43am On Jul 06, 2021 |
LienwaltAbel: Same thing I have been wondering and he is even a boyfriend, he didnt even manage to say fiance, that makes the situation worse. He is even calculating the salary one of the girls siblings earn, his mouth like he's earning 600k and only gave her 15k. I just tire for the guy. I would be very careful with someone like him. And then the boys that are preaching 'when are woman marries attention is shifted to immediate family' should preach it for the guys too. It goes both ways that's how it should be. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Wouldn't Detach From Her Siblings. A Bad Sign? by VTJN(m): 7:46am On Jul 06, 2021 |
jaxxy:The Guy don't deserve that good girl He thought family love is determined by material things 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Wouldn't Detach From Her Siblings. A Bad Sign? by chris51(f): 7:50am On Jul 06, 2021 |
You are a characterless human being. Why do you want your girlfriend to detach herself from her family? It means you have an ulterior motive. That girl doesn't deserve an inhuman person like you. If her brother gave her N15k as transport for NYSC, what stopped you from topping it up? Selfish human being, you are. 1 Like |
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