Hello fellow Nairalanders,
There's this girl I really like. She's my spec and we just clicked and became good friends.
I actually met her at an event and we exchanged numbers.
I did all the necessary follow ups and we connected.
We have gone swimming, outings and I have invited her over to my place like three times.
We have great conversations, kisses and all that, but no sex.

She called me recently and told me I need to leave her alone because she is Fickle minded.

I went through the internet to research more about fickle minded people.

According to vocabulary.com, People who are fickle change their minds so much you can't rely on them. If your best friend suddenly decides that she doesn't like you one week, and then the next week she wants to hang out again, she's being fickle.
Fickle comes from the Old English word ficol, for deceitful. We usually use fickle to talk about people, but it can also be used for abstract things that alternately favor you and abuse you, like the weather. If you win the lottery and then lose everything else in the world that's important to you, fate is being fickle.


I am now confused. Should I persuade her because I want her to be my girlfriend.
I am not a Simp and I don't want to be all around her if she is truly fickle minded.

Help a bro.
Your comments are highly anticipated.

©Omicron007

Bruh, don't waste your time. Dont call her, don't think of her, Change your mind before she does.

Bros ,she has a mental disorder that only money can cure . Get rich and you will see how her symptoms will change. Peace

falcon01:
Bruh, don't waste your time. Dont call her, don't think of her, Change your mind before she does.

It's difficult not to think of her!

Let's wait for the Elders to come while I grab my seat.

She's smart.

That's a tactics based on partner acceptance to trap you into rationalizing any potential changes in her because that vaginarian is keeping her options open.
She'd go cold on you when there's a healthier preek and be back like a stray dog when she's been dumped.

And SIMPle you will be like, 'oh... that's just her being fickle-minded'.

I blame you for making her fickle-minded, a lady visited you THRICE and you think she just came to watch Telemundo and gist?
The poor girl may have borrowed money to buy a shaving razor to mow her lawn yet you chose to kiss.

For making her shave in vain, she's concluded you are a limp horse and wouldn't want you clinging on since you still won't give her the good dicking she's needing.

Since you wanna be with her then there's only one solution, but it will only work if you are very good in bed.
Let her be fickle-minded, you be fvck-minded.

Do everything in your power to win her back,
Fvck her first then watch her fickleness fizzle away and once she starts yearning for you, become fickle-fvck-minded and treat her like a sorry sex option.

If she complains, tell her it's her fault. She sexually transmitted that stupidity to you.

But the above won't work so well if she's a ho.
In that case, alaye just forget kpekus and go make money.

Your heart really does not need such emotional parasite.
She's best a bed friend.

My brother don't disturb your head too much... What that word mean in the real sense is "she's mad"

falcon01:
Bruh, don't waste your time. Dont call her, don't think of her, Change your mind before she does.

Sorry no be you I be want quote, nah that guy below .

Ammishaddai:
Bros ,she has a mental disorder that only money can cure . Get rich and you will see how her symptoms will change. Peace

OP this man has said it all .

Just take a look at this post and decide

Ammishaddai:
Bros ,she has a mental disorder that only money can cure . Get rich and you will see how her symptoms will change. Peace

I'm happy few niggas here don dey reason like OG

Find another girl who is decisive.

She has already told you she is a cross-carpet democrat yet you want to hear from us to convince you to stay with her.


How old is this juju na.

Interesting gist...

How come you are not a simp?

Omicron007:


It's difficult not to think of her!

then suffer you shall

J

This one pass me, I’d learn while the og’s give Us update.

Fickle minded. Another one.

The ball is in your court

But yours truly can't date someone who's always shifting the goal post.

lol Dating now comes with manual.....

oga dem don give u terms nd condition b that if you wish to proceed click on I Agree....

Alaye go and make money and more money and forget this love in Tokyo

Damnnn niggar
Isoright .....
Ogbeni be acting like a pussy asss niggarr
Be a real niggarrr And bang the hell out of her

NwaAmaikpe:

She's smart.

That's a tactics based on partner acceptance to trap you into rationalizing any potential changes in her because that vagainarian is keeping her options open.
She'd go cold on you when there's a healthier preek and be back like a stray dog when she's been dumped.

And SIMPle you will be like, 'oh... that's just her being fickle-minded'.

Since you wanna be with her then there's only one solution, but it will only work if you are very good in bed.
Let her be fickle-minded, you be fvck-minded.

Fvck her first then watch her fickleness fizzle away and once she starts yearning for you, become fickle-fvck-minded and treat her like a sorry sex option.

If she complains, tell her it's her fault. She sexually transmitted that stupidity to you.

Your heart really does not need such emotional parasite.
She's best a bed friend.

My niggar from another mother.....

Nwanne, ike gwuru.....

Just straff and go...that's what she's for, her Lifestyle. But u are trying to turn a gal for the street to your wife..lol
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Fickle kor.....that's just the code word for being a slut

She is simply playing a mind game on you. Jazz up, don't be a simp.


Kindly check my signature.


Happy Sunday

Ammishaddai:
Bros ,she has a mental disorder that only money can cure . Get rich and you will see how her symptoms will change. Peace

sure she has a bipolar. Disorder

You are just broke
Once you dey cash out big,fickle mind go pick race

You must be a simp,how can a champion of God's creation come online to ask such question when I am sure that girl is not even that fine with big boobs or ass?
It's until you give her money and her fickle mind tell her the next day to break up with you that ya eye go open

IF YOU WANT LOVE,GO TO SOUTH KOREA

Simplest stuff ever

Since she's easy to change her mind, make her change her mind about being fickle and make her decide to remain permanently firm minded.

Case solved

Now wey dem tell you, you no wan hear word.

Tomorrow, na you go come again say "I don't understand my girlfriend of 4 years anymore"