Mightyodi:
There's this girl I have been dating for 3years plus. She lives in a different state from mine. I have gone to see the father, this first time she dissappointed me and said she wants the relationship called off. Her reasons then was that she went to see a prophet as me and another guy were asking her hand in marriage, and the prophet instructed her to pick the other guy and not me, but she loved me more. I remembered she was crying then deeply while calling it off. I didn't relent coz I felt something prompt her to make such decision when we had no record of quarrel. We reconciled. A year later, she broke up with me, that she want to marry another guy, then a week later she came back apologizing that she was sorry, now again she has been acting strange. I am planning to pay her dowry this year latest November. I asked again, has another person come for your hand in marriage this own that you have started acting strangely, and she said yes and those not know how to tell me let's end the relationship. Finally, I said she should go with her heart if she don't want me. I ended the conversation that day, owing to the fact she is crossing the line again. Two days later, she sent a message that I should find a place in my heart to forgive her.

It's exactly two weeks now we haven't communicate. She doesn't know I have money for her dowry. Though she has some good character but her choosing other people over me got me some concern. I am thinking it's because those people make have money than me. I still want her back if she's willing.

The question is should I still call her and have some conversation for her to have a rethink, and if she is hell bent to go for the other guy, then I should look elsewhere or I should not call her again and just look elsewhere. Remember, I said I would have loved to have her back

Carchoice:
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“You are a mumu man”

Go and use that dowry money to drink goat pepper soup and two big stout.

Clinghton:
If you eventually marry her the name of your marriage would CONFUSION

Mightyodi:
There's this girl I have been dating for 3years plus. She lives in a different state from mine. I have gone to see the father, this first time she dissappointed me and said she wants the relationship called off. Her reasons then was that she went to see a prophet as me and another guy were asking her hand in marriage, and the prophet instructed her to pick the other guy and not me, but she loved me more. I remembered she was crying then deeply while calling it off. I didn't relent coz I felt something prompt her to make such decision when we had no record of quarrel. We reconciled. A year later, she broke up with me, that she want to marry another guy, then a week later she came back apologizing that she was sorry, now again she has been acting strange. I am planning to pay her dowry this year latest November. I asked again, has another person come for your hand in marriage this own that you have started acting strangely, and she said yes and those not know how to tell me let's end the relationship. Finally, I said she should go with her heart if she don't want me. I ended the conversation that day, owing to the fact she is crossing the line again. Two days later, she sent a message that I should find a place in my heart to forgive her.

It's exactly two weeks now we haven't communicate. She doesn't know I have money for her dowry. Though she has some good character but her choosing other people over me got me some concern. I am thinking it's because those people make have money than me. I still want her back if she's willing.

The question is should I still call her and have some conversation for her to have a rethink, and if she is hell bent to go for the other guy, then I should look elsewhere or I should not call her again and just look elsewhere. Remember, I said I would have loved to have her back

Romanoff:
Her reason is not because of a red flag that you have but because you have a competition.

Instead of prayerfully making a choice, she's depending on a prophet to do it for her.

Oga, you're the only one that knows what you see in that woman, it you're willing to sit and wait for her to make up her mind, all the best.

If you feel there's a deeper reason she's saying no, you can have a talk with her to find out why.

3 years is a long time for a woman to be acting indecisive about a man that is ready to propose to her.

It will help if you even tell us her age.

Make we know if na small pikin dey worry her.

Mightyodi:



She's 28 years this year.

Spider20:
OH GOD HOW CAN I UNREAD THESE RUBBISH POST