ModestGal:

LoL,my own na complete opposite
My own lastborn na curse,if I wasn't the last born,I would have achieved so much more in life. My mum focused all her attention on her other children and left me. And the other children only know how to use me and they waste precious amount of my time in life. Aa day will not go without me wishing I was not the lastsborn. The suffer no be small

And the worst thing na because,I no recieve shishi from them, lol. They have never never been there for me

PuZZyNegro:


It is always like this. Parents especially mothers don't joke with the child of their old age (Gen 37:3).

I was loved by my mother just like your mother loved your last born and I loved my mother so dearly as well.

What happened to your sister could have happened to me if I had lost my mother at a much younger age. Would you mind to share how old your sister was when your mum died?

Even losing her in my mid twenties didn't make the shock much less critical to me. In fact, when she died, I felt like joining her or more like escorting her to the land of the dead if it was possible.

Till date, life is meaningless to me as I believe nobody will ever give me that unconditional love like my mother and everything I have always done was to make my mother happy.

With the money coming in and not able to spend it on her makes me see the true meaning of vanity that life is, knowing all the sacrifices she made for me. Like, she may not have 3k to give my siblings but will suddenly have 10k to give me when I ask. I was the only person that I attended boarding school that my school fees were times 5 of what my siblings pay in their day school.

May God rest your sister's soul

My advice to people is to not jealous last borns. We have special grace

Always handsome/beautiful, intelligent, tall and get the opportunities other siblings never had. We leverage on the mistakes of older siblings and make better alternative choices

PuZZyNegro:


It is always like this. Parents especially mothers don't joke with the child of their old age (Gen 37:3).

I was loved by my mother just like your mother loved your last born and I loved my mother so dearly as well.

What happened to your sister could have happened to me if I had lost my mother at a much younger age. Would you mind to share how old your sister was when your mum died?

Even losing her in my mid twenties didn't make the shock much less critical to me. In fact, when she died, I felt like joining her or more like escorting her to the land of the dead if it was possible.

Till date, life is meaningless to me as I believe nobody will ever give me that unconditional love like my mother and everything I have always done was to make my mother happy.

With the money coming in and not able to spend it on her makes me see the true meaning of vanity that life is, knowing all the sacrifices she made for me. Like, she may not have 3k to give my siblings but will suddenly have 10k to give me when I ask. I was the only person that I attended boarding school that my school fees were times 5 of what my siblings pay in their day school.

May God rest your sister's soul

My advice to people is to not jealous last borns. We have special grace

Always handsome/beautiful, intelligent, tall and get the opportunities other siblings never had. We leverage on the mistakes of older siblings and make better alternative choices

Joshrob:
Our last born is very lazy but there's nothing this guy can't do if he really want to work. He help me wire my flat and paint. He did all that alone.
When my sister husband build their house, he help them wire the house and do all connections. But if he's not in the mood, no amount of begging will make him do it.
Even today that he came to watch match in my house, I was trying to sweep the room and make everywhere neat, he raise his leg up for me to sweep, went to the fridge to take coke and origin to sit outside while I'm cleaning the house.
He came inside when I'm done and continue watching his match.
My ex girlfriend complained that he doesn't greet her, I asked her if she have ever hear him greet me before, she said No. Case closed
Only when he needs money that he will greet before asking.
He so stubborn that he's the only one that have fight mark on his body in the family.
All the 7 children attend the same primary and secondary school, he's the that make the principal know my parents,because of his troubles.
And he can eat very well but he doesn't grow fat. He will by 8pm and d still wake up by 2am to dish food again, but he have a very flat tummy. That's what I like about his body

chatinent:
I didn't really stay long with fam so I can't really tell.

Please share yours.

PuZZyNegro:


It is always like this. Parents especially mothers don't joke with the child of their old age (Gen 37:3).

I was loved by my mother just like your mother loved your last born and I loved my mother so dearly as well.

What happened to your sister could have happened to me if I had lost my mother at a much younger age. Would you mind to share how old your sister was when your mum died?

Even losing her in my mid twenties didn't make the shock much less critical to me. In fact, when she died, I felt like joining her or more like escorting her to the land of the dead if it was possible.

Till date, life is meaningless to me as I believe nobody will ever give me that unconditional love like my mother and everything I have always done was to make my mother happy.

With the money coming in and not able to spend it on her makes me see the true meaning of vanity that life is, knowing all the sacrifices she made for me. Like, she may not have 3k to give my siblings but will suddenly have 10k to give me when I ask. I was the only person that I attended boarding school that my school fees were times 5 of what my siblings pay in their day school.

May God rest your sister's soul

My advice to people is to not jealous last borns. We have special grace

Always handsome/beautiful, intelligent, tall and get the opportunities other siblings never had. We leverage on the mistakes of older siblings and make better alternative choices

Mercychen:


Oh... Yeah. She missed the protection she enjoyed from mom. Dad whom she would have found succour in was not always at home as he's always on the go hustling multiple jobs to cater for all of us. So she only gets to see him once in a week.

Innocent girl, she just couldn't adjust and cope with the new life. Her death really hit me so hard, even more than mom's because I kept feeling bad that we couldn't prevent her from dying even though we tried our best to save her **sobs** huh..

Joshrob:
Our last born is very lazy but there's nothing this guy can't do if he really want to work. He help me wire my flat and paint. He did all that alone.
When my sister husband build their house, he help them wire the house and do all connections. But if he's not in the mood, no amount of begging will make him do it.
Even today that he came to watch match in my house, I was trying to sweep the room and make everywhere neat, he raise his leg up for me to sweep, went to the fridge to take coke and origin to sit outside while I'm cleaning the house.
He came inside when I'm done and continue watching his match.
My ex girlfriend complained that he doesn't greet her, I asked her if she have ever hear him greet me before, she said No. Case closed
Only when he needs money that he will greet before asking.
He so stubborn that he's the only one that have fight mark on his body in the family.
All the 7 children attend the same primary and secondary school, he's the that make the principal know my parents,because of his troubles.
And he can eat very well but he doesn't grow fat. He will by 8pm and d still wake up by 2am to dish food again, but he have a very flat tummy. That's what I like about his body

samnaija:
Last born is a double edge sword. Sometimes it pays to be a last born you have the opportunity to view your older siblings path in life and learn from their mistakes.

While also being a last born , with the Nigerian economy ever regressing. There is a tendency you might not get has much as your older siblings.eg your siblings might have had more spent on their education than you. Because dad was younger, employed, alive and over providing.

The only take is a last born , in most cases are closer to parents...

Shellsploit:
Issokay...

Reminds me during the era of fuel scarcity some years ago. i was able to buy 50litres of fuel which i was managing. nepa was acting like demi god..

on that faithful night. they mistakenly brought the light around 11pm and i woke our last born to go switch off the generator which was at the rear end of the building where everyone keeps there generator.

few minutes later, dude came back inside and switched the knife changeover to nepa and he jejely went back to bed..

around 6am, i woke up to do some penetration testing only for me to be hearing the sound of a generator runnin outside.. i was like, hope no be my generator dey on so...

I decided to go outside, lo and behold, dude just removed the supply cable that feeds light fron the generator and the generator has been running all night without any load.

I woke him up and he denied ever waking up and telling him to switch off the generator. I couldn't cry!!!

PrimadonnaO:


So sorry.

Painful to read.

MummyD2020:

Im sorry, babe!

SeaTrade:

Funny enough,I am a last born.
Was a very spoilt one at that.
Use to come out of the toilet after pooping and beckon on one of my then slaves(siblikgs) to come and wipe my bumbum,shouting at the top of my voice..
Was like:First person to come and wipe my yarnsh....

Mercychen:
Last borns are always so stubborn.

Our last born ( of blessed memory) was over pampared and spoilt. As in.. you can't touch her. My parents will come for your head.
Even if she hits you first, they'll still take sides with her.

If she's angry, she can throw a knife at you and my parents will still not see anything wrong in it.

It's so unfortunate we lost her. . After we
We lost mumsy, the shock was too much for her. She couldn't cope without mumsy.

verybadmouth:
Ah you are lucky not bro be my younger one. I would have showed you eehhh. I will have released your laziness. In fact you will be so hardworking that even me will be begging you to calm down.

chatinent:


Sorry about your loss.

I believe we'll see them again.

starbuck:
I am a last born...
My siblings dey do me shege since mom died in order to get back to all the ills i did to them but believe me, the only thing they can't trash out from me is the inbuilt laziness i had while growing up ..

Most times, dad comes to my rescue..

Hyerin:
Last born here and I'd say, I'm relatively peaceful and quite introverted so I rarely give wahala.

Goddyj:
My last Born no dey gree me use phone in peace. It's either she kills my battery playing games or she kills my battery using OTG cable to charge her phone from my own phone.

Tadeknkeepcalm:

Sorry if it's seems like I'm prying and I also apologize if I'm causing you to remember arduous memories, but what exactly happened to your sister? Was she sick?