I see funny memes tagged "as we no see husband this year, na next year things we look up to.

Its an obvious fact that ladies cherish marriage more than men. I've seen matured ladies who say they dont give a damn about marriage but dance like they're high on X1 on their wedding day.

My opinion for ladies looking for husband is thus:

Date guys who are also planning to settle down. Guys only get married according to their timetable not under any other compulsion. Right?

Agreed. Ladies then list down factors that determine a guy's readiness: nice apartment, cool car and a good job.

Unfortunately these superficials don't determine a guy's readiness.

A guy's readiness is determined by his mindset. A lot of my friends lived in a single tiny room but moved out as soon as they found Miss right.

Nothing frustrates a lady as seeing a guy with nice stuffs but ain't mentioning marriage.

In conclusion, date guys within the net of settling down mindset.

Shalom

Holly Gram okay ladies. WTF MAN

I think really a woman shouldnt be ready to settle down as well until she is equally ready financially and gainfully can be supportive in marriage. I got things listed above to be qualified for marriage but my mantra has been “Its either im EXTREMELY RICH or we are both RICH”. Like, i cant be the only one with stable source of income nah, unlucky for me I’ve been meeting Students, unemployed ladies and the employed ones are “entrepreneurs” selling these stuffs online here and there. This is not defining the kinda woman i want really and thus I’m not looking to even marry until i find someone on almost same pedestal as i am. Thats my own calendar, until she’s ready then im gonna be ready as well