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Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by debbydams(f): 7:25am On Oct 17, 2021
chatinent:
I didn't really stay long with fam so I can't really tell.

Please share yours. kiss


my own last born ehn grin grin
Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by Juoflife1(f): 7:31am On Oct 17, 2021
Na last we come, we no kee person. God bless all last borns.

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Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by Hassanmaye(m): 7:33am On Oct 17, 2021
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Back then whenever I looked at my immediate younger bro,na so so vexination just dey full my mind,cus the dude didn't really allow me to enjoy my lastbornship small before he was birthed.... The funnies part was that everything he does back then, momsy was always on his side grin. You dare not touch her precious last born without receiving a knock of the same magnitude with earthquake on your head cheesy

But right now,the guy don grow up,come even matured pass me self....In fact, he's one of my realiest guy cheesy
Lol
Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by Greystone: 7:37am On Oct 17, 2021
Mercychen:
Last borns are always so stubborn.

Our last born ( of blessed memory) was over pampared and spoilt. As in.. you can't touch her. My parents will come for your head.
Even if she hits you first, they'll still take sides with her.

If she's angry, she can throw a knife at you and my parents will still not see anything wrong in it.

It's so unfortunate we lost her. cry. After we
We lost mumsy, the shock was too much for her. She couldn't cope without mumsy.


I'm truly sorry for your loss.
Pls accept my sincere condolences.

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Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by Twoclans(f): 7:40am On Oct 17, 2021
I was on phone with my parents last child on tuesday ,guess what? This guy washed his cloths since Saturday and as at the time I was speaking with him on Tuesday he had not put it out to dry.After 4 good days.

I kuku did not have energy to talk, the space belongs to him so he can turn his house to a junk yard .

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Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by Greystone: 7:41am On Oct 17, 2021
Divay22:
Hehehehe
We're just too awesome grin cheesy

I tell you... grin cheesy cool

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Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by egunna(m): 7:47am On Oct 17, 2021
PuZZyNegro:


It is always like this. Parents especially mothers don't joke with the child of their old age (Gen 37:3).

I was loved by my mother just like your mother loved your last born and I loved my mother so dearly as well.

What happened to your sister could have happened to me if I had lost my mother at a much younger age. Would you mind to share how old your sister was when your mum died?

Even losing her in my mid twenties didn't make the shock much less critical to me. In fact, when she died, I felt like joining her or more like escorting her to the land of the dead if it was possible.

Till date, life is meaningless to me as I believe nobody will ever give me that unconditional love like my mother and everything I have always done was to make my mother happy.

With the money coming in and not able to spend it on her makes me see the true meaning of vanity that life is, knowing all the sacrifices she made for me. Like, she may not have 3k to give my siblings but will suddenly have 10k to give me when I ask. I was the only person that I attended boarding school that my school fees were times 5 of what my siblings pay in their day school.

May God rest your sister's soul cry

My advice to people is to not jealous last borns. We have special grace wink

Always handsome/beautiful, intelligent, tall and get the opportunities other siblings never had. We leverage on the mistakes of older siblings and make better alternative choices
Will get out of here?u don carry ur lastborn come here be dat.ur mama no dey here oooo,we go beat nonsense for ur body fa
Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by viktohmarkz(m): 7:49am On Oct 17, 2021
Me as a last born in my family, i can say their is no enjoyment in it,
All the chores falls on me, all the errands on me.....
Deeply i wish i had a younger one i can send on errands too.
I gain nothing from my family, those guys can never gimme joy, but would always complain that am stubborn �
If not for my mum, i would have left and bother not to see them for a long time....but mumci
Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by EgusiShankly: 7:52am On Oct 17, 2021
SeaTrade:
cheesy
Funny enough,I am a last born.
Was a very spoilt one at that.
Use to come out of the toilet after pooping and beckon on one of my then slaves(siblikgs) to come and wipe my bumbum,shouting at the top of my voice..
Was like:First person to come and wipe my yarnsh.... grin
Lol.. I Understand this situation very well cos my small sister did this to us the elder ones..
But when she grow up, she collect in double measures grin

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Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by Bahamas95(m): 7:57am On Oct 17, 2021
My girlfriend is a last born. Her attitude at times is either annoying or funny, but most times funny that's why I don't have problem with her.....I will be discussing something with her o the next thing you will hear is "let me ask my mummy". Am like "wetin you wan ask your mama na, what's your problem"? undecided

I have observed she is very fond of her mum so I am always careful and mindful of whatever I discuss with her.....I pray make she nor go tell her mama the way I dey "kpokpo" her oneday.

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Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by hefeeluv: 7:58am On Oct 17, 2021
Last born saga I can't deal with, you beat them at their back or hands you will see her holding her head while crying. More often she wouldn't but with the sight of my mum or dad naso she go just cry out loud like the beating just happened.
I cant forget how she persuaded my dad to burn my Sega game ���

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Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by pocohantas(f): 8:08am On Oct 17, 2021
Twoclans:
I was on phone with my parents last child on tuesday ,guess what? This guy washed his cloths since Saturday and as at the time I was speaking with him on Tuesday he had not put it out to dry.After 4 good days.

I kuku did not have energy to talk, the space belongs to him so he can turn his house to a junk yard .

This one is possessed with many spirits o. Una done try deliverance?

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Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by promisedeco(m): 8:08am On Oct 17, 2021
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Back then whenever I looked at my immediate younger bro,na so so vexination just dey full my mind,cus the dude didn't really allow me to enjoy my lastbornship small before he was birthed.... The funnies part was that everything he does back then, momsy was always on his side grin. You dare not touch her precious last born without receiving a knock of the same magnitude with earthquake on your head cheesy

But right now,the guy don grow up,come even matured pass me self....In fact, he's one of my realiest guy cheesy
My immediate older brother cried like a baby when I was born. grin

My dad had to settle the matter with by convincing him that he is his last born and I'm my mum's last born. Even till now na so de arrangement de o

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Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by care4you: 8:09am On Oct 17, 2021
**switched**


it's not really easy for us but I pray,


** you people should walk a day in our shoes**



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Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by Born2conquer: 8:11am On Oct 17, 2021
Last born must be successful.

My younger sister is 17 and the last time we lived together was 9years ago, we the older siblings left home at about 9 to 10years ago and she’s been the only one with Dem parent .

I do pity her though, we the other siblings grew up together (age gap between us was 2years) so we attended primary school,secondary school almost together and we also shared the chores! Our last born came more like an afterthought grin grin

So she grew up mostly alone with dem parent, she was lazy before but now na mama dey do all the house chores from Cooking to cleaning to fetching water (before we did borehole) but that made her more matured than other last born.

And don’t forget! Na she go enjoy PASS! na 90k phone and other gadgets she dey use and she even own a bank account fat enough (which hardly even touch)

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Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by Sonnobax15(m): 8:20am On Oct 17, 2021
promisedeco:

My immediate older brother cried like a baby when I was born. grin

My dad had to settle the matter with by convincing him that he is his last born and I'm my mum's last born. Even till now na so de arrangement de o
grin grin grin grin grin. Just imagine grin grin

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Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by Twoclans(f): 8:24am On Oct 17, 2021
pocohantas:


This one is possessed with many spirits o. Una done try deliverance?

No deliverance can change that guy from his pathetic laziness when it comes to house chores. cheesy

The only thing he does is to read and read and read.

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Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by MsFaith: 8:28am On Oct 17, 2021
Our last born is so lazy! She couldn’t even stay 2 months in our relative’s house before she rented her own apartment, just to escape house chores.

God forbid I train any of my children to be lazy.

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Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by Sandydayziz(f): 8:34am On Oct 17, 2021
Born2conquer:
Last born must be successful.

My younger sister is 17 and the last time we lived together was 9years ago, we the older siblings left home at about 9 to 10years ago and she’s been the only one with Dem parent .

I do pity her though, we the other siblings grew up together (age gap between us was 2years) so we attended primary school,secondary school almost together and we also shared the chores! Our last born came more like an afterthought grin grin

So she grew up mostly alone with dem parent, she was lazy before but now na mama dey do all the house chores from Cooking to cleaning to fetching water (before we did borehole) but that made her more matured than other last born.

And don’t forget! Na she go enjoy PASS! na 90k phone and other gadgets she dey use and she even own a bank account fat enough (which hardly even touch)


This is so my situation with a little modification cheesy grin
Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by PuZZyNegro: 8:46am On Oct 17, 2021
MummyD2020:


I must say you are indeed lucky cos in my house it was the opposite. The fist born(son) got all. It was the left over i got. They concentrated on him and i managed my way. Now, they know better. We always protested but it fell on deaf ears. He is the only one that schooled abroad and they did not see the difference becos he didnt do well. Who are you to ask to school abroad too? Na your money? My friend hustle your way to Unilag jare! Parents should try as much as they can never to show preference amongst the kids becos e get why.

Even God shows preference to humanity that he created. Or why does He love the Israelites more than the other tribes?

Well, one major qualities of last born is stubbornness. You needed to be intelligently stubborn to pull your way through, it never comes easy.

Also, you may not feel that love if you are very few in the family. I come from a family of 10 children, and being the 10th child...

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Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by Lemmy123(m): 8:47am On Oct 17, 2021
In my own case, I'm the last born. I didn't exactly get the preferential treatment from parents that much, especially mum, because she was always away to sell things, so most times, I'm left with dad.

Dad wanted to treat me with soft hands, always wanted me back home before 7pm in the evenings, so while I'm on the field playing football, I'm checking my computer watch to be sure I'm on time..

Dad couldn't afford most things I wanted;a bicycle, a toy gun, a fancy schoolbag... Just about every basic thing you can think of... But he loved me, or so it appeared.

When I grew into a young man, he wanted to continue in that fashion but man, I was in a different world and would not allow his rules govern me anymore. He was heartbroken but to deal with it, man's grow now and there are challenges ahead, I need to be prepared and tough!

Sorry pops grin
Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by PuZZyNegro: 8:49am On Oct 17, 2021
ModestGal:

LoL,my own na complete opposite
My own lastborn na curse,if I wasn't the last born,I would have achieved so much more in life. My mum focused all her attention on her other children and left me. And the other children only know how to use me and they waste precious amount of my time in life. Aa day will not go without me wishing I was not the lastsborn. The suffer no be small

And the worst thing na because,I no recieve shishi from them, lol. They have never never been there for me

You were obedient and submissive.

Last borns behave like a witch like someone stated earlier. It wasn't easy for me as my other siblings fought me like Joseph because of that preferential treatment from my mother but I was too stubborn and hot for every one of them.

Till date, my opinion counts in taking family decisions.

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Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by sammuell(m): 8:56am On Oct 17, 2021
Mercychen:
Last borns are always so stubborn.

Our last born ( of blessed memory) was over pampared and spoilt. As in.. you can't touch her. My parents will come for your head.
Even if she hits you first, they'll still take sides with her.

If she's angry, she can throw a knife at you and my parents will still not see anything wrong in it.

It's so unfortunate we lost her. cry. After we
We lost mumsy, the shock was too much for her. She couldn't cope without mumsy.


May their souls keep resting.

So sorry

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Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by Adjovi: 9:07am On Oct 17, 2021
grin grin grin cheesy some people jealous us tongue tongue make Una leave us o. It no easy to be lastborn
Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by Bluewitch(f): 9:19am On Oct 17, 2021
helinues:
Here to read lies about us.

grin

Boss you sef na last born cheesy cheesy
Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by seunmohmoh(f): 9:21am On Oct 17, 2021
I am the last child. You just gotta love me.

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Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by Bluewitch(f): 9:22am On Oct 17, 2021
Divay22:
Hehehehe
We're just too awesome grin cheesy


Extremely awesome

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Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by Eddie360(m): 9:28am On Oct 17, 2021
We're 3 in our family our last born is the only girl born to our parent omo na me suffer pass for dat gurl ooo cos ma snr bro no send dat wan since dem born me i neva see pesin wwy lazy like dat gurl..but i wnt thing i like abt her is dat she is intelligent and smart..but very stubborn.

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Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by chatinent: 9:34am On Oct 17, 2021
Makschinchin:
All lastborns please gather here, we've got something for bro Chatinet

Make I send the Aza?
Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by Halisdavis: 9:36am On Oct 17, 2021
Being the last born sweet die grin ... Being little, I always had this authoritative nature with a touch of arrogance and that's what my siblings find cute about me, the confidence with which I dish out orders.

My dad treated me as if I was his most treasured artwork... The apple of her father's eye... He took me everywhere with him... He made my room look like a supermarket with goodies and provisions, my siblings always check out my room every 30minutes to get the latest snacks

Everyone woke up by 6am in the house to do chores but I wake up by 9am unless I am going to school, I will try and wake up earlier. My mom will ask me if I want to go back and continue sleeping... My siblings did all the chores while you can only find me watching movies or reading with my legs crossed... I don't even dish out my food, they brought food for me each time I say I am hungry... I don't walk to my friends house if at all I want to step out... My brothers drove me to anywhere I am going and pick me up when I am done... I got everything I wanted and how I wanted.

It's funny that after two decades of my life with such lifestyle... I turned out to be so responsible and mature... I still can't believe I am the same person... I now work diligently, cook and do all the chores with all my heart... Everyone wants me to come stay with them... My siblings fights on who will have me during vacations... I really turned out well.

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Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by Oizee(f): 9:37am On Oct 17, 2021
Mercychen:
Last borns are always so stubborn.

Our last born ( of blessed memory) was over pampared and spoilt. As in.. you can't touch her. My parents will come for your head.
Even if she hits you first, they'll still take sides with her.

If she's angry, she can throw a knife at you and my parents will still not see anything wrong in it.

It's so unfortunate we lost her. cry. After we
We lost mumsy, the shock was too much for her. She couldn't cope without mumsy.

I'm truly sorry.

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Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by kaybobo200: 9:38am On Oct 17, 2021
Is like you are telling my story. Tears dropping freely. The bond between last born and mother is unexplainable. I wish she is still alive. The sacrifices was so much. May the Soul of Veronica and all the faithful departed Rest In Peace. Amen
PuZZyNegro:


It is always like this. Parents especially mothers don't joke with the child of their old age (Gen 37:3).

I was loved by my mother just like your mother loved your last born and I loved my mother so dearly as well.

What happened to your sister could have happened to me if I had lost my mother at a much younger age. Would you mind to share how old your sister was when your mum died?

Even losing her in my mid twenties didn't make the shock much less critical to me. In fact, when she died, I felt like joining her or more like escorting her to the land of the dead if it was possible.

Till date, life is meaningless to me as I believe nobody will ever give me that unconditional love like my mother and everything I have always done was to make my mother happy.

With the money coming in and not able to spend it on her makes me see the true meaning of vanity that life is, knowing all the sacrifices she made for me. Like, she may not have 3k to give my siblings but will suddenly have 10k to give me when I ask. I was the only person that I attended boarding school that my school fees were times 5 of what my siblings pay in their day school.

May God rest your sister's soul cry

My advice to people is to not jealous last borns. We have special grace wink

Always handsome/beautiful, intelligent, tall and get the opportunities other siblings never had. We leverage on the mistakes of older siblings and make better alternative choices

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