Good day nairalanders, I created this thread some months back


https://www.nairaland.com/6527936/wife-wants-kill-me-what



I want to thank you all for the advice and emotional support you people gave me during those tough times, the love you showed me that time was genuine and I really appreciate you all. thank you

I'm happy to tell you once again that my wife gave birth to a beautiful baby girl last month.
I was not even with her that time cos I moved out of the house and was squatting with a friend close to my house to avoid clashes with her, when it was time, a neighbor helped her to the hospital and inform me immediately which i went straight to the hospital and meet her, when I arrived at the hospital, she gave birth already and called me inside immediately, the first thing she did was to tell me that I'm a father now(in sign language) something she did not do for months. I congratulated her and after some small talks, I went and see the doctor to pay the bills. they gave me a list of things to buy which i bought immediately. we left the hospital the next day.
she went straight to where I was staying and tell me to come back home which I did, I was still afraid of her which she noticed too but what i saw the time was different. After some weeks, I noticed that she changed from that monster to her former self.
She apologized for everything she did to me, I told her that I did not hold anything against her and she should feel free. since then, even if i shout, she will cry, if I refuse to eat, more crying, if I come back late,. wahala, and nothing pains her more than me talking about the things she did when she was pregnant.

Lastly, I told her that we should go and do family planning but she is refusing that I did not trust her even after she apologized, it's now becoming another problem cos I can't allow her to get pregnant again till I sort myself out, I remember what I went through that time and I'm not ready for a repeat. but she is insisting that even if we start sleeping together again, nothing will happen cos she knows her circle very well.



I created this thread to update you on how she changed and prove those that attributed her behavior to pregnancy right. I'm still struggling financially but I don't need help from people, I said this because of the people that called me a scammer that time, and as far as I can remember, it was only one person with Nnamebuka(God bless him) moniker that sent something to me.

Thank you all

We're glad you're happy now and your home is now very peaceful.

ahnie:
We're glad you're happy now and your home is now very peaceful.

Thank you sis

On behalf of those that advised you,,,,,, "Welcome".


May blessings that comes with new born babies be sufficient for you and your household.

udoji2021:


Thank you sis

You're welcome.

ItsGoodToBeGood:
On behalf of those that advised you,,,,,, "Welcome".


May blessings that comes with new born babies be sufficient for you and your household.

Amen.

Thank you.

Seems she really loves you and was not just looking to 'hook' you with her acts at the beginning. I am happy for you, op. She strikes me as a genuine virtuous woman. Na only money remain for una to have the sweetest love.

She's willing to please you; you're not trying to take advantage of her. Love is sweeter with two genuine and unassuming people.

You just have to find a way to get around the sex and pregnancy issue ni o.

Really sit her down and let her know it's not because you don't like and trust her. Explain things to her. I'm sure she'll understand. Including the family planning or other ways of preventing pregnancies...

And as you're striving on the side to work and make ends meet, I wish you luck.

My strong advice to you now is to go and do what you suppose to do in her head to her family

And good luck

Congratulations on your new born baby, I pray that the baby bring good fortunes for the family, let go of the past and face the reality please, settle down together with your wife for this baby, don't look at side talks please. God will continue to be with your family. Good luck

Magnoliaa:
Seems she really loves you and was not just looking to 'hook' you with her acts at the beginning. I am happy for you, op. She strikes me as a genuine virtuous woman. Na only money remain for una to have the sweetest love.

She's willing to please you; you're not trying to take advantage of her. Love is sweeter with two genuine and unassuming people.

You just have to find a way to get around the sex and pregnancy issue ni o.

Really sit her down and let her know it's not because you don't like and trust her. Explain things to her. I'm sure she'll understand. Including the family planning or other ways of preventing pregnancies...

And as you're striving on the side to work and make ends meet, I wish you luck.

Thanks, I'm indeed lucky to have her. Even the pregnancy issue will be resolve soon cos it seems I'm in charge now.
I'm also hustling hard to be a man who she can call her husband proudly. it's just that things are difficult presently but I believe it shall be well one day.

thanks again

Botking:
My strong advice to you now is to go and do what you suppose to do in her head to her family

And good luck

Thanks.

But that will not be anytime soon cos we are striving to eat now. but the parents are soft towards me this days.

Bola146:
Congratulations on your new born baby, I pray that the baby bring good fortunes for the family, let go of the past and face the reality please. God will continue to be with your family. Good luck

Amen.

thanks

udoji2021:


Thanks.

But that will not be anytime soon cos we are striving to eat now. but the parents are soft towards me this days.

Ok but endeavor to put that in your agenda, is very very important, so that you can receive their blessings

udoji2021:


Thanks.

But that will not be anytime soon cos we are striving to eat now. but the parents are soft towards me this days.

Congratulations on becoming a father.
May your baby girl bring you good fortune.

Botking:


Ok but endeavor to put that in your agenda, is very very important, so that you can receive their blessings

I know about that sir, my plan is to do it next year if something did not come up. it's really bad with me presently and I just pray her parents should understand me. All the same, I will definitely do it anytime money comes, it's one of my priorities on my agenda.

mariahAngel:


Congratulations on becoming a father.
May your baby girl bring you good fortune.

I can't forget this moniker.

thanks alot for your advice that time, you people really kept me going that time.

udoji2021:


Thanks, I'm indeed lucky to have her. Even the pregnancy issue will be resolve soon cos it seems I'm in charge now.
I'm also hustling hard to be a man who she can call her husband proudly. it's just that things are difficult presently but I believe it shall be well one day.

thanks again

Awwww. I love this. And God will bless you and the works of your hand.

An gonorable man and a virtuous, Proverbs 31 kinda woman jamming.

And if she's not the kind that prefers a traditional set-up, you could set up a business for her, too, after the whole post-pregnancy phase oh, just something close to the home, that brings in money for her too, so she wouldn't be completely dependent on you. As you both raise the child. Until she's ready to venture into other business or working alongside yourself.

Ignore her,the last person to know her cycle is a new mom.Ppl like her come for 6 weeks checkup with a new pregnancy.

Endure till 6 weeks and divert to the family planning unit.

Congratulations on being a new papa.Onye nna!

Try to convince her on going for that family planning.

With all the lovey dovey stuffs hanging around, the last thing you want is for her to get pregnant - again.

Wow

Isn't this the most stupid story i have ever read on planet earth, i believe this must be a troll story.

Like a man left his wife when she was pregnant, wasn't there for her, from pregnancy till child birth but then came home after child birth because his wife called him home.

If this story is real, then something is wrong with this WORLD.

udoji2021:
Good day nairalanders, I created this thread some months back


https://www.nairaland.com/6527936/wife-wants-kill-me-what



I want to thank you all for the advice and emotional support you people gave me during those tough times, the love you showed me that time was genuine and I really appreciate you all. thank you

I'm happy to tell you once again that my wife gave birth to a beautiful baby girl last month.
I was not even with her that time cos I moved out of the house and was squatting with a friend close to my house to avoid clashes with her, when it was time, a neighbor helped her to the hospital and inform me immediately which i went straight to the hospital and meet her, when I arrived at the hospital, she gave birth already and called me inside immediately, the first thing she did was to tell me that I'm a father now(in sign language) something she did not do for months. I congratulated her and after some small talks, I went and see the doctor to pay the bills. they gave me a list of things to buy which i bought immediately. we left the hospital the next day.
she went straight to where I was staying and tell me to come back home which I did, I was still afraid of her which she noticed too but what i saw the time was different. After some weeks, I noticed that she changed from that monster to her former self.
She apologized for everything she did to me, I told her that I did not hold anything against her and she should feel free. since then, even if i shout, she will cry, if I refuse to eat, more crying, if I come back late,. wahala, and nothing pains her more than me talking about the things she did when she was pregnant.

Lastly, I told her that we should go and do family planning but she is refusing that I did not trust her even after she apologized, it's now becoming another problem cos I can't allow her to get pregnant again till I sort myself out, I remember what I went through that time and I'm not ready for a repeat. but she is insisting that even if we start sleeping together again, nothing will happen cos she knows her circle very well.



I created this thread to update you on how she changed and prove those that attributed her behavior to pregnancy right. I'm still struggling financially but I don't need help from people, I said this because of the people that called me a scammer that time, and as far as I can remember, it was only one person with Nnamebuka(God bless him) moniker that sent something to me.

Thank you all

OP One day try ask why she been dey behave like that because me I still never understand that attitude

Congratulations.
More blessings to your household

Una the make marriage fear us single people

H

Na everything people dey carry come Nairaland.

Soon we would see " how do I fvck my wife till she shouts BLOOD OF JESUS? "

Good