Hello everyone

Will try to be short and precise
There is this lady I met during my first days in school...she happens to be my course mate.. One thing lead to d other we started seeing ourselves... It was so intimate to d extent that almost everyone in d department knows bout us, if they gave her foodstuff from home she will share it to 2 and gv me part... I on d other side ve never loved someone like that...less i never Woo her but we both assume we dating ourselves

Fast forward.. After completing our national diploma we both went our way I go to sango while she to Lagos, I thought that will be d end of our relationship buh it only streghten it... She did her IT in a hospital, she will always call me with d hospital line every day for at least 2 hours daily.... This went on till we finish our IT...

The story changed wen we resumed for HND, I could remember vividly she told me wen we first resumed then that 'do u knw tino he is now using iPhone x' it happens to be d latest iPhone then, I just did like I no hear her that day, d next week she told me again dat d person don buy car.. Was just like weytin concern me...

I just notice she start ignoring me nd going with d big boys on campus... I actually do feel bad buh I just dey use scope move on... We continue like dat for a whole section.. She barely reply my chat ,pick my call bla bla boa...

During those time I came across a lady, wooed her nd we become lovers... Buh am someone that don't really post on social media so she no too knw

Less I forget I happen to be a distinction candidate.. So during d next exam she came begging me to teach her some accounting stuff, so we came back..

Wot I I actually have on my mind was that since I no kuku Woo her d first time.. Buh most time she do post on her status all this stuff single ladies do post...

so wen we actually got chance to talk wella it was actually n a area where there are many yahoo boys so I just wyne her like u will have seen many husband nd toasters here na kuku picture perfect u dey find... She just replied me dat na person wey she go start her life with she dey find

There was this exam we got that it was very difficult nd even d lecturer seff wicked, we dey HND 2 no one can take chances so she came to my house... Got many frds there... My frds was now teasing her dat we don get another wife since u refuse to date us nd so... She nearly cried wen my frds left and ask me if it was true Buh I denied sha...

Tho I love her kinda more Dan this current girl Buh I Dnt really want her cos someone that can leave me for Yahoo boys

So lately I posted my bbes picture nd I wrote my addiction as d caption na so d wahala start... She first reply d pics like I taught as much nd d next thing she blocked me...

I tried calling her line nd she block me immediately...

Then I message her second line that she z just a cousin nd she unblock me telling me sorry



Now am confused Dnt really knw wat to do, she doesn't want to date me somehow and she still Dnt want me to date other girls..

What can I do??

First of you both are confused
Secondly you're more confused, you've seen all the signs and she even mentioned settling down.
She's just using you to keep body and soul till she finds someone better.

You didn't mentioned if you've had the honeypot, is there something you're not telling us?

please concentrate on your studies first.

Thobie85:
Hello everyone

Will try to be short and precise
There is this lady I met during my first days in school...she happens to be my course mate.. One thing lead to d other we started seeing ourselves... It was so intimate to d extent that almost everyone in d department knows bout us, if they gave her foodstuff from home she will share it to 2 and gv me part... I on d other side ve never loved someone like that...less i never Woo her but we both assume we dating ourselves

Fast forward.. After completing our national diploma we both went our way I go to sango while she to Lagos, I thought that will be d end of our relationship buh it only streghten it... She did her IT in a hospital, she will always call me with d hospital line every day for at least 2 hours daily.... This went on till we finish our IT...

The story changed wen we resumed for HND, I could remember vividly she told me wen we first resumed then that 'do u knw tino he is now using iPhone x' it happens to be d latest iPhone then, I just did like I no hear her that day, d next week she told me again dat d person don buy car.. Was just like weytin concern me...

I just notice she start ignoring me nd going with d big boys on campus... I actually do feel bad buh I just dey use scope move on... We continue like dat for a whole section.. She barely reply my chat ,pick my call bla bla boa...

During those time I came across a lady, wooed her nd we become lovers... Buh am someone that don't really post on social media so she no too knw

Less I forget I happen to be a distinction candidate.. So during d next exam she came begging me to teach her some accounting stuff, so we came back..

Wot I I actually have on my mind was that since I no kuku Woo her d first time.. Buh most time she do post on her status all this stuff single ladies do post...

so wen we actually got chance to talk wella it was actually n a area where there are many yahoo boys so I just wyne her like u will have seen many husband nd toasters here na kuku picture perfect u dey find... She just replied me dat na person wey she go start her life with she dey find

There was this exam we got that it was very difficult nd even d lecturer seff wicked, we dey HND 2 no one can take chances so she came to my house... Got many frds there... My frds was now teasing her dat we don get another wife since u refuse to date us nd so... She nearly cried wen my frds left and ask me if it was true Buh I denied sha...

Tho I love her kinda more Dan this current girl Buh I Dnt really want her cos someone that can leave me for Yahoo boys

So lately I posted my bbes picture nd I wrote my addiction as d caption na so d wahala start... She first reply d pics like I taught as much nd d next thing she blocked me...

I tried calling her line nd she block me immediately...

Then I message her second line that she z just a cousin nd she unblock me telling me sorry



Now am confused Dnt really knw wat to do, she doesn't want to date me somehow and she still Dnt want me to date other girls..

What can I do??

You yourself dey confuse and you want us to advice you.

Try finish school first then we go know wetin to talk

Like seriously,I'm already fed up with threads like this...Una bo wor get sense abi na wetin dey xu

aanuoluwami14:
please concentrate on your studies first.

And foremost

Thobie85:
Hello everyone

Will try to be short and precise
There is this lady I met during my first days in school...she happens to be my course mate.. One thing lead to d other we started seeing ourselves... It was so intimate to d extent that almost everyone in d department knows bout us, if they gave her foodstuff from home she will share it to 2 and gv me part... I on d other side ve never loved someone like that...less i never Woo her but we both assume we dating ourselves

Fast forward.. After completing our national diploma we both went our way I go to sango while she to Lagos, I thought that will be d end of our relationship buh it only streghten it... She did her IT in a hospital, she will always call me with d hospital line every day for at least 2 hours daily.... This went on till we finish our IT...

The story changed wen we resumed for HND, I could remember vividly she told me wen we first resumed then that 'do u knw tino he is now using iPhone x' it happens to be d latest iPhone then, I just did like I no hear her that day, d next week she told me again dat d person don buy car.. Was just like weytin concern me...

I just notice she start ignoring me nd going with d big boys on campus... I actually do feel bad buh I just dey use scope move on... We continue like dat for a whole section.. She barely reply my chat ,pick my call bla bla boa...

During those time I came across a lady, wooed her nd we become lovers... Buh am someone that don't really post on social media so she no too knw

Less I forget I happen to be a distinction candidate.. So during d next exam she came begging me to teach her some accounting stuff, so we came back..

Wot I I actually have on my mind was that since I no kuku Woo her d first time.. Buh most time she do post on her status all this stuff single ladies do post...

so wen we actually got chance to talk wella it was actually n a area where there are many yahoo boys so I just wyne her like u will have seen many husband nd toasters here na kuku picture perfect u dey find... She just replied me dat na person wey she go start her life with she dey find

There was this exam we got that it was very difficult nd even d lecturer seff wicked, we dey HND 2 no one can take chances so she came to my house... Got many frds there... My frds was now teasing her dat we don get another wife since u refuse to date us nd so... She nearly cried wen my frds left and ask me if it was true Buh I denied sha...

Tho I love her kinda more Dan this current girl Buh I Dnt really want her cos someone that can leave me for Yahoo boys

So lately I posted my bbes picture nd I wrote my addiction as d caption na so d wahala start... She first reply d pics like I taught as much nd d next thing she blocked me...

I tried calling her line nd she block me immediately...

Then I message her second line that she z just a cousin nd she unblock me telling me sorry



Now am confused Dnt really knw wat to do, she doesn't want to date me somehow and she still Dnt want me to date other girls..

how do I get rid of her
What can I do??

By killing her and running away to Paraguay.

After reading this I'm still confused because you said you happen to be a distinction candidate ....ajeh u no do Gns 101 for school

I think there should be a compulsory course in year one.. Common sense (CS101)..
Many students lack it..

Guy, you don chop kpekus? Clear us make we know how to advise you o.. But to be candid, forget woman matter... No babe is worth this confusion.

Go to her Hostel or Place beg her
Make sure you shed a lot of tears as you kneel bro

Let her know she is the air you breathe
Your soulmate from heaven

Lol.. this OP no well o.. you no get money and you dey cheat.. how you wan take live long na

AutoChick4U:
You are a very stupid man.... No cap

You can give reasons for saying that.Many of us can even learn.

Typing only an insult feels like you're the girl in question.