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My Husband Has Banned My Mother From Visiting Us-please Advise by Holuwatosyinele: 8:51am On Jul 05, 2021
I am in serious soup. My husband and I have an issue. This issue is with his mother. His mother wants to control our marriage and our lives. It started when I had my first child. The mother insisted that she will be the one to come and help with the baby when I give birth. I said no that I want my mother to come but my husband insisted its their culture for the husband’s mother to come for omugwo.


We argued about it but eventually the mother came. I had friction with her all through her stay. She decides what to do with the baby same way she decides what happens in my marriage. So, since then, its been difficult to communicate with her and in turn, this causes problems between me and my husband.

My mother inlaw stayed six months after I had my baby. It was by fire by fire that she eventually left. When my baby was 14 months old, I discovered I was pregnant again. I panicked thinking, that means, my mother in-law will soon come again. So, I called my mom and we both planned that I will come and stay with her like a month before I give birth, so that I will be with her and my mother in-law will have no need to come.

So, I went to my mom’s place. My husband was not happy with my mother when he realized what she planned with me. We kept on quarrelling all through even when he called on phone, we would be arguing cos he felt deceived.

I moved in with my mother who is remarried cos I lost my dad when I was 15. My step dad’s younger brother (Victor) was around but my half siblings who are in University were not around when I returned to my mom’s place. Victor is a soldier on vacation cos he is based abroad. We used to get along and gist about you know war and other things. He was my companion anytime my mom went to work cos she will leave me at home…

That was when the devil started to tempt me. Victor is very western, I followed with him quite easily. He gists very freely with me to the extent that I confided in him some of the marital issues I was having. When I told him how my husband hardly has s*x with me cos of the issues we have, he talked to me about self pleasuring which he said he will help me get s8x toys and other things that enhance self s8xual pleasure.


As promised, he ordered for them and gave them to me. I didn’t know how to use them, so he had to show me how. Even as I was close to delivering my baby, I began to experience s8xual pleasure that I did not experience since I got married. My hormones did not help matter. I became very Hot the more I used a vibrator.

Then one day, Victor (my step brother’s younger brother) asked me for the feedback on how I am using the toys he got me. I told him it makes me very Hot all the time for the real thing. This guy laughed and said he can help if I want. I told him god forbid o. We laughed it off. Just a week before I go back, I was in my room alone, my mom and her husband had gone out. The house was quiet and I actually thought I was alone.



I got out the vibrator and began to pleasure myself. I was moaning so loud in a few minutes. I did not notice that Victor had come inside and was watching me. My eyes were closed and just as I was about to come, Victor removed the vibrator from my hands and inserted his d*ck. I was shocked but I couldn’t control my body. I was shaking and very afraid.

Victor was mad cos I couldn’t control him or myself. I am ashamed as I remember how another man took me and made my cum like 3 times in my mother’s house. I was so ashamed and upset that I told him to get out. He begged me and asked for my forgiveness. That if anyone heard what he did, he might be withdrawn from the army or disciplined. I told him no problem but that he should avoid me going forward.

A few days before I gave birth, my husband and I had an argument on the phone. It was so heated that I was shouting. Victor came and asked me if everything was ok. I began to cry cos I was really upset and vulnerable. Before I knew it, Victor was comforting me and I kissing him. You know what happened after that. The s8x was so intense that I went into labor immediately.

Victor rushed me to the hospital before my mother could arrive. I went straight into the theater and my baby boy was born in less than two hours. I stayed back in my mom’s place for another three months before I went back to my husband’s house. Victor of course had gone back to base. I wont lie. I have been consumed by guilt of what happened with me and Victor but I swore it will not happen again…over my dead body.

But four months later, I started getting text messages from Victor. He misses me and says he cant forget the memories of us together. Instead of me to block his no, I read his messages and masturbated to them before deleting them. At least, its not like the real thing, I told myself. Well, God punished me by exposing me: one day, my first child was playing with my phone and watching cartoon.

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Re: My Husband Has Banned My Mother From Visiting Us-please Advise by Nbotee(m): 9:00am On Jul 05, 2021
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Re: My Husband Has Banned My Mother From Visiting Us-please Advise by Skyfornia(m): 9:06am On Jul 05, 2021
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Re: My Husband Has Banned My Mother From Visiting Us-please Advise by nokspos: 9:06am On Jul 05, 2021
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Re: My Husband Has Banned My Mother From Visiting Us-please Advise by Kaybae(f): 11:19am On Jul 05, 2021
If this is real then you are a big disgrace and God will punish you as you have said. Rubbish
Re: My Husband Has Banned My Mother From Visiting Us-please Advise by Fatherofdragons: 2:20pm On Jul 05, 2021
Divorce your husband and marry victor.

A man that is not understanding and can't satisfy his wife is worse than buhari.

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Re: My Husband Has Banned My Mother From Visiting Us-please Advise by VEXT: 2:28pm On Jul 05, 2021
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