So this evening I was having a chat with my girlfriend and we literally talked about marriage.... She said she can't marry a guy from Ibadan because she feels Ibadan guys are bad, she fears that during marriage the guy might go violent on her and leave her and the children to suffer. I tried letting her know that not all Ibadan guys are bad tho,even asked her if she feels I could turn out to be that kinda guy and she said she doesn't think so maybe because I am educated....
Stylishly I am heartbroken though but I have got to call off the relationship....
But why can't tribalism stop in our country?



Moreover she is from Kogi state

Because someone somewhere sometime ago said so as a result of their experience with the tribe and unfortunately, the beliefs have been held on to. Most of these behaviors or assumptions are founded in some bad experiences.

It's rare for Ondo and Ekiti people to marry Ẹ̀gbá and Ìjẹ̀bú.

Kogi girls are sweet, I have a Kogi girl I'm bleeping and she's the sweetest so far, can't get her off my mind (Not Simping).

Then, you have to prove her wrong.

Lee99:
Kogi girls are sweet, I have a Kogi girl I'm bleeping and she's the sweetest so far, can't get her off my mind (Not Simping).

You're a nincompoop!

Every tribe has its flaws. Just pray you find the right partner that gives you peace, love and support.




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E no go reach ur hand,e spoil.
Cos every nigerian suck am from mama breastmilk.

Holly Gram real matters. WTF MAN

Lee99:
Kogi girls are sweet, I have a Kogi girl I'm bleeping and she's the sweetest so far, can't get her off my mind (Not Simping).

kogi girl kee you there.. you no lie sha dey toto tyt.

We were all taught to be tribalistic from our childhood and neighborhood.
The only way out is to individually unlearn. But that won't save you from being a victim of a tribalistic person. It's just our system, get used to it.
Other systems have racism it is huge.

Tribalism is good

Lee99:
Kogi girls are sweet, I have a Kogi girl I'm bleeping and she's the sweetest so far, can't get her off my mind (Not Simping).

u have been enchanted by one igala beauty damsel

Divoc19:
We were all taught to be tribalistic from our childhood and neighborhood.
The only way out is to individually unlearn. But that won't save you from being a victim of a tribalistic person. It's just our system, get used to it.
Other systems have racism it is huge.

I was taught to love everyone regardless of where you come out from as long as you breathe and you are nice too.

Be sincere.

Lilsameey:
I was taught to love everyone regardless of where you come out from as long as you breathe and you are nice too.

Divoc19:
Be sincere.

Am serious.

@OP Which part of Kogi is the girl from?.. if na ebira, you better run.

Lee99:
Kogi girls are sweet, I have a Kogi girl I'm bleeping and she's the sweetest so far, can't get her off my mind (Not Simping).

My gf is from that state...but I have been calling her since on Sunday, she is not picking up...hope it's not my gf that is a copper in Enugu state

Tell me you don't know anything about Nigerian tribes and their traits. Unless you are an imported fellow Even at that, Nigerians derive pleasure from educating foreigners about our tribes

Lilsameey:
Am serious.

Most Tribalistic people on Nairaland and in Nigeria are "Home base" that is the have not go ouside of their locality.judge people by hear say or what the read.i have been in different states in Nigeria and different countries of the world.same thing all over

Nairaland Igbo's taught me tribalism.

flokii:
@OP Which part of Kogi is the girl from?.. if na ebira, you better run.

Kabba actually

Tbvxl:
So this evening I was having a chat with my girlfriend and we literally talked about marriage.... She said she can't marry a guy from Ibadan because she feels Ibadan guys are bad, she fears that during marriage the guy might go violent on her and leave her and the children to suffer. I tried letting her know that not all Ibadan guys are bad tho,even asked her if she feels I could turn out to be that kinda guy and she said she doesn't think so maybe because I am educated....
Stylishly I am heartbroken though but I have got to call off the relationship....
But why can't tribalism stop in our country?



Moreover she is from Kogi state

Tbvxl:
So this evening I was having a chat with my girlfriend and we literally talked about marriage.... She said she can't marry a guy from Ibadan because she feels Ibadan guys are bad, she fears that during marriage the guy might go violent on her and leave her and the children to suffer. I tried letting her know that not all Ibadan guys are bad tho,even asked her if she feels I could turn out to be that kinda guy and she said she doesn't think so maybe because I am educated....
Stylishly I am heartbroken though but I have got to call off the relationship....
But why can't tribalism stop in our country?



Moreover she is from Kogi state

brother the good knews is we ready to giv Divoc19 away for free. she from Nairaland, i dont want her, we dont want am no body want am & she been lonely for only 8 years.. but she obeys well & she can coook n clean better than house girl sir..U WANT??

Divoc19:
Tell me you don't know anything about Nigerian tribes and their traits. Unless you are an imported fellow Even at that, Nigerians derive pleasure from educating foreigners about our tribes

babes to day is yor locky day....am gonna hook u with Tbvxl....he a gentleman like me & he loves women & he looook afta u!!(((THANK ME LATER))

I don't like coooking abeg don't come and spoil my profile

Pumpumking:



brother the good knews is we ready to giv Divoc19 away for free. she from Nairaland, i dont want her, we dont want am no body want am & she been lonely for only 8 years.. but she obeys well & she can coook n clean better than house girl sir..U WANT??

Divoc19:
I don't like coooking abeg don't come and spoil my profile

dont wooory, i will marry u first!!(THABNK ME LATER)

Divoc19:
Tell me you don't know anything about Nigerian tribes and their traits. Unless you are an imported fellow Even at that, Nigerians derive pleasure from educating foreigners about our tribes

I know about this tribalistic stuff, experienced stuffs couple of times but it does not prompt me to do the same, Have had different tribes as friend and I don't segregate as long as you don't act stupid.

That is why I said at the bolded.

Divoc19:
We were all taught to be tribalistic from our childhood and neighborhood.
The only way out is to individually unlearn. But that won't save you from being a victim of a tribalistic person. It's just our system, get used to it.
Other systems have racism it is huge.

Tribalism in Africa is mostly used in a negative way that may later hurt us. Aside that, tribalism is a beautiful thing. My personal opinion though. I like to know about different tribes and their way of life to help me understand them better.

Lilsameey:
I know about this tribalistic stuff, experienced stuffs couple of times but it does not prompt me to do the same, Have had different tribes as friend and I don't segregate as long as you don't act stupid.