OwaliZiz:
The worst thing that can happen to a man, you can die from heart attack related ailment, create eternal enmity between children of both wives, hmmm I pity young men who still practice this

Candidlady:
Please I need a reason why any lady would agree to be a second wife?

Mexicanbreed:
Is Regina Daniel jobless, is she penniless

- MONEY

Mariangeles:
Only ladies who don't value themselves agree to be second wives.

Mariangeles:
Only ladies who don't value themselves agree to be second wives.

Mariangeles:
Only ladies who don't value themselves agree to be second wives.

Mariangeles:
Only ladies who don't value themselves agree to be second wives.

Mariangeles:

Everything!
The man was never and can never be yours.

Someodds:


Mugu...

Munzy14:

Zukwanuike

You hate polygamy eeeh...

Las las it is peace of mind and happiness that matters.

Classickj:

A man belong to no one.... Men with one wife still have side chick

Mariangeles:


Considering the kind of family that I come from...



Peace of mind and happiness in a polygamous setting? Let's not kid ourselves.

Mariangeles:


In a Christian marriage, a man belong to his wife and his wife belong to him.

Mariangeles:
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It is still too early to start bleating like a damn goat with diarrhea.

If you was fortune, speak fortunate words to others. It is the law of life.

Sterope:
Polygamy can be peaceful. It doeends ony he partoes involved. The man can be upfront tell his first wife he is going marry more. I know men who did this. In Islam, for exmaple marriage can contractual in business sense of that term.

Also, we live in a society many women willingly have relationships with married men. There are women who have sworn against polygamy but won't mind polygamy if where the man is their heart.

Mariangeles:


Considering the kind of family that I come from...



Peace of mind and happiness in a polygamous setting? Let's not kid ourselves.

Munzy14:

Joke apart, some have found peace and happiness in it..

Even staying with one partner owu kwanu guarantee for peace

The peace comes from within, well as you detest polygamy, you will meet who doesn't fancy it.

Again, most polygamous homes wasn't planned...A lot can lead a family to that Including procreation...If one marries and bear children, they couples won't know how blessed they are...
Then,as long as there is love, peace and happiness...They are icing on the cake.

Nwaanyi kwesiri I di sensitive...And fast to detect when hubby don they go astray and call him to order..If you display I don't care attitude, thats how problem start..before you know it, it becomes irredeemable.

Men are open to temptation, especially the married ones with good sense of family responsibility..Even your wife's friends go use style they press button...

Umu nwaanyi hehehehehehe ka m kwushi nga sha...Na who never see temptation go say taaaaaa..

Mariangeles:


Na wah o!

Woman work no dey finish? I nukwa I wu onye nche di...

Munzy14:

Ngwanu o...

Nke m wu Igwa gi eziokwu di na ya...

Okwa I si ichohu polygamy, ngwanu oru agbaala...

Mariangeles:


These are just excuses for man to be irresponsible sha. I can't deal.

I hate getting worked up. I hate not being able to trust someone I should.
I hate betrayal. I'm not sure I can forgive that.

Munzy14:


Even sisters betray themselves to secure the bag..


Most bad people today, were ones good people who became bad because of bad influence...Some couples will be moving good, loving and trusting eachother until a bad influence enter...The rest becomes history.

Again did you realize most times in a marital home, women are the problem? some go extreme in pushing the man to the wall and still expects him to be remote controlled..

Lastly, two must agree to work.

Magnoliaa:


This is too generic and sweeping and just: this is only how it is and only how it can ever be.

I'm not in a situation like that, so I can't really speak from experience and for people like that, but I'll bet there are women who actually considers that to be a very good value. Asin. According to their core principles, and strong values, being in a marriage to a man who is married to another is what perfectly fits into their agenda and what works for them. For whatever reasons they are getting from it.

Excluding the lies, and pain, and double dating (in the cases where the first wife isn't aware) ... I see no problem with it.

And keep in mind, even monogamous relationships can be devastating and distressing and just stormy.

So are those relationships issue because of the fact that we're with one person or two persons? Or it's the kind of people involved?

Polygamous homes can be as turbulent as monogamous homes. I don't think I'll say one supersedes the other...or is an automatic gateway to happiness. Because hypocrites can be in monogamous marriages. Fking other women other than their wives... and the openly polygamous ones do the same thing BUT with everyone on board. That is, you know what you're getting into with a polygamous man.

Sha I'm trying to see this here from every angle.

And although, polygamy tend to be used as a disparaging and shaming and patriarchal talking points by most men, which had made it unattractive and distasteful. It's been used as as an avenue for disrespect and all sorts against women. But how about in some societies like in the past, untainted by western and patriarchal ideals, that wholly practice such kind of polygamies? In and of themselves.

IF you CAN do RIGHT by your partners - thenn I'll say goodluck.

Tadeknkeepcalm:
Truly, people do not fit into a box. You're one of the last people I expect to have this kind of input.

Impressive nonetheless.

Candidlady:


what is bad in becoming a second husband

Hangulsaram:

I believe you should be wise enough to know that you can’t compare husband and wife.

Mariangeles:


Secure what bag?
Ike gwuru.
Ndi o gbasara, ha buru.

Otu ahu a wuhu otu e jiri zuo m, owuhukwanu otu m jiri to, so I can't accept that.
I cannot conform my mind to believing that.
I know there's better because that is what I've only and always known. Nothing can change that.
One only has to be careful who they choose, and not ignore the signs. (There are always signs)
I also believe people get who they deserve.

Jman06:
Most polygamous homes are war fronts because women are too competitive with other women. This is fueled by the fact that in such polygamous homes, there's always mixture of blood from outside as most of the wives are bound to resort to start meeting up their sexual needs outside. That is the case with even the Muslim homes but worst with the traditional religion homes.

I know many such polygamous homes in my village in Igboland where some men married as many as 4 to 5 wives in those days. The men were cucked silly along the line because they couldn't keep up. That was then o, when women were genitally mutilated and traditions were in place to checkmate infidelity. Try that now with modern feminists. The other day it happened at Edo, where the lady even had the guts to bring home her side guy to her matrimonial home!

All these guys here supporting polygamy in this day and age seem not to be thinking. Or perhaps they're cuckolds who don't mind being cucked I know the category of ladies who might be supporting it. Of course, the lazy ones who can't work and earn a living by themselves, the desperate ones who just want to answer Mrs and the Muslim ones who have been ignorantly brainwashed to accept polygamy as a norm. However, a common denominator among all of them is that they're highly likely to cuckold the man along the way.

LutanFyah:
In your small mind,you think it's every man that you can cheat on?

In your warped mind,polygamy is bad while monogamy is the best thing after slice bread?

You need to understand that not every thing is explained by science or Oyibo man wisdom.