Assalam alaikum.
actually,i started masturbating early this year around june.
i do it to the extent of ejaculating and i feel very ashamed after this sinful act.am willing to stop and have put many steps to stop masturbating but i just find myself breaching the rule i set for myself.
pls i need steps i can follow to stop.
be it duas,supplication or anything just help me.

thank you.

Eminemdstan:
Assalam alaikum.
actually,i started masturbating early this year around june.
i do it to the extent of ejaculating and i feel very ashamed after this sinful act.am willing to stop and have put many steps to stop masturbating but i just find myself breaching the rule i set for myself.
pls i need steps i can follow to stop.
be it duas,supplication or anything just help me.

thank you.

Opinion is divided among scholars on whether masturbating is haram or not. Google Dr Naik on it on youtube. Yusuf al-Qaradawi (in his book The Lawful and the Prohibited in Islam) quotes a leading scholar who regard it as no more than like answering a call of nature. But the majority of scholars hold the view that its haram. So, op don't condemn yourself unnecessarily.

mu2sa2:
Opinion is divided among scholars on whether masturbating is haram or not. Google Dr Naik on it on youtube. Yusuf al-Qaradawi (in his book The Lawful and Prohibited in Islam) quotes a leading scholar who regard it as no more than like answering a call of nature. But the majority of scholars hold the view that its haram. So, op don't condemn yourself unnecessarily.

so it's scholars that would hypocritically tell you what is good or not good?

How about what allah says from quran

Leverage2021:
so it's scholars that would hypocritically tell you what is good or not good?

How about what allah says from quran

Mr man, you don't know anything about Islam, so shut up.

Keep on exposing yourself!

Leverage2021:
Abdul can you show us the Quran verse that says Muslims should pray 5 times a day?

Let the world know the person who knows Quran between us with this

Too bad allah the all knowing would leave muslims stranded in the desert of confusion after they boast of ruling for everything

mu2sa2:
Opinion is divided among scholars on whether masturbating is haram or not. Google Dr Naik on it on youtube. Yusuf al-Qaradawi (in his book The Lawful and Prohibited in Islam) quotes a leading scholar who regard it as no more than like answering a call of nature. But the majority of scholars hold the view that its haram. So, op don't condemn yourself unnecessarily.

5. Those who safeguard their chastity (from illegal sexual intercourse).

6. Except from their spouses, or their dependents—for they are free from blame.

7. But whoever seeks anything beyond that—these are the transgressors.

Quran 23: 5-7

THESE VERSES (especially verse 7) MAKE IT CRYSTAL CLEAR THAT SEXUAL ACTS THROUGH ANY OTHER MEANS IS TRANSGRESSION IN ISLAM.

YOU CAN READ THE TAFSEER OF THESE VERSES FOR FUTHER CLARIFICATION.

APART FROM THE ABOVE, MASTURBATION ITSELF LETS YOU KNOW ITS A BAD THING BY LEAVING YOU WITH A FEELING OF GUILT AND SHAME AFTER EVERY ACT.

Eminemdstan:
Assalam alaikum.
actually,i started masturbating early this year around june.
i do it to the extent of ejaculating and i feel very ashamed after this sinful act.am willing to stop and have put many steps to stop masturbating but i just find myself breaching the rule i set for myself.
pls i need steps i can follow to stop.
be it duas,supplication or anything just help me.

thank you.

ALLAH'S DESIGN IS THAT ANY MAN/BOY WHO EJACULATES IS READY FOR MARRIAGE AND SHOULD BE MARRIED BY ALL MEANS.

WHEN FULLY MATURE MEN AND WOMEN ARE UNMARRIED, UNLAWFUL SEXUAL ACTS WHICH DAMAGE THE VERY FOUNDATION OF SOCIETY IS WHAT RESULTS.

YOU CAN PRAY, FAST AND STAY AWAY FROM ALL KINDS OF PORN MATERIALS TO STOP THIS ACT, BUT I ASSURE YOU BRO, THESE ARE JUST TEMPORARY MEASURES.

THE MOST POTENT CURE IS MARRIAGE AS SOON AS YOU CAN.

motayoayinde:


5. Those who safeguard their chastity (from illegal sexual intercourse).

6. Except from their spouses, or their dependents—for they are free from blame.

7. But whoever seeks anything beyond that—these are the transgressors.

Quran 23: 5-7

THESE VERSES (especially verse 7) MAKE IT CRYSTAL CLEAR THAT SEXUAL ACTS THROUGH ANY OTHER MEANS IS TRANSGRESSION IN ISLAM.

YOU CAN READ THE TAFSEER OF THESE VERSES FOR FUTHER CLARIFICATION.

APART FROM THE ABOVE, MASTURBATION ITSELF LETS YOU KNOW ITS A BAD THING BY LEAVING YOU WITH A FEELING OF GUILT AND SHAME AFTER EVERY ACT.

Your opinion aligns with that of those who say it's haram.

mu2sa2:
Your opinion aligns with that of those who say it's haram.

YEA, THAT'S THE CORRECT OPINION.

THE HALLMARK OF ISLAM IS DECENCY IN PUBLIC AND IN PRIVATE.

Eminemdstan:
Assalam alaikum.
actually,i started masturbating early this year around june.
i do it to the extent of ejaculating and i feel very ashamed after this sinful act.am willing to stop and have put many steps to stop masturbating but i just find myself breaching the rule i set for myself.
pls i need steps i can follow to stop.
be it duas,supplication or anything just help me.

thank you.

this are the dua

motayoayinde:


ALLAH'S DESIGN IS THAT ANY MAN/BOY WHO EJACULATES IS READY FOR MARRIAGE AND SHOULD BE MARRIED BY ALL MEANS.

WHEN FULLY MATURE MEN AND WOMEN ARE UNMARRIED, UNLAWFUL SEXUAL ACTS WHICH DAMAGE THE VERY FOUNDATION OF SOCIETY IS WHAT RESULTS.

YOU CAN PRAY, FAST AND STAY AWAY FROM ALL KINDS OF PORN MATERIALS TO STOP THIS ACT, BUT I ASSURE YOU BRO, THESE ARE JUST TEMPORARY MEASURES.

THE MOST POTENT CURE IS MARRIAGE AS SOON AS YOU CAN.

Where did allah design it in the koran? Stop misleading the boy, i just quoted the verses above.

Eminemdstan:
Assalam alaikum.
actually,i started masturbating early this year around june.
i do it to the extent of ejaculating and i feel very ashamed after this sinful act.am willing to stop and have put many steps to stop masturbating but i just find myself breaching the rule i set for myself.
pls i need steps i can follow to stop.
be it duas,supplication or anything just help me.

thank you.

Don't worry, keep masturbating till you suffer early discharge and looks older than your age.

Find a wife.....

Eminemdstan:
Assalam alaikum.
actually,i started masturbating early this year around june.
i do it to the extent of ejaculating and i feel very ashamed after this sinful act.am willing to stop and have put many steps to stop masturbating but i just find myself breaching the rule i set for myself.
pls i need steps i can follow to stop.
be it duas,supplication or anything just help me.

thank you.

Despite all the negatives things you heard about masturbation you decided to start it.No words for you at all,continue.. Nan body go tell you to stop..After many years of masturbation non be person tell me make I stop..Nan my health tell me.

Looks like the owner of this forum want to islamize nairaland.what's this nonsense below

Eminemdstan:
Assalam alaikum.
actually,i started masturbating early this year around june.
i do it to the extent of ejaculating and i feel very ashamed after this sinful act.am willing to stop and have put many steps to stop masturbating but i just find myself breaching the rule i set for myself.
pls i need steps i can follow to stop.
be it duas,supplication or anything just help me.

thank you.

Do you watch porn?

Successmind:
Find a wife.....

Many married men some with even more than one wife masturbate , its finding the root cause that triggers it that is the first step to stopping it.

Eminemdstan:
Assalam alaikum.
actually,i started masturbating early this year around june.
i do it to the extent of ejaculating and i feel very ashamed after this sinful act.am willing to stop and have put many steps to stop masturbating but i just find myself breaching the rule i set for myself.
pls i need steps i can follow to stop.
be it duas,supplication or anything just help me.

thank you.

masturbation dey destroy person life ó loss of memory erectile dysfunction loss of interest in the opposite sex delay of marriage and many more may Allah protect of from the evils and implications of masturbation and other sins

Very funny

I always laugh anytime i read about people trying to quit masturbating... More like saying they want to quit eating, drinking, sleeping and every other natural instincts.

Nobody can quit masturbation except you fornicate or get married...If after marriage you still find yourself doing it then you need to work on yourself but as long as you are still single and not allowed to fornicate, msturbation is a welcomed alternative both for males and females and GOD can never hold us accountable for having a sexual feeling he meticulously placed in us.

Sex is part of us and you cant wish or pray it away...sexual urge must come and trying to suppress it is foolishness of epic proportion.

Msturbation is never and will never be a sin. It is a habit THAT IF NOT CONTROLLED CAN BE DAMAGING.

The problem with people is that they condemn msturbation because they allowed themselves to get addicted to it and just like any other addiction that can destroy us even eating too much can destroy us.

Eminemdstan:
Assalam alaikum.
actually,i started masturbating early this year around june.
i do it to the extent of ejaculating and i feel very ashamed after this sinful act.am willing to stop and have put many steps to stop masturbating but i just find myself breaching the rule i set for myself.
pls i need steps i can follow to stop.
be it duas,supplication or anything just help me.

thank you.

Regret and seek forgiveness from Allaah, doing good deeds, and do not despair of my mercy of Allah are all fundamental to curing masturbation addiction. Be reminded that giving up hope in Allah is a major sin in Allah. Avoid isolation , porn watching and fast a lot and work on your skills ,career and work towards marriage and lower your gaze on all those women that dress seductively.

You are very sick!
To your dirty brain, you believed you've gotten a point you can brag on! Oponu tutu! Kafiri radarada!

But to bail you out of 'never ending darkness' you're shrouded in presently, check Suratul Hud, Chapter 11 vs 114!
May be it may save you from impeding hell fire you're bound for!

And you clicked that you're a muslim for you to comment here! Is that, whatever stupid form of your worship taught you?

Leverage2021:
Abdul can you show us the Quran verse that says Muslims should pray 5 times a day?

Let the world know the person who knows Quran between us with this

Too bad allah the all knowing would leave muslims stranded in the desert of confusion after they boast of ruling for everything

You better enjoy your masturbation in peace.

Why would people let archaic books purposely crafted by high members of the society to tame, restrain and imprison the minds of humans still be holding effect on people till this very day?

Honestly, many people are simply jokers. Still believing in silly fairytales like heaven, paradise, hell, rapture etc.

When you die, you're dead -- get over it. These religious books are just tales to keep us in line so humanity doesn't go haywire. Its akin to scaring your child that if she eats from the floor, she's eaten the devil's meal (just to prevent her from digesting bacteria), or if she steals from you, ojuju calabar will visit her in the night.

Common sense, but black people no go wan get. Y'all keep wasting your lives in the name of some better false hope in heavenly bliss. What a deprivation. Smh.

Masturbation is good for our health, according to the research, people who masturbate has chances of living up to 100 to 1200 years,why those who don't masturbate has chances of living up to 70 to 80 years before they die.my brother masturbate and Live long.

Leverage2021:
Op you are not alone

Thousands of Muslim men are masturbating and grouping asses of Muslim women cumming while on hajj

who name him Jesus Christ because is mother name him ishao?

Leverage2021:
Op you are not alone

Thousands of Muslim men are masturbating and grouping asses of Muslim women cumming while on hajj

Quite a useful info bro....just as many pastor has been raping their church members....which makes Christianity a religion of the Rapists I guess

Eminemdstan:
Assalam alaikum.
actually,i started masturbating early this year around june.
i do it to the extent of ejaculating and i feel very ashamed after this sinful act.am willing to stop and have put many steps to stop masturbating but i just find myself breaching the rule i set for myself.
pls i need steps i can follow to stop.
be it duas,supplication or anything just help me.

thank you.

engaging in fasting helps a lot....i pray may Allah guide us