To start with , do your spouse know how much your salary is at the end of the month..

Would you tell her if their is an increment and how much is added??

Well! To me I wouldn't let her know if their is increment because I can't let someone finish the salary for me before I received , last last she will still be the one that take most share...

Maybe I acted wrongly , need your reasons.

It's up to you. Then again it depends largely on the kind of person your spouse is. If she's the leechy type, you know what to do.. if shes the prudent type, you know what to do.

As for me, I'm not usually after or particular about someones income because im not ready to disclose mine. So long as you carry out your financial responsibilities as at when due, no qualms.


Yey!!!
First to comment on a financial increment post.

I dedicate this FTC to my finances. More increase to and in my finances in Jesus name.
Amen!!!!!!

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Normally,if na home wey love dey,that one no suppose to be issue because na good news be that.....
But if na home wey love no dey,just know say if you mistakenly make that mistake,na from that day you use your own hand dig your own grave

Sure! I don't pray I should marry liability or enemy of progress,. He MUST know, we are no more two but one. After God na him

It's nobody's business.

Omo no na..

Make she no come dey calculate my spendings..

It depend on the kind of spouse.

There is
I need 50k to retouch my hair spouse.
And Baby lets invest this money spouse.


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Na only mumu aka Simps dey marry liability

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Her attitudes and demand frequency upon knowledge of my previous salary would determine whether or not to inform her.
If she's isn't demanding, I would immediately share the good news, if she's demanding then I will keep it to myself.

She knows my current and will always know the future.

No

Yes I will.
It's not a big deal

Uche face your work o

As a business man, I don't even tell myself how much I own, e come be spouse.

Maka lackluster spending

No, not even the current one

Damn niggar....over to you

Damnnn niggar
Isoright

No way I'm letting her know, money magnifies problem,na we be your best plug for everything sexual enhancement

hear to read and learn

If she is a Trustworthy and financial Supporting Wife, You should!
The role of A Good Wife in a man's development cannot be Overemphasized

But If she is a Leech, ever demanding Wife, DO NOT TRY IT!
Even if such a Wife discovers, Lock up and Give her any Flimsy Excuse for ur Action!

My wife too like money, she will increase her demand more than the increment.
I have been out of job due to the impact of Covid 19, because I knew I worked in a private sector with no guaranteed job security I didn't inform her of the salary upgrade, I just started a gradual phased increase in luxury at home without raising suspicion of extra income.

When the company owners downsized I was affected but the impact was not felt much at home for the period I was searching for what else to do, I saved the increment for the rainy day which helped in maintaining stability at home.

Imagine if I had informed her, she would insist that I spend it on changing school for the kids as she has been planning, send more money to relations etc and then when I was relieved from my job katakata for don burst, perhaps I would have come to Nairaland to seek for advice on what to do and begging Lala to move it to front page for the elders to comment on how I can pay my kids school fees or withdraw them to another school.

It all depends on how well you know your spouse, if he/she is the considerate type that won't put pressure on you because of increment then you have to open up, but if you live with the opposite just respect yourself to have peace of mind at home and continue with your responsibilities responsibly with the salary he/she knows until the atmosphere is conducive to share the information

I do, cuz sometimes you need advice from a partner. It depends on the spouse though

Maybe

Ideally your spouse should know all about your salary + any increments. But there are exceptions in certain cases.

I think everything depends on the strength of the relationship. Like the one i have presently i won't ooo. I no dey for trouble, make i sell my power banks jeje

ibrutex:
To start with , do your spouse know how much your salary is at the end of the month..

Would you tell her if their is an increment and how much is added??

Well! To me I wouldn't let her know if their is increment because I can't let someone finish the salary for me before I received , last last she will still be the one that take most share...

Maybe I acted wrongly , need your reasons.

marriage is about love
you should tell her
being open to your spouse is part of love

Depending on the kind of wife you have....
Some wives are chop and chop without thinking of tomorrow...If you have that kind of wife wisdom demands that as a man that you withold such information for your sanity sake...

But If you have my type of wife, a loving and caring woman, even more frugal than me, then you can download all your financial information to her....Infact she will help you manage it well....

Let me give you my scope






If I got increments I will inform her! But with not the right figure...