I'm a last born

Hehehehe
We're just too awesome

Mercychen:
Last borns are always so stubborn.

Our last born ( of blessed memory) was over pampared and spoilt. As in.. you can't touch her. My parents will come for your head.
Even if she hits you first, they'll still take sides with her.

If she's angry, she can throw a knife at you and my parents will still not see anything wrong in it.

It's so unfortunate we lost her. . After we
We lost mumsy, the shock was too much for her. She couldn't cope without mumsy.

So sorry.

Painful to read.

jubrilELsudan:
IF I SHARE MY OWN NAIRALAND WILL BURN AND NEVER BE THE SAME AGAIN.

lol

starbuck:
I am a last born...
My siblings dey do me shege since mom died in order to get back to all the ills i did to them but believe me, the only thing they can't trash out from me is the inbuilt laziness i had while growing up ..

Most times, dad comes to my rescue..

Ah you are lucky not bro be my younger one. I would have showed you eehhh. I will have released your laziness. In fact you will be so hardworking that even me will be begging you to calm down.

Did you believe our last born is just getting home lately tonight, went to play GAME outside!
He’s just 17, I had to go out by 10:30 to go check where he actually went to, because he left his phone inside...
That guy na GIRAN

Rejam:
Hi good people of nairaland
Please have mercy on me I truly need your help . I am Celestine from awgu,LgA . Enugu State
this is what I have been going through for the past 13 yrs,how I wish my spinal chord injury didn't affect my upper limps I would have been more independent on my own but right now I depends on people for some task.like disposal of my urine and poo I do on bed and other stuf.

Having persistent pains and pressure sore and spasm, there was no form of treatment for me.
Providing our daily needs has been proving very difficulty for us.the suffering my mother is passing through saddened my soul . she is a BP and diabetic patient for long
Please come to our aid I need your financial help to enable me go for medical. no matter how little it help us get medication and food and other basic nessesary health care need s
This video below is how I used to come down from the mountain side I stayed all this year indoor . whenever there is emergency or need for me to go out
For confirmation of my condition and other details you can reach me on the phone no on the picture


Location; Nkpor Anambra State.i am available for physical verifications thanks.

Please also beware of my the criminal Anthony okeke using my old video that I didn't mention my name to be scam unsuspecting people.

I don't hid myself.may Almighty God In Heaven never forgive me if I am not the person on those pictures and videos or if I lied about my condition.may God send this my condition back to he that is imperlsonating on this forum which ever moniker he is hiding may God pay back in full.

Chaaai. See scammer oooo.

zyzywizzy:
Did you believe our last born is just getting home lately tonight, went to play GAME outside!
He’s just 17, I had to go out by 10:30 to go check where he actually went to, because he left his phone inside...
That guy na GIRAN

Hope he doesn't go and not come back someday. I advise you train him with iron hand. He's a teenager. He might fall on the wrong hands.

PuZZyNegro:


It is always like this. Parents especially mothers don't joke with the child of their old age (Gen 37:3).

I was loved by my mother just like your mother loved your last born and I loved my mother so dearly as well.

What happened to your sister could have happened to me if I had lost my mother at a much younger age. Would you mind to share how old your sister was when your mum died?

Even losing her in my mid twenties didn't make the shock much less critical to me. In fact, when she died, I felt like joining her or more like escorting her to the land of the dead if it was possible.

Till date, life is meaningless to me as I believe nobody will ever give me that unconditional love like my mother and everything I have always done was to make my mother happy.

With the money coming in and not able to spend it on her makes me see the true meaning of vanity that life is, knowing all the sacrifices she made for me. Like, she may not have 3k to give my siblings but will suddenly have 10k to give me when I ask. I was the only person that I attended boarding school that my school fees were times 5 of what my siblings pay in their day school.

May God rest your sister's soul

My advice to people is to not jealous last borns. We have special grace

Always handsome/beautiful, intelligent, tall and get the opportunities other siblings never had. We leverage on the mistakes of older siblings and make better alternative choices

I felt more like I was the one writing this...
More also with the fact that we lost our mum in our mid twenties. It's well.
The bond and love my mum and I shared is still second to none till date.

The feeling of not having her around to spend the money on, makes it more sicker.

May her soul continue to rest in peace!

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My own experience is dating last born daughters....

They can be stubborn for africa ehnnn...

When you dating then along the line they kinda put it out they are last born, the atmosphere kinda changes.

You wanna take care of them well and tolerate their excess.... This happened to me twice when I realized I was dating last borns..... Don't know if it's general with men or maybe it was because I was like 6-5 years older.

They can be stubborn sha
But as a senior man you can't just help but to chillax your mind and overlook plenty plenty things

PuZZyNegro:


It is always like this. Parents especially mothers don't joke with the child of their old age (Gen 37:3).

I was loved by my mother just like your mother loved your last born and I loved my mother so dearly as well.

What happened to your sister could have happened to me if I had lost my mother at a much younger age. Would you mind to share how old your sister was when your mum died?

Even losing her in my mid twenties didn't make the shock much less critical to me. In fact, when she died, I felt like joining her or more like escorting her to the land of the dead if it was possible.

Till date, life is meaningless to me as I believe nobody will ever give me that unconditional love like my mother and everything I have always done was to make my mother happy.

With the money coming in and not able to spend it on her makes me see the true meaning of vanity that life is, knowing all the sacrifices she made for me. Like, she may not have 3k to give my siblings but will suddenly have 10k to give me when I ask. I was the only person that I attended boarding school that my school fees were times 5 of what my siblings pay in their day school.

May God rest your sister's soul

My advice to people is to not jealous last borns. We have special grace

Always handsome/beautiful, intelligent, tall and get the opportunities other siblings never had. We leverage on the mistakes of older siblings and make better alternative choices

LoL,my own na complete opposite
My own lastborn na curse,if I wasn't the last born,I would have achieved so much more in life. My mum focused all her attention on her other children and left me. And the other children only know how to use me and they waste precious amount of my time in life. Aa day will not go without me wishing I was not the lastsborn. The suffer no be small

And the worst thing na because,I no recieve shishi from them, lol. They have never never been there for me

chatinent:
I didn't really stay long with fam so I can't really tell.

Please share yours.

. Na every week I dey pay weekly upkeep money

PuZZyNegro:


It is always like this. Parents especially mothers don't joke with the child of their old age (Gen 37:3).

I was loved by my mother just like your mother loved your last born and I loved my mother so dearly as well.

What happened to your sister could have happened to me if I had lost my mother at a much younger age. Would you mind to share how old your sister was when your mum died?

Even losing her in my mid twenties didn't make the shock much less critical to me. In fact, when she died, I felt like joining her or more like escorting her to the land of the dead if it was possible.

Till date, life is meaningless to me as I believe nobody will ever give me that unconditional love like my mother and everything I have always done was to make my mother happy.

With the money coming in and not able to spend it on her makes me see the true meaning of vanity that life is, knowing all the sacrifices she made for me. Like, she may not have 3k to give my siblings but will suddenly have 10k to give me when I ask. I was the only person that I attended boarding school that my school fees were times 5 of what my siblings pay in their day school.

May God rest your sister's soul

My advice to people is to not jealous last borns. We have special grace

Always handsome/beautiful, intelligent, tall and get the opportunities other siblings never had. We leverage on the mistakes of older siblings and make better alternative choices

My co lat born.
God comfort you.
Like me as last born my mum never go anywhere without taking me along her same with my dad. Dow I lost him at age 12.which I do cry � anytime I remember him.
The bond are always to much with our parents. There was a time I left my parents and traveled my compound people said my dad do cry anytime he see's my friends. But dow I came back and leaved with them till I lost my best friend. Dad keep on resting
Pls older siblings make una no dy jealous for us.

Our last born is very lazy but there's nothing this guy can't do if he really want to work. He help me wire my flat and paint. He did all that alone.
When my sister husband build their house, he help them wire the house and do all connections. But if he's not in the mood, no amount of begging will make him do it.
Even today that he came to watch match in my house, I was trying to sweep the room and make everywhere neat, he raise his leg up for me to sweep, went to the fridge to take coke and origin to sit outside while I'm cleaning the house.
He came inside when I'm done and continue watching his match.
My ex girlfriend complained that he doesn't greet her, I asked her if she have ever hear him greet me before, she said No. Case closed
Only when he needs money that he will greet before asking.
He so stubborn that he's the only one that have fight mark on his body in the family.
All the 7 children attend the same primary and secondary school, he's the that make the principal know my parents,because of his troubles.
And he can eat very well but he doesn't grow fat. He will by 8pm and d still wake up by 2am to dish food again, but he have a very flat tummy. That's what I like about his body

Joshrob:
Our last born is very lazy but there's nothing this guy can't do if he really want to work. He help me wire my flat and paint. He did all that alone.
When my sister husband build their house, he help them wire the house and do all connections. But if he's not in the mood, no amount of begging will make him do it.
Even today that he came to watch match in my house, I was trying to sweep the room and make everywhere neat, he raise his leg up for me to sweep, went to the fridge to take coke and origin to sit outside while I'm cleaning the house.
He came inside when I'm done and continue watching his match.
My ex girlfriend complained that he doesn't greet her and I ask if she have ever heard him greet me before, she said No. Case closed
Only when he needs money that he will greet before asking.

Na Badt guy ���

Mercychen:
Last borns are always so stubborn.

Our last born ( of blessed memory) was over pampared and spoilt. As in.. you can't touch her. My parents will come for your head.
Even if she hits you first, they'll still take sides with her.

If she's angry, she can throw a knife at you and my parents will still not see anything wrong in it.

It's so unfortunate we lost her. . After we
We lost mumsy, the shock was too much for her. She couldn't cope without mumsy.

Sorry if it's seems like I'm prying and I also apologize if I'm causing you to remember arduous memories, but what exactly happened to your sister? Was she sick?

Mercychen:
Last borns are always so stubborn.

Our last born ( of blessed memory) was over pampared and spoilt. As in.. you can't touch her. My parents will come for your head.
Even if she hits you first, they'll still take sides with her.

If she's angry, she can throw a knife at you and my parents will still not see anything wrong in it.

It's so unfortunate we lost her. . After we
We lost mumsy, the shock was too much for her. She couldn't cope without mumsy.

sorry for the lost....so painful!

If not, I'm fighting God on judgements day aswear

chatinent:


Sorry about your loss.

I believe we'll see them again.

Stop please go to bed

Mercychen:


Oh... Yeah. She missed the protection she enjoyed from mom. Dad whom she would have found succour in was not always at home as he's always on the go hustling multiple jobs to cater for all of us. So she only gets to see him once in a week.

Innocent girl, she just couldn't adjust and cope with the new life. Her death really hit me so hard, even more than mom's because I kept feeling bad that we couldn't prevent her from dying even though we tried our best to save her **sobs** huh..

Last born here and I'd say, I'm relatively peaceful and quite introverted so I rarely give wahala.

Na only last Born op see, him no see first born them wey sabi waste resources

Am the last born in my family��
But u rarely see me at home, everytime I dey field dey play ball

I am the last child in my family but I didn't enjoy being one cos the age difference between me and my older siblings look like I was an after thought. They were all quite grown that I looked like the maid in the house. I did all the chores and wished I had a younger one. Errands nko. Hmmm

My older siblings were not there to play with cos of our age differences..but my mum was there for me.. I bonded with her so much that I could almost not do anything without her and learnt so much from her. We went everywhere together and I look like her mini. I was her hand bag..

When she died I thought my world was over but thank God it wasn't. After her death I became strong hearted and introverted. I can do anything I set my heart to do.

Last born is a double edge sword. Sometimes it pays to be a last born you have the opportunity to view your older siblings path in life and learn from their mistakes.

While also being a last born , with the Nigerian economy ever regressing. There is a tendency you might not get has much as your older siblings.eg your siblings might have had more spent on their education than you. Because dad was younger, employed, alive and over providing.

The only take is a last born , in most cases are closer to parents...

Had one very annoying experience with our lastborn. It was way back when I was in Secondary school, SS2. One certain evening, I had already pressed my school uniform against the following day, a Monday, with the "gaitus" and all. I laid the uniform on the bed.

My sister then about 3 years old had just finished having her bath. She ran into the room and jumped on my just pressed uniform, rolling and laughing. My head hot!!! The kind of slap I gave her ehn, she cried out very loud.

My dad had to rush in, Baba asked what happened and was like why didn't I report. That was when I got my last dirty slap from my dad till date. But I was satisfied I dealt with her, lol.

******
If my Mum is going out, she'd be telling me "Una make sure say una cook make my pikin chop". If we her brothers chop or we nor chop, that one no concern her.

PuZZyNegro:


It is always like this. Parents especially mothers don't joke with the child of their old age (Gen 37:3).

I was loved by my mother just like your mother loved your last born and I loved my mother so dearly as well.

What happened to your sister could have happened to me if I had lost my mother at a much younger age. Would you mind to share how old your sister was when your mum died?

Even losing her in my mid twenties didn't make the shock much less critical to me. In fact, when she died, I felt like joining her or more like escorting her to the land of the dead if it was possible.

Till date, life is meaningless to me as I believe nobody will ever give me that unconditional love like my mother and everything I have always done was to make my mother happy.

With the money coming in and not able to spend it on her makes me see the true meaning of vanity that life is, knowing all the sacrifices she made for me. Like, she may not have 3k to give my siblings but will suddenly have 10k to give me when I ask. I was the only person that I attended boarding school that my school fees were times 5 of what my siblings pay in their day school.

May God rest your sister's soul

My advice to people is to not jealous last borns. We have special grace

Always handsome/beautiful, intelligent, tall and get the opportunities other siblings never had. We leverage on the mistakes of older siblings and make better alternative choices

I totally agree the with your last sentence

Being the last born is Bae
If I sneeze everybody comes to my aid
I always just wanted to make my parents happy and proud. So when they died it took a toll on me, my life had no purpose again; I was depressed but am out now. I am currently the man of the house. I had it all, attention, toys money.... I was just soft

Joshrob:
Our last born is very lazy but there's nothing this guy can't do if he really want to work. He help me wire my flat and paint. He did all that alone.
When my sister husband build their house, he help them wire the house and do all connections. But if he's not in the mood, no amount of begging will make him do it.
Even today that he came to watch match in my house, I was trying to sweep the room and make everywhere neat, he raise his leg up for me to sweep, went to the fridge to take coke and origin to sit outside while I'm cleaning the house.
He came inside when I'm done and continue watching his match.
My ex girlfriend complained that he doesn't greet her, I asked her if she have ever hear him greet me before, she said No. Case closed
Only when he needs money that he will greet before asking.
He so stubborn that he's the only one that have fight mark on his body in the family.
All the 7 children attend the same primary and secondary school, he's the that make the principal know my parents,because of his troubles.
And he can eat very well but he doesn't grow fat. He will by 8pm and d still wake up by 2am to dish food again, but he have a very flat tummy. That's what I like about his body

Na when hin wan ask for money you suppose enter am.
"So you can greet because you want to ask for money,oya I don't have" simple!
If I were you, I'll give him broom to sweep."If you can't sweep, don't let me see you here again"

This was how my siblings trained me while growing.It was tough and painful,I had to adjust.One of them is a soldier,I no want soldier wahala,I dey comply steady steady.